I cant stand when DH is lazy. I had an issue with my car this morning....the passengers side window rolled down and wouldnt roll back up. Wouldnt be a problem but it was so cold we had a wind chill of 2 degrees. I call him and ask him to come look at it as I was just down the street and drove back to the house. Him, still laying in bed, says What am I going to do about it? He knows everything about cars but refused to get out of bed to help until I parked the car, went back in the house and said that I wasnt driving to work in this cold ass weather with the window down. I had to get on the highway for craps sake. He finally got up and rigged the window to stay up but did it all while complaining. Then proceeds to say that the whole inside of the door stuff is broken and it will cost a good chunk of money to fix. Ugh. Today sucks. I think I should've just went back to bed.
Married since 5/23/09
Stepdaughter-2/17/02
DS #1 born 1/25/10
DS #2 born 4/25/12 BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks Trying for #4 since 11/2015
You guys can send all your snow to Pennsylvania! I want it!!
@busymommy23 thay would irritate me too! You def can’t drive to work with the window down when it’s that cold! Broken window regulators suck! They always break at the most inconvenient time!
We are supposed to be getring snow tomorrow too! My friend in Texas was posting pics of all the snow in her yard!
@hillbillywife I know. Now I feel bad for yelling and am tired because I cried but at least the window is up. Lol. Damn hormones. Im sure he wasnt expecting me to go from 0-100 in no time though. Normally i I am very easy going and laid back....not today! Unfortunately, karma got me back because i banged my knee on the car door pretty bad whrn getting out at work this morning so now I am feeling that. Lol
Married since 5/23/09
Stepdaughter-2/17/02
DS #1 born 1/25/10
DS #2 born 4/25/12 BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks Trying for #4 since 11/2015
@mrsj1215 yeah I have lived in Houston all my life. This is probably the 4th time I remember seeing actual snow and definitely the highest I have seen it pile up (which I know is not high at all)
Oh my goodness did you scratch your knee? I end up hitting my knee on the corner part of the door all. The. Time. And it hurts so bad! Hope it feels better!
Its hard to reign in the emotions right right now lol. I feel like it’s especially hard when I feel like I’m not being listened to. Hopefully the rest of the day is better!
@hillbillywife no scratch that I can tell. I didnt look. I just bumped it really bad when I got out. Luckily it isnt bothering me anymore. Now heres hoping the way he rigged it stays until we can get it fixed. Gotta love car issues around the holidays.
Married since 5/23/09
Stepdaughter-2/17/02
DS #1 born 1/25/10
DS #2 born 4/25/12 BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks Trying for #4 since 11/2015
Today is my milestone day from my m/c last year. I had it at 10w4d (Dec 12). Today I'm 10w4d. So I'm hoping after this, and my appt on Monday and u/s on Wednesday, I'm in the clear.
Also, I'm secretly SUPER excited that we are supposed to get some snow tomorrow!!!!!!!! I usually get annoyed with snow but I'm so looking forward to it. It's just pretty and my kids get so excited.
ETA @lindsayleigh1989 same- I think because everyone's appt are coming up we are seeing it more than usual. FX for HH9M and prayers to those that are experiencing a loss currently
@mrsj1215 yeah I have lived in Houston all my life. This is probably the 4th time I remember seeing actual snow and definitely the highest I have seen it pile up (which I know is not high at all)
It's about the same for me.. I've lived in Louisiana my whole life& haven't seen snow much at all.. So when we get some I usually enjoy it!
Please send snow to southern CA!!! We need it!!! Pretty please, with a cherry and sprinkles on top? I promise not to be a self absorbed dingleberry!!
busymommy23 Would you like one of us, or a group of us to head over and explain to DH how important it is to not bitch and complain to a pregnant woman? I mean, I think he would REALLY get the picture if a gaggle of pregos let him have it. Maybe he would stop being lazy, too...we've got your back!
WorkinWeezel FX!!!! Sending you uber amounts of positive vibes!!
@lindsayleigh1989 Same. I just want to hug everyone and bake them a cake.
I'm feeling really anxious today. I have no symptoms, I don't feel pregnant and I'm so scared of something going wrong. Statistically my chances of a take home baby are good, we have a confirmed heartbeat, I've carried to term with no issues before, I'm just so scared today, I don't know why
Hugs @runsomewhere the first tri is such a mindf*ck.
@busymommy23 I had a similar experience with MH today but probably less imperative. DS was fighting the carseat hard, which he never does. I was having zero success getting him to comply so I asked H to come into the garage and help and you would think I asked him to walk to Alaska.
Speaking of Alaska, I haven't seen @AKFarmerBecky around in a while. Hope you are ok, mama.
Super jealous of everyone's snow! It is so beautiful!
All TW today made me sad I have my third US first thing Monday for viability and dating. DH can’t make it to this one. I should be measuring close to 9 wks then.
Hugs @runsomewhere the first tri is such a mindf*ck.
@busymommy23 I had a similar experience with MH today but probably less imperative. DS was fighting the carseat hard, which he never does. I was having zero success getting him to comply so I asked H to come into the garage and help and you would think I asked him to walk to Alaska.
Speaking of Alaska, I haven't seen @AKFarmerBecky around in a while. Hope you are ok, mama.
Super jealous of everyone's snow! It is so beautiful!
Definitely a mindf*ck!!! Hugs @runsomewhere! Definitely ready for 2nd trimester and the reassurance.
@WorkinWeezel Not this time around (thankfully). However, I have friends in Ventura County who have been evacuated and coworker who was evacuated yesterday for the Murrietta fire. It's incredibly hard to watch. My heart is breaking for the animals. Ugh...
Pregnancy insomnia is honestly my biggest enemy! Every night at 1 am I wake up and can not go back to bed until 4 ( which is when I get up for work). That said I am finally almost done watching gossip girl and the crown season 2 just came out! Surely I need more then this for the next 8 months so people what’s your favorite Netflix shows?
We are getting snow today too! DD’s are really excited and can’t stop talking about playing in it. We are also surprising them by taking them to see Santa at a local farm this morning when it’s supposed to start snowing which I think will make it even more exciting. They do a big breakfast, hot cocoa, etc. and you also get to see all the animals and go on a tractor ride to sing Christmas carols. It’s super cute but the girls have refused to sit with Santa the last couple years we’ve gone. I think my 4 year old will do it but my 2 year old is on a strict Santa strike.
Pregnancy insomnia is honestly my biggest enemy! Every night at 1 am I wake up and can not go back to bed until 4 ( which is when I get up for work). That said I am finally almost done watching gossip girl and the crown season 2 just came out! Surely I need more then this for the next 8 months so people what’s your favorite Netflix shows?
Oh my goodness I am right there with you! Every night all it takes is one small thing and I’m awake and can’t get to bed. Currently I’ve been up since 4 am. Yesterday I was up for three hours middle of the night after DD had a nightmare. It’s been like this for the past week. I don’t get up and turn the tv on but I mess around on my phone after a while of trying. As for Netflix I binged Master of None which is excellent, Scandal, Parks & Recreation, and Arrested Development. I’ll need some new ones when the baby comes and I’m up all night.
DS has been waking up around 4 most of this week and ending up on our bed. My side of course. Today it was 330! So i let him cry it out for 10 mins and he’s back down finally. I hate letting him cry but come on what happened to wake at 530/6? That i can kinda do. Plus he decided to fight going to bed the last two nights. And i was just getting over some insomnia too
Our 3 1/2 year old little dude has been having some serious issues with behavior at his preschool. To the point that they asked him not to come back until we got some help. He’s not learning or physically delayed so it’s been hard to get help. After hitting dead end after dead end, I finally found someone willing to advocate for us and he’s going to be enrolled in our city’s public preschool on an IEP. I’m SO relieved but also starting to get stressed thinking about him going four days a week and having to be there at 7:35. I’ve gotten used to lazy mornings! I know it’ll be totally worth it though and OMG all that time to myself
@WorkinWeezel and @wildtot, I hope your upcoming u/s appointments go well! It must be nerve-wracking to wait—I have my fx for both of you. @runsomewhere, it’s a total mindf*ck, isn’t it? I have the same freak out feelings every now and again.
Here’s hoping we all breathe easier in the second tri?
it’s started snowing here, too. It’s pretty, but feeling grateful that DH will shovel.
@WorkinWeezel@wildtot best of luck I have my 10w appointment on Monday and I'm a ball of nerves. @runsomewhere remember symptoms can come and go. I also told my doctor and he reassured me. When I was so sure things went wrong my us showed otherwise. Everything will be ok let's stay positive.
@zombiehoohaa where in so cal are you? I'm in Orange County!I'm tired of 78f weather!
In other randoms, I just burned my finger a bit while getting muffins from the oven, ugh!
Re: Weekend Randoms (12/8-12/10)
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
@busymommy23 thay would irritate me too! You def can’t drive to work with the window down when it’s that cold! Broken window regulators suck! They always break at the most inconvenient time!
@hillbillywife I know. Now I feel bad for yelling and am tired because I cried but at least the window is up. Lol. Damn hormones. Im sure he wasnt expecting me to go from 0-100 in no time though. Normally i I am very easy going and laid back....not today! Unfortunately, karma got me back because i banged my knee on the car door pretty bad whrn getting out at work this morning so now I am feeling that. Lol
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
Its hard to reign in the emotions right right now lol. I feel like it’s especially hard when I feel like I’m not being listened to. Hopefully the rest of the day is better!
edited to add tag @busymommy23
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
Also, I'm secretly SUPER excited that we are supposed to get some snow tomorrow!!!!!!!! I usually get annoyed with snow but I'm so looking forward to it. It's just pretty and my kids get so excited.
ETA @lindsayleigh1989 same- I think because everyone's appt are coming up we are seeing it more than usual. FX for HH9M and prayers to those that are experiencing a loss currently
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
busymommy23 Would you like one of us, or a group of us to head over and explain to DH how important it is to not bitch and complain to a pregnant woman? I mean, I think he would REALLY get the picture if a gaggle of pregos let him have it. Maybe he would stop being lazy, too...we've got your back!
WorkinWeezel FX!!!! Sending you uber amounts of positive vibes!!
@lindsayleigh1989 Same. I just want to hug everyone and bake them a cake.
@busymommy23 I had a similar experience with MH today but probably less imperative. DS was fighting the carseat hard, which he never does. I was having zero success getting him to comply so I asked H to come into the garage and help and you would think I asked him to walk to Alaska.
Speaking of Alaska, I haven't seen @AKFarmerBecky around in a while. Hope you are ok, mama.
Super jealous of everyone's snow! It is so beautiful!
Sometimes it just feels too good to be true.
Hugs @runsomewhere! Definitely ready for 2nd trimester and the reassurance.
@zombiehoohaa the fires are just breaking my heart. Are you near them at all? Stay safe!!
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015
@BusyMommy23 Good...scared straight...by pregnant women. Lol
I just woke up at 3:30am to discover that I have acquired my sons cold that he has had all week. Darn it
DS 11.8.12
Baby GIRL! due 7.4.18
Here’s hoping we all breathe easier in the second tri?
it’s started snowing here, too. It’s pretty, but feeling grateful that DH will shovel.
@zombiehoohaa where in so cal are you? I'm in Orange County!I'm tired of 78f weather!
In other randoms, I just burned my finger a bit while getting muffins from the oven, ugh!
BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
Trying for #4 since 11/2015