Hi Everybody,
It's checkin time! Congratulations for any BFP's and hugs to anybody who needs one.
Congratulations
@tinabell8 for your BFP! Let me know when you consider yourself graduated.
How is everybody doing?
2017 BFP Hall Fame
BecauseLove dx: amenorrhea, PCOS Rx: IVF
MandyBeeSLP: dx: low progesterone, borderline PCOS, vitamin D insufficiency Rx: IUI with letrozole
MountainLady: dx: Unexplained, Rx: Letrozole
kd0202: dx: Unexplained, LPD Rx: Clomid 50mg
pawcall: dx: MFI(morph) + testing Rx: unmedicated IUI
PoeMasque dx: unexplained Rx: IVF
MJDsquared : dx: PCOS Rx:Letrozole
greenange dx: anovulatory PCOS w/insulin resistance Rx: Metformin, Letrozole, trigger + TI
mrswifeytoad: dx: PCOS Rx: metformin + Clomid
SunflowerMama428: dx: pcos, blocked fallopian tube Rx: clomid
vintageandrea90: dx:PCOS Rx:Femara + trigger + TI
MooFish2364 fibroid + endo Rx: surgery + TI
PAGING:
@emgem819 dx: PCOS, Rx: provera, femara + Bravelle
@jmr1515: dx: Mild MFI/morph, fibroid Rx: Surgery + TI
@mackenzie07 dx: PCOS and Endo Rx: metformin, letrozole, ovidrel
@mandasand: dx: low AMH Rx:IVF (Lupron, Menopur + Follistim)
@Mythril: dx: PCOS (anovulatory) Rx:levothyroxine, metformin and femara + TI
@sarah0985: dx: PCOS, possible blocked tubes Rx: Lap
@SM746830: dx: PCOS, blocked tubes Rx: Surgery, Clomid
@smokinangel: possible PCOS, MTHFR gene, slight MFI Rx: trying to regulate hormones naturally
@starlitfae dx: MFI & balanced translocation, thyroid Rx: ivf with pgd testing
@MountainLady: dx: Unexplained Rx: Letrozole + IUI / possible IVF
@Kate437: dx:anovulatory Rx:Letrozole + trigger
@Tops-2: dx: anovulatory PCOS Rx: Metformin, Letrozole & TI
@SP128: in testing/unexplained
@honeybeebub: dx:septate uterus, MTHFR Rx: septum resection surgery, baby aspirin & progesterone
@eranvo27: dx: anovulatory PCOS Rx: metformin
@kristimh80: dx: unexplained Rx: Injectables + trigger + IUI
@fluffybookworm: dx: Anovulation + insulin resistance Rx: Metformin + prometrium + testing
@Asampson87: dx: unexplained + MFI Rx: metformin + testing
@hannahlce: dx: anovulatory PCOS Rx: metformin + letrozole
@tinabell8: dx: unexplained, RPL Rx: IUI w/ letrozole
@mac627: dx: DOR Rx: Follistim, trigger, IUI
NEWCOMERS:To be added to the Weekly Checkin, please answer the following:
1. How long have you been TTC?
2. What is your diagnosis?
3. What is your current Rx plan?
QOTW: What was the first job you ever had?
Re: TTTC Checkin: 11/08/2017
My name is Jamie, I put my post up in a new thread explaining my story, short version is my hubby and I have been TTC for a year and a half now - seeing an RE for about a year. We took a short break for both sanity and money (and got married in the interim!) and now are back at it! We are currently saving for IVF which is the next step according to our RE (3 failed IUI cycles, 2 cancelled cycles) - diagnosis seems to be "unexplained" - my internal area looks good and hubbys sperm is apparently "super" (high count and motility). We just can't seem to get sperm and egg to connect!
Currently I am taking Femara at the begining of my cycle for the next few months, prescribed by my RE to help with follicle growth while we are saving for IVF on the off chance we can get sperm and egg to connect naturally. I'm not being monitored though which is odd for me after 6 or 7 months of non stop blood tests and ultrasounds! I should ovulate today or tomorrow according to both Flo and FF. So entering the TWW!
Hmmm first job was babysitting, first job at a "company" was child care at our local YMCA (seeing a pattern? lol).
- Jamie
AFM still hanging out in the TWW and trying to be positive. I told DH today that if this embie doesn’t implant I’m blaming my idiot colleagues for the unnecessary stress they cause every. single. day. I’ll probably POAS on Sunday since my beta is on Monday and I don’t want to be surprised at work.
QOTW I was a bagger at a grocery store. I guess they don’t really have those now.
AFM I just finished this round of Femara. Saturday I go in for an ultrasound to check the status of the follicles, and then I'll do an HCG trigger shot, preceding my next IUI (Mon or Tues). I get super emotional about the holidays, and I'm dreading the next couple BFNs.
QOTW: I worked at Subway. My dad got me the job b/c he knew the owner--she said she never hires teenagers but was making an exception for me. Well...she shouldn't have. She was super strict (would stand over us with a stopwatch while we made sandwiches) and the job just sucked, but I was a terrible employee. I was terrified of getting in trouble, which just made me jumpy and slow at my job. I never even picked up my last paycheck--that's how much I hated that job.
TTC #1 since: Aug 2016
Dx: Unexplained
6 failed IUIs on Letrazole & Ovidrel
Final (#7) IUI - BFP!
EDD: Nov 2018
Team Pink!
Me: 31/DH: 30
QOTW: I was a receptionist after school for a technology company that had contracts with the government. It wasn't bad, eneded up working part time after I graduated. Some of the stuff they built got put on space ships that actaully launched so that was pretty cool!
Me: 34 - SO: 40
TTC #1 since 8/2016
FINALLY diagnosed with anovulatory PCOS 11/2016 (Insulin resistance and multiple cysts on both ovaries)
Miscarriage on 7/19/17 at 7 weeks
Miscarriage on 10/16/17 at 5 weeks
DH and I had our IVF consult today. We both really liked our new doctor. She was WAY more high energy than I was anticipating but she was very nice, thorough, and answered every single one of my questions (which went on for 2 full pages). We also had to meet with the financial advisor who was also very nice and helpful.
She wants the AMH and DH's SA redone, just for their references. We got the AMH out of the way today. We go in again on the 27th to do the SA and my uterine mapping. We also meet with the staff psychologist that day (it's their clinics policy any couples doing IVF have a one time appointment with her).
They are putting me on birth control for 4-6weeks first, once my next cycle starts, which should be around next weekend. I was kind of hoping to start right away, but I knew that would be a possibility. That should put us around a late December or early January transfer.
Our big discussion was financing on the way home. They do have a "shared risk package" (they called it something different though). 3 fresh cycles with all the resulting FETs from the retrievals.....if no baby after all that, 75% refund. DH and I are both leaning away from that and considering a single fresh transfer with up to 4 FETs if needed after. It may bit risky, but we both feel that, at the end of the day it leaves us with more options. Getting our money back if, God forbid, all those fresh cycles and FETS failed, and still having no baby and lost potentially a couple of years, I feel would be worse than doing something a bit more cost manageable and exploring fostering/adoption if it didn't work out. At this point, I don't feel that I HAVE to have a child that is biologically linked to me. I just want a baby.
Sorry.......pretty long post this week. Hugs to anyone who needs it.
TTC #1 Since: April 2015
Unexplained Infertility
Cycle 1&2 : Clomid 50mg- BFN
Cycle 3: Letrozole 2.5mg- BFN
Cycle 4: Letrozole 5mg- BFN
Cycle 5: HSG-normal
Clomid 100mg+ Estrace- BFN
Cycle 6: Letrozole 5mg+Trigger shot+IUI+Progestrone- BFN
Cycle 7: Letrozole 5mg, Cyst found during follicle check
Cycle 8: Birth control to treat left ovary cyst
Cycle 9: Letrozole 7.5mg+Trigger shot+IUI+Progesterone- BFN
Cycle 10: Letrozole 7.5mg, 2 Cysts found during follicle check
Cycle 11: Clomid 100mg+Estradiol+Trigger shot+IUI+Progesterone- BFN
Cycle 12: Clomid 100mg- BFN
Cycle 13-16: Natural attempts while awaiting IVF
Cycle 14: IVF-BFN
After devoting myself to getting more answers on my health, I'm back. It's kind of a long, boring, frustrating story summed up to: there's nothing "wrong" aside from mild nonspecific hormonal imbalance and DH having low motility.
DH - low motility
Rx: Levothyroxine, misc supplements
@soehlerk hope this IUI works out for you! Stay positive- maybe you won’t have any more BFNs!!
@eranvo27 definitely feel ya on all the baby posts! I’m happy for other people but sometimes it’s just like I’m rubbing it in my own face. Like the same day as my last BFN, I went online and a pregnancy announcement was the first thing on my feed and I thought why am I even on here?? Why am I doing this to myself?? Oy.
@hoffmanr7 so glad you liked your doctor! It’s disappointing that you can’t start right away but at least you’re on the path there now. It will come before you know it!
@BenJay welcome! It’s frustrating when there’s nothing particular wrong and it just won’t work out. Are you being monitored at all?
@Bababatty keeping my fx for you!
AFM I started my stims for my first IVF cycle. Go in tomorrow for another HSG since my doc thinks it helps with the IVF process. So not looking forward to that. Ugh. But if there’s a chance it’ll help I guess it’s worth it!
My first real job was as a page in the library. Absolutely loved it!!
dx: DOR
8 cycles Clomid (1 BFP & MC)
IVF #1
@thothscribe81 welcome!
@hoffmanr7 I'm glad to hear you liked your dr. Good luck making the decision on which direction to go with financing!
AFM- I had another appointment with my second opinion Dr and she didn't really have much else to offer. She said we are doing everything we possibly can and just need to find the right embryo. AF should be here by Friday or Saturday and then we will start the process for our ERA and my next FET should be somewhere around Christmas. Short answer, waiting.
QOTW- My first job was at Limited Too and I made $5.50. I was going to work at Claire's but when Limited Too offered me a quarter more an hour I jumped at it instead haha.
DX: PCOS/Unexplained Infertility/MTHFR Mutation
TTC since December 2014
Fresh Transfer: Gonal, Menopur, Cetrotide. ~ Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1: 1st Beta- 3,792~ 2nd Beta- 4,227~ BFP ~ Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET #2: 1st Beta 207~2nd Beta 235~ BFP~ Miscarriage at 6 weeks
FET #3: 1st Beta 18~ 2nd Beta 44~BFP~ Miscarriage 5 weeks
FET #4: 1st Beta 50~ 2nd Beta 97.7~ Miscarriage 6 weeks 5 days
FET#5: 1st Beta 29~ 2nd Beta 109~ 3rd Beta 227~ 4th Beta 661~ Miscarriage 5 weeks 3 days
Miracle Natural BFP Estimated Due Date June 2019~ God is good
2 snow babies
My doctor has been great, working through recommendations from my naturopath (whom I have stopped seeing), because both experts go "something's off, maybe try losing weight?" Having thyroid problems makes losing pretty much impossible but I feel less puffy since I started Metformin.
We're in a stage of just doing whatever won't hurt our chances.
DH - low motility
Rx: Levothyroxine, misc supplements
Welcome to the T-TTC board! I'm both sad and happy you are back, and hoping this TWW ends in a BFP for you.
@Bababatty - really really hoping you have a BFP soon. Keeping FX. Sunday will be here before you know it!!! xoxoxox I want this to be the one!
@soehlerk - GL with the IUI this week!
@eranvo27 - glad to hear you are feeling a little better. FB sucks.
@hoffmanr7 - I love the long posts! I'm sorry you need to suppress (what a drag!) but I hope it goes by fast. I was so upset when they put me on BC - I wished I'd done it before the consult - and waiting the extra month seemed like torture. But once I started stimming, it went fast.
So you're thinking of opting for the one cycle with up to 4 FETs and not the shared risk? I think that's prudent, especially given your age. Regardless, I hope you don't have to make a decision before you have your AMH results - you will definitely know more then.
I'm really hoping this IVF cycle is the one for you!!!! Hoping your baby is going to be here soon!
@BenJay - OMG! YOU'RE BACK!!!!
I have missed you so much! So I am happy and sad you are back!!!!! Obviously, it's selfish of me to be happy... I wish you were pregnant and outta here. And I'm sad you're not pregnant. But I am glad you are back! I'm sorry you don't have more of an explanation for what's going on, I hope something helps with your thyroid and you get KU-ed.
@mac627 - GL with the stims!
@Worldtravler0522 - Come on AF!
AFM: Preparing for FET. I had my first PIO, administered by DH. He was surprised how hard he had to push. FET should be on Monday.
QOTW: Dairy Queen, baby.
DH - low motility
Rx: Levothyroxine, misc supplements
AFM: I am now 4DPO and using all of my strength to resist testing (even though I know its WAY too early) haha. I'm hoping at least one of our two eggs has fertilised and I'm actually feeling fairly cautiously confident this cycle.
**TW** Weirdly, when I got pregnant before I had this weird thing where I could smell cucumber from really far away in the first few weeks, before I even knew I was KU, and yesterday I could smell cucumber for across the office, so I'm using that as a good sign
QOTW: I was a stable hand at a local equestrian centre
TTC #1 since July 2016
Dx: PCOS, on Metformin since Feb 2017
@hoffmanr7 Hi! My hubby and I actually made the same decision about the shared risk package option! It was double the price of the next one down and we decided that we would rather take our chances with the 2 transfers the lower priced package cost and then if that doesn't work we can explore adoption. Theres obviously a pull towards the option that gives you money back if it doesn't work - but I feel the same as you do, my whole goal is to have a baby and my RE was optimistic IVF will work for us. We thought taking the less costly option and having money left over for the possibility of adoption was the better option for us. Good luck with all the stuff leading up to your transfer!
@eranvo27 I feel you on the baby posts - halloween was especially hard because I love the holiday and can't wait to celebrate it with a little one in the house! Seeing all the posts of friends kids dressed up was tough! Hopefully you have a better week this week! *hugs*
@funkykey Hi!!! I'm both happy and sad to see you here again too! Good luck with your FET on Monday! I've got my fingers crossed for you!!! *hugs*
I will say that one of the differences this time around is that my sister-in-law is also trying to get pregnant. She and her husband are pretty early on in the process but its comforting being able to drop her a text or a phone call when I'm feeling especially stressed or sad about everything. She at least "gets" it even if she's not in the "trouble ttc" stage, she knows how it feels to be taking tests every month and over analyzing symptoms, etc..!!
@thothscribe81 I know what you mean about Halloween. All those cute pics of babies/kids in costume was so hard.
TTC #1 Since: April 2015
Unexplained Infertility
Cycle 1&2 : Clomid 50mg- BFN
Cycle 3: Letrozole 2.5mg- BFN
Cycle 4: Letrozole 5mg- BFN
Cycle 5: HSG-normal
Clomid 100mg+ Estrace- BFN
Cycle 6: Letrozole 5mg+Trigger shot+IUI+Progestrone- BFN
Cycle 7: Letrozole 5mg, Cyst found during follicle check
Cycle 8: Birth control to treat left ovary cyst
Cycle 9: Letrozole 7.5mg+Trigger shot+IUI+Progesterone- BFN
Cycle 10: Letrozole 7.5mg, 2 Cysts found during follicle check
Cycle 11: Clomid 100mg+Estradiol+Trigger shot+IUI+Progesterone- BFN
Cycle 12: Clomid 100mg- BFN
Cycle 13-16: Natural attempts while awaiting IVF
Cycle 14: IVF-BFN
Let's get merry, ya'll!
DH - low motility
Rx: Levothyroxine, misc supplements
TTC #1 since: Aug 2016
Dx: Unexplained
6 failed IUIs on Letrazole & Ovidrel
Final (#7) IUI - BFP!
EDD: Nov 2018
Team Pink!
Me: 31/DH: 30
@funkykey keeping fingers crossed for your fet Monday!
@thothscribe81 I agree about having someone else close to you TTC. One of my best friends was too, and it was really helpful for the three months she was trying lol. Now that she’s KO not so much! I can still talk with her because at least she knows what’s going on and is knowledgeable. When I talk to some people it’s like I’m just educating them on IF instead of really getting support. Still helps to talk about it though. I’m just now starting to open up to some people about it and get more involved here too.
I had my third HSG today. @Bababatty Sooooooo uncomfortable. Ugh. Lots of cramping. My first one was HORRIBLY uncomfortable, my second one was at least quicker and this one was right in the middle. I hate them so much. They won’t make me do it again unless I’m still TTC after 60 days so I’m really hoping I’m almost done!
But it went well - everything looks good. And I already have some follies creeping up to 14! Eek! They want me to start ganirelex tomorrow morning! I’ve only been stimming since Tuesday. Now of course my ER is potentially moved up to next Wednesday or Thursday. This seems so soon to me but I responded quickly during my IUI cycles too so I guess that’s about right.
dx: DOR
8 cycles Clomid (1 BFP & MC)
IVF #1
TTC #1 since July 2016
Dx: PCOS, on Metformin since Feb 2017
UPDATE:
Just got back from the doctors for my ultrasound.
I only had 1 of the 4 follicles grow at all
But the one is now 19mm and she did the trigger shot, she said the size and quality was really good of the one follicle I had and said my uterus lining looked perfect for implantation.
I am crossing my fingers, that this cycle will still work.
The hubby didn't go to the appointment but when I told him, he was kinda bummed too but we can't get too bummed because there is a really good one, so we just have to make this one work.
@Knottie1467155066 That sucks you didn't have more grow, I remember how disappointing it was to be on all the meds and still not get more than one mature follie! But one is all you need so hopefully it turns into the sticky little bean you are hoping for! Fingers crossed for you!
Maybe I'll attempt just one recipe? Or just practice my icing technique? (Also - from a separate thread but still... Good luck with your interview!!!)
@tops-2 - keeping FX for you.
@thothscribe81 - I have such a hard time with the holidays. Even looking at Christmas ornaments, I had to stop myself from being sad about the "baby's first christmas" ones.
@Knottie1467155066 - I'm so sorry about the follies. Really hoping that this one is the one! Just remember - it only takes one!
ps. totally unrelated - would you consider changing your username so it's easier to type? I think you can do it through The Knot. Might only be worthwhile if you plan on being really active on here though, and maybe you'll get pregnant this week, so it won't matter.
@thothscribe81 glad you can look at the positive! Being an aunt will be really exciting too.
I’m feeling better after yesterday’s HSG. Started ganirelix this morning. That needle is so dull! Ugh. Not looking forward to starting my days with that... Who makes these shots anyway? Can’t they make sharper needles?
dx: DOR
8 cycles Clomid (1 BFP & MC)
IVF #1
We BD Thursday night, Trigger Shot Friday Morning, BD Satuday Night, BD Sunday Morning, & BD Sunday Night.
Praying we caught my egg
@funkykey Good luck on your transfer today!! I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you!
Hubby and I plan on testing the 23rd, one because it's our 2 year anniversary and two because it's Thanksgiving.
Do you think that would be too soon?
I would be 13 days past trigger and 12 days past ovulation.
I think this was asked before - but would be able to change your username via the settings in your profile? Its tough to keep all the numbers straight at the end of your user in order to reply to you correctly! :-)
@soehlerk did you have your IUI?
@Bababatty any update?
I’m doing daily monitoring at this point. They expect I’ll trigger tomorrow and have the ER on Thursday but I’ll know after my appointment tomorrow! Almost there! (And by “there” I mean one step closer in a series of a million steps that may or may not happen ha)
dx: DOR
8 cycles Clomid (1 BFP & MC)
IVF #1
*TW*
I finally got my BFP!! Yesterday’s beta was 53.9, and I go back tomorrow for round 2. Praying for doubling.
*End TW*
I can’t believe you’re already at ER! Good luck on Thursday. I hope you get lots of embies!
Refresh my memory, can you please tell me your story again? I know you probably have told me somewhere along the line, but it's hard keeping track of everyone.
Also, Has anyone did a bbt chart while doing letrozole & trigger shot?
1. 8 months trying, 11 not preventing
2. Irregular cycles 16-64 days
3. I will see the gyn next month (as soon as Icould get in) to see what is going on.
My first job was working the concession stand at the public pool. We also had to clean the bathrooms. Not my favorite job ever.
Married 12/2014
TTC#1: 4/2017
@MicahDahn Welcome! hopefully your ob will give you some guidance as to what is going on - do you have any RE's in your area or are you waiting for your ob's recommendations?
I hope your TWW is going by fast. I charted for my first couple of IUIs by I believe the meds can kind of throw things off, and all it did was stress me out.
@thothscribe81 Thank you!!
@MicahDahn Welcome! Good luck at your appointment next month.
I feel a little like a crazy person, talking to my embryo. Last night I spent a lot of time lying down and hoping that every twinge was it settling in!
@Knottie1467155066 - I don't think that would be too soon, particularly if you use the FRER. I know other women who start with the wondfos earlier & watch the trigger leave their system (so like, 8dpo, 9dpo, 10dpo, etc) - wait until they get a negative, and then watch for it to become positive again. That's one way to make sure the trigger isn't giving you a false positive, but of course, depends on your dose.
@Bababatty - Bah!!! Still so thrilled for you!!! I'm so, so pleased! I've been watching you with the BFNs for so, so long... I cannot believe it's now (finally!) BFP!!! Keeping FX for doubling numbers and hoping you get to meet your baby soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@mac627 - OO, so close to ER! Exciting!!! How many follies do you have? What's your lead follie at? Hoping you get a bumper crop of mature eggs and that all fertilize! These next few days are going to be a whirl!
@MicahDahn - welcome! When is your GYN appointment?