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radiantfate

(TW: Post mentions older child & loss)

Hello! Not at all new to TB, but I decided to jump in here because I remember how helpful this community was when I was TTC my first (now 9 1/2 years old). I'm 37, DH is 42 and we are TTC my second/our first together (older DD is from my first marriage, so DH's stepdaughter). We are on month #12 TTC, we had a c/p back in June and no other successes. It took 12 months with DD, so I'm hoping that's a good omen. Anyway, looking forward to getting to know you all.

vlagrl29

hey there! welcome!  We are the same ages and my DH will be 42 on friday.  we are also ttc our #2 and had a cp about a year ago and that took 6 months.  we are on 11 months right now post loss.  GL!

ndz2018

@radiantfate HEY!  Sorry to hear about you CP.  I’m also 37 and he’s 42! Unfortunately we had to move straight to IVF due to low sperm count and they also discovered I had a septate uterus that I’ll be having surgery on Jan 8th. We are doing our retrieval this month as soon as AF starts which should be in the next few days! 
Glad to have you in our TTCA 35 group! 

radiantfate

@vlagrl29 So sorry about you went through a cp as well. Good luck to you this month!

@ndz2018 Thank you Best wishes to you for your surgery and retrieval! 

mdogan29

Welcome @radiantfate !  This is a great board and great bunch of ladies! I've been here for about 4 years since TTC for my first who will be 3 in March after a loss in Oct 2013. I was 36 when I started to TTC, took 7 months to get pregnant and then had a loss. This group helped me through the tough times and was able to finally get that BFP after 7 months of hard work and meds+supplements, acupuncture, etc. We were about to look in ivf when it finally happened and I turned 38 right before I had my DS. I'm back now and will be 41 in January, working towards #2! I have FX for all of us!!

radiantfate

Thanks @mdogan29! Best wishes to you on #2!!

mdogan29

@radiantfate thank you!!! FX for you too!