Am so sad or is it the "hormones "?

bettyflora · December 2017

Hey everyone :)merry Christmas to you and family.. this is my second time pregnant and am 22 weeks gone and till now everything is going well..until I found out today that my mother and father in law are not happy about me been pregnant..I found it hard to believe but they keep making comments like " we don't need more family member" I have made up my mind not to have both in the hospital when my baby is about to come. I don't know if I should be disappointed or am I taking it wrong.. please is there anyone going tru the same or similar situation?

bjkay22 · December 2017

Hey everyone :)merry Christmas to you and family.. this is my second time pregnant and am 22 weeks gone and till now everything is going well..until I found out today that my mother and father in law are not happy about me been pregnant..I found it hard to believe but they keep making comments like " we don't need more family member" I have made up my mind not to have both in the hospital when my baby is about to come. I don't know if I should be disappointed or am I taking it wrong.. please is there anyone going tru the same or similar situation?

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In general our board discourages one off posts like these. They tend to clog up the board. If you are interested in participating in our community you should read the post titled READ THIS FIRST, introduce yourself in the introduction board, and change your username to something we can actually tag and remember so we can get to know you.

Regarding your post...your headline wants to know if you are feeling sad or if it’s hormones. Pretty sure no one can tell you the answer for sure without like some kind of licensed doctor but either way your feelings are your feelings so does it really matter if it’s hormones? I can’t believe I’m about to give actual advice to this kind of post but your child is not for your inlaws, it’s for you and your partner so it doesn’t really matter if your in laws want the baby because it’s not their baby, it’s yours...so I wouldn’t worry too much about it...

JNCPro3130 · December 2017

I'm going to second what @bjkay22 said. We would love to meet you so please introduce yourself. Read the thread called "Read this first".

It's hard to answer a question for someone we don't know. If you have been "sad" for awhile and it's impacting your day to day activities, I'd say talk to your doctor. If you're sad now over your in laws then I'd say talk to your partner to figure out the best way to handle this.