Pregnant after IF

Peek a Boo Baby anyone?

Prayingfor2Prayingfor2 member
edited November 2017 in Pregnant after IF
16+4 weeks with little Baby C. Been on bump watch for a couple weeks and just when I think I have something to show, it disappears in the morning. 

Total weight loss: 5lbs -morning sickness and stopped progesterone 
Total gain: 0.5lbs

Have not felt like eating. Salads and soups are my go too meals. Orange juice at night to keep my sugars level through the night. The occasional junk because pregnancy cravings are fun, right?!?!

I know every body gains differently during pregnancy. But my co-workers are telling me I am losing weight in my face. My wedding ring won't stay in place. My doctor has already stated that I should have gained more than 0.5 and I dread going in on Monday with no gains in two weeks.  Sigh.

This is normal, right? I am taking prenatals and eating healthy and snacking when I can between clients. 

Re: Peek a Boo Baby anyone?

  • My Mom only gained 8 pounds total when she was pregnant with me. I have also had friends who didn’t gain a pound until 5 months. As long as you are eating enough I wouldn’t stress too much. 
    TTC 4 years. 7 failed IUI's with either Clomid, Femara and/or Trigger Shots. Started IVF journey in February 2017. Polyps removed in May. 1st IVF Transfer September 26th. BFP. Expected due date 6/14/18. Baby boy born 5/25/18 at 6 lb 9 oz. My bundle of joy. 
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  • @prayingfor2 everyone is different I know plenty of moms who loose 5-10 lbs or more in the first tri, and it may take a while to start gaining. What matters most is how your baby is growing. I know how hard it can be to eat when you feel like crap. Just keep trying. protein is good if you can get it (yogurt, nuts, cottage cheese, meats) but sometimes those are the least palatable things in the world. This time around my "all day sickness" did not call it quits till closer till 20 weeks, then I had more of an appetite but now in the third tri I have a lot of food ambivalence, where nothing seems appealing, I eat because I should but not because I want to. Hang in there
    *TW*
    TTC 1/2012
    Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
    6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
    TTC #3 5/2016
    Restarted Fertility tx
    IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17

  • I had the same thing: by 5pm I had a bump, but in the morning it was gone. It’s definitely a bloat issue. I had the opposite problem you are having though, I gained 15-20lbs in the first trimester, but so far only 2lbs in the third tri (I’m 36weeks tomorrow). I have one coworker who lost 5lbs in the first tri and one who only gained 5 by 17weeks....everyone is different! 
    Me: 39 SO: 36

    Dx: low progesterone, possible DOR - officially "unexplained"

    TTC#1 since November 2015
    9/16/2016 IUI#1 - BFN
    10/12/2016 IUI#2 - BFN
    1/21/2017 Clomid/IUI#3 - BFN
    March 2017 IVF: BFP! (beta#1 191, beta#2 378!) - it's a boy! DS born 12/6/2017

    TTC #2 since July 2018
    May 2019 IVF #2: BFP! (beta#1 346, beta#2 646) - vanishing twin at 8 weeks. Baby B still going strong - due 2/8/20!
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • I only gained 20lbs total with a twin pregnancy and it didn’t start gaining until the third trimester because my doctor fussed at me constantly so I started making myself eat constantly. I was told at 13 weeks by the specialist that I needed to gain about 40pounds. But my twins were perfectly healthy.

    TTC for 8 years.
    Started in 2008 with timed intercourse, ovulation testing, no official monitoring.
    OB-GYN recommended Clomid and timed intercourse, attempted for 6 straight months.
    First surgery June 2009 (OB-GYN): diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis and large hydrosalpinx on right tube.
    Second surgery (July 2009, RE performed this): Right tube had to be removed, lots of adhesions removed.
    Attempted "trying on our own" as per RE recommendations, unsuccessful 5-6 months.
    HSG performed December 2009: left tube open.
    February 2010: started Femara and timed intercourse, attempted 6 months, no BFPs.
    Took a break for a while.
    January 2011: started IUI process, ovaries never properly responded to medications, 6 failed attempts, never actually completed an IUI.
    Took 2012-2014 off due to depression and frustration (side note: did complete grad school to become a nurse practitioner- great distraction).
    2015: started seeing RE again, went through tons of testing and HSG, left tube now blocked, only option is IVF.
    September 2015: Started first official IVF cycle, cancelled in October due to large cyst on left ovary.
    October 2015: started on birth control for 2 months.
    December 2015: attempted to start another IVF cycle, cysts on both ovaries on initial ultrasound, left was huge, cancelled to aspirated cyst.
    January 2016: Cyst back, surgery for ex-lap, cyst and adhesions removed.
    March 2016: Attempted second IVF cycle, estrogen way too high, cyst back, cancelled again.
    April 2016: Third attempted IVF cycle, 7 eggs retrieved, 2 mature (but not great) embryos made to fresh transfer, neither implanted.
    May-Sept 2016: Break to regain sanity.
    Sept-Oct 2016: Attempted fourth IVF cycle, very successful, cyst still on left but we ignored. 7 mature "great looking" eggs retrieved, 4 mature embryos made it to day 5 transfer. Transfer aborted due to large amount of endometriosis fluid in uterus.
    FET of 2 embryos completed on 12/12/16.
    12/22/16 1st Beta 179 BFP!!!
    12/24/16 2nd Beta 449!!
    EDD 8/30/17 with two girls!!!!!

    Audrey (4lb 8oz) and Olivia (6lb 6oz) born 8/10/17!!

  • Thank you, ladies!! Peace of mind here!! 
  • Same here. I gained 0.5lbs after the first trimester and gained an additional 1lb by week 16. My endocrinologist and my MFM wasn't concerned about my lack of significant weight gain in first trimester but urged me to gain more weight in the second trimester. I was already underweight pre-pregnancy and that was an additional concern as well. I'm currently 19 weeks and I noticed more weight gain just in the last three weeks. That may also be due to bloating though (TMI warning: constipation!!). 
    Me: 41  DH: 46
    Unexplained infertility/AMA, polycystic ovaries, insulin resistance
    FET#1(July 2017): eSET of first of 4 PGS-normal embryos, DS born 3/30/2018
    FET#2(Oct/Nov 2019): eSET  
  • @cashewchicken, this is funny!! My husband who anxiously awaits pictures of "the bump" kept telling me I just needed to fart!! Sure enough by morning he was right. 

    Im not constipated, still regular, but man am I gassy! Lol

    My sister was telling me that with my first (10yrs) I barely had a bump when I went in for my anatomy scan. I don't remember this. I remember peeing myself when I stood up. No one told me to empty my bladder.
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