My mother had a double mastectomy last June and has slowly been on her way to getting fake boobs. She had scheduled her final surgery right around my due date, long after she knew the due date. Whatever, I didn't care then. Well now she told me she's moving her surgery out because of the baby. But the way she said it was like it was an inconvenience for her to do so.. like I never asked you to move your surgery? And it's for implants... they honestly can't wait? That just rubbed me the wrong way. She bailed on me on my last u/s appointment, too. I cried. Stupid hormones. But I feel like she's not here like I need/want her to be. The other day DH and I called her to see if she wanted to get lunch with us and she said no, she was going to the casino. K... Well, not much longer we'll have free time. But the casino is her go to and that pisses me off even more.
Don't get me wrong, I love my mother dearly. She's my best friend. But right now I want to be a little selfish and have her to myself. I've always been there for her, during all her cancer treatments, back surgeries, and not to mention that my DH and I have helped my parents out tremendously financially. So is it too much to ask for her to come to a f&$king appointment with me, or lunch and not the casino!? -_-