I was whining in bed to my darling stupid husband about what a mess the house is. He says, "you're just one person babe." How STRANGE... Here I was thinking that there are TWO adults here that are capable of cleaning in this house.
The drs office still hasnt called with an appointment date and time for this week. She was supposed to call friday. Ugh. Guess ill have to call when they get back from lunch.
Married since 5/23/09
Stepdaughter-2/17/02
DS #1 born 1/25/10
DS #2 born 4/25/12 BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks Trying for #4 since 11/2015
@acunamatada my H mentioned how dirty the house was too this weekend. I replied with a very sweet, “IM SO SORRY I NEVER MEET YOUR EXPECTATIONS” I wish they could know what being pregnant is like...
It is FREAKING COLD in our home. We keep it at 60 because we have oil heating and even keeping it at 60 is hundreds (like $250-400 depending) each bill. How can they even get away with that?!? This is Massachusetts! Heating is NOT optional! It is snowing, I am cold and sick, and just want to up the effing heat without breaking us!
@d_marie_23 oh my gosh that sounds awful. I wouldn’t be able to handle 60 degrees! Would an electric space heater help at all? Our basement is freezing and I keep one pointed at me when I’m down there and it makes a big difference. Also, I hope you feel better soon!
@d_marie_23, I’m in Massachusetts and sick, too! We are lucky that we have been able to turn up the heat because we have gas. I’m so sorry that you’re uncomfortable—maybe you could use a space heater, at least while you’re awake and still sick? The early cold here hasn’t helped!
@busymommy23@hillbillywife@d_marie_23 He meant well- but you could tell he knew he set himself up for that as soon as the words came out of his mouth. He more than willingly put away all of his clothes I left in baskets in our room today lol. Men are stupid.
husband knows I have a terriblr headache so he is sweet to take care of dd upstairs until he is rumbling and running upstairs creating a huge thunder above me... not so great for a headache
Thanks @ashbub714 and @sm05-2 Yeah, I pretty much live in a sweater, wool socks, heating pad and blanket, lol. Once this stupid bug passes all will be well again, lol.
@d_marie_23 oh my goodness! That is cold! We just hooked up an outdoor wood furnace so our house is 78 degrees this morning. I felt like I was going to cook to death. So we opened a window and it’s super windy so now I’m cold.
@acunamatada I’m glad he helped out! And knew his words were a mistake lol. I do that all the time where I realize as the words are coming out that I shouldn’t say them. Sigh. My DH didn’t say anything about the sink full of dishes that I still didn’t do so I’m grateful for that too.
My husband doesnt believe in pregnancy symptoms. I say how tired I am and he says, "you're always tired" or "you were tired before you got pregnant"
Oh and then commented on how dirty the house was. I said, "The broom is right in that closet over there, if you need an instruction manual, youtube is great"
I know it's Tuesday but I need a place to bitch- Out of nowhere a co-worker who was also one of my best friends (literally, she was even the first one I told about my m/c last year) stopped speaking to me this year. I have heard from others it is because of a silly reason, but she's very passive aggressive. I'm so, so tired of the side comments and attitude she gives me and makes to people that are mutual friends. I'm so confused how you can just drop someone out of your life and treat them like a piece of shit. I'm so angry and so hurt by this. It's been happening all school year, and today was no exception. Anyway, I need to get over it, but it still bugs me.
@WorkinWeezel wow, some friend. I'm sorry. She didn't say anything about why she has an issue with you? I don't understand how people can just drop someone out of their life like that like it's nothing.
My bitch is DuST: I’m highly allergic to it- hives whenever I clean. We had a cleaning lady BUT trying to cut expenses. I can only clean for about 30-40 min before hives appear.
@WorkinWeezel I had a close friend who did that to me as well. I found out what it was and wrote a letter to her apologizing for upsetting her. We moved on after that. It was hard to suck up my pride (the whole thing was so dumb), but keeping an old friendship was worth it. I still despise the lady who egged it on with her though.
@babygagnon2018 DH told me the same thing a few weeks ago about symptoms. You’d think he know better what hormones can do to us after our son and going through PPD. Guys can just be dumb and not think about what they are saying.
@Crystal321 and @acunamatada there is a lot of history with this person, but according to what she has so clearly bitched about to others about me is that she was still upset about a comment made in her eval last year (which we talked about and I had removed) and bc she was not placed in my room this year as a support person (not my call). Two very dumb things, but not dumb to her, evidently. But to treat me the way she has all school year, when we even remained close over the summer after the eval thing, is beyond me.
@WorkinWeezel that's crappy she is being so petty. I am a firm believer in telling someone you are upset with why and working towards resolution. Hope she grows up and stops being passive aggressive
Re: Monday Bitchfest 12/18
How STRANGE... Here I was thinking that there are TWO adults here that are capable of cleaning in this house.
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
P.S.
Men are stupid, @acunamatada and @hillbillywife Here's to hoping they will get the memo soon
He meant well- but you could tell he knew he set himself up for that as soon as the words came out of his mouth. He more than willingly put away all of his clothes I left in baskets in our room today lol. Men are stupid.
@acunamatada I’m glad he helped out! And knew his words were a mistake lol. I do that all the time where I realize as the words are coming out that I shouldn’t say them. Sigh. My DH didn’t say anything about the sink full of dishes that I still didn’t do so I’m grateful for that too.
Oh and then commented on how dirty the house was. I said, "The broom is right in that closet over there, if you need an instruction manual, youtube is great"
Out of nowhere a co-worker who was also one of my best friends (literally, she was even the first one I told about my m/c last year) stopped speaking to me this year. I have heard from others it is because of a silly reason, but she's very passive aggressive.
I'm so, so tired of the side comments and attitude she gives me and makes to people that are mutual friends. I'm so confused how you can just drop someone out of your life and treat them like a piece of shit. I'm so angry and so hurt by this. It's been happening all school year, and today was no exception.
Anyway, I need to get over it, but it still bugs me.
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018