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threepinkcrayons

I am going crazy.  I am not TTC, in fact the last time I remember that we BD was a day before my last period, September 1.

I ALWAYS have 28-30 day cycles and are extremely on time, usually to the day my app predicts it.  I don't think I'm pregnant, but I also can't help testing and being obsessed with it, considering I am never late.

I want to have another one very badly, but want to lose weight before we try again.  

I have taken a million tests, cheapies, FRER, digital.  ALL negative.  What is going on, does anyone have insight?  I was sick this past month and had some light spotting once or twice during the month.  Do you think that is why I still have no AF?  At this point, I'm sure I am not pregnant and I just want AF to come.  I have been trying to relax but it's hard.   Has anyone experienced a very late BFP or does anyone have a suggestion on what may be going on.  I'm 33 years old.  When I was pregnant 6 years ago, it took three months to conceive.  

And when should I see a doctor, how late do I have to be to do something about it.  Any help would be great:)

diaphena

I believe the usual doctor's recommendation is to get checked out if you go 60 days with no period and no positive test. At that point they may give you some meds to kick start your cycle and get you back on track. I had to do that once - I was also not TTC at the time. My cycles are always irregular cause of PCOS, but in that one case, my period was extra super late, and the meds they gave me made it start within about 5 days. 

Your cycle can get out of whack for all kinds of reasons so I have no insight about why you might be having this long cycle. I wouldn't panic just yet as it may be just a fluke. Just call your doc if you hit the 60 day mark and take it from there.

CecilB93

What @diaphena said. Plus, you're regular until you're not. There could be a number of reasons you're late - stress, anovulatory cycle, etc. Plus, if the last time you BD was the day before your last period and your cycle is usually 28-30 days then there's really no chance of being pregnant. 

threepinkcrayons

I finally started AF!  I was so happy to see it.   It was 17 days late and it's pretty heavy.  I really think it was because I was so sick with a bronchitis and was taking antibiotics.  I read somewhere taking antibiotics can throw your period off.  Plus, my body was under so much stress from being sick (I was sick with fevers, chronic coughing for about a month).  Just wanted to follow up because it bugs me when OPs never follow up with this stuff:)  Good luck everyone!