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  • I got my simley face this morning! I’m hoping for a temp shift tomorrow and then I get to move to TWW...
    Me: 37 DH: 35
    Married: Oct 2012
    TTC #1: August-ish 2016
    MC: 04.01.2017 @ 9.5 wks 
    BFP 11.26.2017 - DD born 08.12.2018
    TTC#2: end of 2019
    MC: Jan 2020 @ 12 wks


    fishee333robyn2201Kath525
  • Yay for smiley @jchpg
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  • jchpg I also got a smiley face this morning!  Maybe our bodies just wanted us to sync up together?  LOL
    Kath525
  • @dpjennifer I have been only tracking OPKs. I do track CM sort of, but have been very dry this month. We DTD for good measure EOD. Glad to see you have O’ed!

    @jchpg That is serious commitment, biking with a full bladder in cold weather! Glad to see you have O’ed too.

    @kath525 That’s so funny, were you able to test later?

    @lin0442 Sorry for the rough HSG!

    @leahcimmichael I think I am going to call RE today to see if I can get in.

    @fishee333 I am definitely going to keep testing with OPKs just for good measure and will call my RE today to see if there’s anything they can do. Glad that you are (potentially, maybe, possibly) back in the game :) 

    *Signature TW*

    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

    dpjenniferfishee333
  • @vlagrl29 DHEA is a hormone 
  • @mack2342 - ok Guess I'm good then since it's not low, just 2 points high.
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  • @dpjennifer I bet that’s it!  ;) 

    @Mack2342 @honeybeebub thanks, I’m relieved.... hoping my temp goes up in the morning. 
    Me: 37 DH: 35
    Married: Oct 2012
    TTC #1: August-ish 2016
    MC: 04.01.2017 @ 9.5 wks 
    BFP 11.26.2017 - DD born 08.12.2018
    TTC#2: end of 2019
    MC: Jan 2020 @ 12 wks


    dpjennifer
  • I go here now.  I had been taking a break and casually TTC the past two months, no temp- no OPK.  Ready to OPK again.  Just ordered the advanced clearblue digitals.  CD2 for me.
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
  • @jchpg and @dpjennifer I hope you both get temp rise soon
    dpjennifer
  • Back story: one of my best friends has struggled with infertility.  It took her 3 years to get pregnant with her first child. She started trying for her second in September. She got her BFP today. How is it that i can be so INSANELY happy for her and so INSANELY jealous at the same time? I hate that. I just want to be happy for my friend.
  • @kath525 - I've heard that people that struggle with their first conceive their 2nd easily.  Crazy right?  Your feelings are normal though know that.  I'm finally at a point where it doesn't bother me any more and I am truly happy for those that get pregnant around me.  Time does heal and help.
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  • @vlagrl29 thanks. We've been talking all day which has helped. I do feel very happy for her. Just hope I follow suit soon. But it seems November has been a good month for BFPs so hopefully there's many more!
  • @kath525 - November last year was when I got pregnant with our loss so I'm hoping it happens again for us soon.  Lots of ladybugs migrating and are on our house today.  I'm taking it as good luck.
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    Kath525
  • @vlagrl29 when I was TTC DS, the fertility clinic gave me 3 beautiful glass lady bug magnets as good luck.  Two weeks ago I was shopping for Christmas ornaments and found one on a hook all by itself - it was a baby mouse laying on a santa hat with a lady bug on the pom pom. I took it as a sign and bought it in hopes that I can give it to my baby next Christmas (I know,  I'm crazy....). Then,  that night,  I found a lady bug in our upstairs bathroom which I put outside. And then a week later I found another one in the same spot.  So weird because there is NO WAY they could get in there directly from outside. I'm taking all this as a good omen. :)
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

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  • I'm the same way @tosh24 one actually landed on me today. I took it as a good sign too plus I've just been feeling awesome lately. In the holiday spirit and just overall happy. The BD we've had this month I feel like it might actually happen again for us. We BD tonight and halfway thru DD opens our door! Her eyes were itchy and I had to wash her face put her back to bed and then finish up with dh.
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  • Well on CD23 (super late for me) the amazing happened, I got a positive OPK! So weird since it went stark white for a few days. Of course I’m sick with a 102 fever but took one (rather a few) for the team and have been BD’ing. Hopefully all this effort will pay off after the TWW. I’ll be over there now. 
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    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

    jchpgKath525leahcimmichael
  • Yay for O finally! @honeybeebub I knew you would.

    awesome about the insurance @fishee333 I love when life works out like that so easily. Now you don't have to put ttc on hold.
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    fishee333
  • @fishee333 Thanks for your encouragement to keep testing! @vlagrl29 Thanks for talking me out of my crazy. 
    I swear WTO is more stressful to me than the TWW - more control in being able to actually DO something about it! 
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    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

  • I'm going to TWW now

    @honeybeebub I think the opposite. Knowing I probably Od by now I'm already seeing I'm going to have to work more now to stay positive. Go away negativity!!
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  • @honeybeebub I agree with you 100%. At least in the TWW I know I've done everything I can.
    CD 17 and finally got my positive OPK this morning. Woo!
  • @Kath525 YAY! Here’s to wishing and hoping form 2 weeks with you! 
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    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

    Kath525
  • @vlagrl29 here's to hoping you stay positive this TWW and that it's your last

    CD7 here still WTO but seems like everyone has gone to TWW.  I am using clearblue advanced digital OPKs this month.  I think I'll start them on CD8, when do you all start them?
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
  • I'm on CD 16 and still haven't gotten a positive OPK... Which is weird, I got a positive on CD 14 last cycle. The line is almost as dark as the control line though, so I'll test again tonight and then tomorrow morning. Its gotta be positive soon. Bd tonight and tomorrow for sure. 
    I started them on 8 last cycle and 10 this one since I knew I ovulate around CD 14. 
    shri929
  • @fishee333 my O days can vary quite a bit

    CD8 here, started clearblue advance digital OPKs.  The test came back as invalid, *&^&54!!!!! WASTE of a stick!!! Then this morning BD, DH couldn't complete performance.  Great start ugh, rant over
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
  • CD8 is probably too early for it to really matter @shri929 unless you O early
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  • @vlagrl29 I hope so! I don’t usually O until about CD15 but ever since my D&E in June my cycle is STILL wonky and I O all over. Hopefully not too early this month!
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
  • CD 17 and I got my positive OPK. Too tired to BD last night which is too bad. Definitely gotta BD tonight. 
  • Do any of you know if there's a connection between how long/strong a positive OPK is with when you ovulate? Like, if it's a dark line (darker than control line) for a couple days, then you ovulate sooner rather than later? I hope I'm making sense. I'm not temping so I can't test out any theory this cycle. 
  • @fishee333 wonder the same thing!  Thinking that it’s just catching the start, middle and end of the LH surge from my google search, but obviously not reliable haha :) 
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    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

    fishee333
  • CD 1 today, so I guess I'm back here. 
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • @fishee333 the month I did OPK and temp and CM tracking it was pretty amazing bc it all lined up! I’m crazy so I did wondfo as well as digital, got my darkest OPK, digital positive, EWCM and temp rise the following day. 
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
  • Hm interesting!

    @tosh24 Sorry for CD1. I'm excited for your IVF cycle though! 
    tosh24
  • Just a BTW, I think I felt O pains last night after I posted my question. And they were on both sides, which I've never felt before. I'm consulting Google of course, but how cool would it be if I released 2 eggs?? :) 
  • Back here again. :(
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

  • Anyone else ever use cleanly advanced digital and get ZERO flashing smilies?! I’m so annoyed I was waiting to BD and it just went straight to peak! Ugh. We BDd twice yesterday my peak day I hope that is enough 
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
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