This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's....
bottles!
Please use the prompts below to try to share as much relevant info as you can in a format that is easy for those reading to absorb/respond to. If you'd like to recommend/ask questions about more than one product, please copy/paste the prompts as needed.
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- What you like about it:
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Is there a [bottle] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
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- [bottle(s)] you're interested in:
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ETA: schedule for reference, and past links here:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1gjNtxy2Kd2JceTYYR5wkwVcpTbU-khgazhjcZnfI1y4/edit?usp=sharingmessage me if you want me to add categories!
Re: Product Spotlight Series: Bottles (w/o Jan 29)
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
And I'm still not clear about which ones work with the breast pumps? Or like, frozen breast milk... you thaw it, and then open the plastic bag thing, and empty that into the bottle? Or there are bottles that you just put the pouch in and then drink from that sort of?
Ugh it's like I have a mental block on this topic.
I encourage people not to stock up on one kind until you know your kid will take it. Start with the bottles that come with the pumps (a lot of my friends had success with medela bottles).
@icecubeinthedesert we used the medela steam bags to steralize pump parts and, if need be, the bottles. I didn't buy a separate steralizer.
@krashke my friend did!!
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Thanks @sunshineandwhiskey for saying you transfer.... Obviously not ideal but answers my question on the bottles needed for the pump.
Also, I really have my heart set on comotomo which I see you love. Did you notice the bottle tip over often because of the silicone base? That's only negative/issue I heard but not a deal breaker for me.
We went with Playtex Ventaire (after DD picked it over the Avent)
https://www.walmart.ca/en/ip/playtex-baby-bpa-free-ventaire-baby-bottles-newborn-gift-set/6000043237909
These are nice as they come right apart (5 pieces), widely distributed, can get your bottle brush in and really clean. Really like the bent angle! Made for easy feedings, as it mimics how you are holding the wee one. We are still using them for DD, for her bottle pre bedtime. So they last! We washed bottles daily.
As for sterilizing, (just pour screaming hot boiling water over and let sit on clean equipment), we do that with any new bottle or paci. Then maybe once a month for the first 6-8 months. A good scrub with hot soapy water, and rinse, separate from our dishes, was all that was recommended. Our GP, and hospital baby care class recommended not to over sterilize for most babies. (Unless there is a mitigating health factor)
This time around, we have a dish washer. I want a bottle cage like this:
https://www.munchkin.com/deluxe-dishwasher-basket-blue.html
Does anyone have any feedback?
5 - IUIs, 3 - IVF retrievals, 2- failed transfers (fresh, and frozen), PGS on second IVF resulted in 1 perfect emby, and DD.
3rd IVF w PGS resulted in 3! perfect embys. 1st transfer - Sep 2017 2 more on ice.
@doxiemoxie212 & @stephcat421 here is my basic plan as a FTM going back to work:
I've looked into the Lansinoh storage bags that you can pump into directly. I will pump into the bags at work, freeze them when I get home, clean all the parts and sanitize in the microwave bags. Then I can thaw and dump into whatever bottle my baby likes and send them to daycare with it in the bottles ready to go.
ugh typing it all out makes it seem exhausting.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Pumped into 8oz/10oz bottles, put everything in fridge after wiping with a Medela wipe
Pumped into same 8oz/10oz bottles, put pump parts in a gallon bag, and put in my bag, kept milk in fridge
Take bottles home
Pour into bottles for next day
**I would never pump more than 10oz per two sessions, otherwise I would just use additional bottles. If i had extra, i would transfer to a medela bag, and freeze. I didn't feel like i was wasting bags this way
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@krashke Correct! The bags are super expensive compared to all the other ones, and they are one time use. I loved the Kiinde system in theory, and i really wanted it to work. ugh.
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
I spent almost my entire weekend looking at baby stuff and I literally had dreams (nightmares??) about strollers and car seats.
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
One little word on pumps since they kinda go along this topic... on our hospital tour this weekend the lactation consultant who gave us the tour said if insurance is involved with getting your pump - start looking into it now because it can take a really long time to sort that out. I had no idea.
For pumping, I pumped into the Lansinoh bags and sent milk to daycare that way. I never gave her bottles myself at home since it was just me. I only made three months breastfeeding with DD but my goal is one year this time.
I have two samples of the MAM bottles from the registries we've done that I'll try with our little guy and see if it works. If it doesn't we'll probably just get a few more in different brands to see what he likes best. I'm not planning to stock up on bottles ahead of time. And we probably won't introduce bottles until after the first month.
I baby sat for a friend recently and they used their keurig to heat up the water in a mug and then put the bottle in the mug. That was kind of a PITA. We have an electric kettle that we could use the same way. Did you find that an actual bottle warmer was a necessity?
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Work pumping - I would pump into the Medela bottles at work, and I would combine the milk from my 3 work pumps and put them all into bags after I got home. I HATED pumping directly into the Medela bags that clipped onto the pump. It was an extra step cleaning the Medela bottles every night, but it made work pumping easier with less chance of spills. Up&Up bags used to be my favorite, but I heard somewhere the quality went down hill?? Lansinoh was my other go to.
Bottle Warming - DD was an August (hot AF) baby, so we used to give her bottles without warming them and she didn't care one bit. When we did warm them, I used to heat water using the electric kettle, pour the water into a wide glass measuring cup, and then dunk the bottles in.
Lipase! - PSA - This kinda sorta fits here.... Be careful how much of a freezer stash you build before you start testing out that frozen milk. Many mamas - myself included - have what is called 'high lipase' milk. After a period of time (different for everyone) the milk starts to take on a soapy and/or metallic taste. Some babies do not mind the taste, but some do. If you have high lipase, you can scald your milk before freezing it, and it helps prevent the problem. DD didn't mind the taste, but it totally grossed me out, so I used to scald my milk before freezing it anyways. It does kill some of the beneficial properties, so babies are advised not to drink 100% scaled milk. I fed her straight from the breast when we were together, sent fresh milk to school whenever I had it from the day prior, but scalded everything before I froze it for later use.
Brands to avoid in general?
Bottles- guys, I tried them all- MAM, muchkin latch, Avent, Dr Brown..... my kid would only drink from the super cheap Evenflo originals. We are talking like 12 pack of these for $10 bucks. My SIL gave me them for the baby shower and I scoffed at them. Was I ever in for a surprise when DD refused all the expensive, boob like things. You can also buy them as glass bottles which I felt were nicer but once she started holding her own bottle they were too heavy for her.
Edit because FFS that link was a mile long.
And to warm anything I pumped it was hot water in a glass, insert bottle, wait, test, feed. And for formula, we used warm water, from the tap. No need to heat. If we premade formula, (rare) we reheated in the bolting water in glass method. A good kettle is a great investment.
Didn't get into pumping, as a 1 year mat leave is a luxury, in that I didn't have to pump at work. I do want to see if a pump may help my production with this new LO. So I may look at getting one... especially as the summer heat picks up.
5 - IUIs, 3 - IVF retrievals, 2- failed transfers (fresh, and frozen), PGS on second IVF resulted in 1 perfect emby, and DD.
3rd IVF w PGS resulted in 3! perfect embys. 1st transfer - Sep 2017 2 more on ice.
Married - DH 27 y/o
BFP: 10/13/17
EDD: 6/22/18
As for pumping, I pumped into the medela bottles. Most of the time, I would be able to combine both bottles into one bottle and I'd put it in the fridge. I'd put my pump parts into a wet bag (highly recommend) and throw that in the fridge too. The next session, I would use one "old" but empty bottle and a new bottle. Repeat 3x per day. Towards the end, when I was only pumping 1-2x per day, I wouldn't combine bottles since I would typically fill both bottles. I never produced enough to have a freezer stash, so DS would just get what I pumped the next day.
I washed and steralized my pump parts every night.
One warning about dishwashing silicone - - if you use a scented soap or scented dishwasher soap, the silicone may smell like that scent. I recommend finding an unscented soap to wash all bottles, pump parts, pacis, etc.
Once I went back to work, DD was 9 months old, she was on solids and I had just found out about this pregnancy. My milk supply was pretty low, so I only pumped 1x a day. I pumped directly into the bottles I sent her with to my mom's house the next day. I loved that the Dr Brown bottles fit onto the pump for this reason. I also gave her the Medela bottles with Dr. Brown nipples/ collars to drink from.
With this baby, I will probably just buy more lids, collars and nipples for Dr. Browns and maybe another box of bottles. I will be returning to work after 13 weeks this time, so will need more bottles for pumping, and probably will not have as much of a freezer supply.
I also agree with @marcus7676 that the dishwasher detergent was not a hit with DD. She would drink for the bottle much easier if we handwashed vs. used the dishwasher. Even now I find that the nipples that I run through the dishwasher are filmy. I barely used my bottle sterilizer when DD was an infant, but now that she is over a year I am finding myself putting her bottles and sippy cups in the dishwasher and handwashing the nipples than sterilizing them. I also remember that the Dr. Browns box came with a tiny brush for cleaning the anti- colic parts that was the only tool I found that was able to reach into the pump valves. If these were not cleaned well they would easily get moldy.
BFP#4- 9/26 edd 6/5/18