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bmxerbabybmxerbaby member
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Good Morning,
I was in the April BMB, but sadly had a natural MC on 10/7 (11) weeks. The hospital physician was a mean man who chalked it up to a statistic. 
Well my cycle corrected itself fairly quickly, AF began again 2 days ago...so that was our green light to try again. This will be the last time we try, so if it happens again for us we will be ecstatic. I wish you all luck on your journeys to healthy pregnancy.
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  • dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome to our group.

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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  • tosh24tosh24 member
    So sorry for your loss and I'm sorry that you had to deal with such an insensitive front line medical professional. Good luck with your journey. 
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

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  • pumpkinpancakepumpkinpancake member
    I’m sorry for your loss. Welcome to our group and hope your stay here is short. 
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome 
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  • robyn2201robyn2201 member
    Sorry for your loss and your stay here is short.
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

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  • bmxerbabybmxerbaby member
    Thank you for the welcome messages. I'm glad to have found this board. It seems like such a positive group. Our stories may be different, but we all share an unfortunate bond. Cheers to short stays and reuniting in BMB's.
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  • Kath525Kath525 member
    I was also on the April BMB. I had a NMC at 6 1/2 weeks in September. Sorry that you find yourself here as well. I hope your stay here is short. Welcome to the group.
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Racso12Racso12 member
    I am so sorry for your loss and I'm sorry you had to deal with such insensitivity. That is the last thing you needed when dealing with a loss. Fingers crossed your stay here is short. 
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  • fishee333fishee333 member
    I'm sorry for your lost and welcome
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  • bmxerbabybmxerbaby member
    @Kath525, sorry you had a loss as well. I still lurk the April board, watching our group celebrate the baby milestones.
    @Racso12 it was tough, especially because he knew that I'm a nurse. I know the data...I just needed support, not statistics. 
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  • honeybeebubhoneybeebub member
    So sorry for your loss. You're not just a statistic, but remember there is power in numbers - you're not alone. I hope you find the support you need here. This is a great group of ladies. 
    *Signature TW*

    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

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  • ELeighMayELeighMay member
    I'm sorry for your loss and that your Dr. was a dick. Nothing like making a hard situation even worse.
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