my group of girl friends who live in other countries and we only see each other few times a year, are planning a long weekend trip two hours away from where I live. It's bachelorette party so the plan will be to party and visit the city. I will be almost 8 weeks pregnant when that weekend comes and I have to let them know now if I'm going or not. It's hard because they don't know I'm pregnant so I don't really have any excuse. I am already having nausea and fatigue, and I definitely would not be drinking. I read that clothes become tight around this time too. So i can't decide if I should go or not? I would appreciate advice since this is my first pregnancy! Thank you!!!
Re: Need advice please! ;)
However my situation is not a one-size-fits-all. I suggest keeping your health and baby's health in mind as you decide this. If you think you can feasibly manage celebrating the bride, while still taking care of yourself, then go for it!
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BFP 6/30/16, MC 8/21/16
BFP 05/04/17, 5/10/17 Emergency LAP due to ectopic. Right tube removed.
BFP 07/12/17, ECDD 03/25/18 - Silver Orion Born 3/23/18
BFP 09/30/19, EDD 06/11/20
I know for my first though I only found out I was pregnant at 7.5 weeks, and my clothes still fit the same. I wouldn't worry too much about clothes fitting tight, at most it would just be bloat.
DS2 due 12/12/18
I definitely can't tell them yet because my mom is away until my week 12 so I'm waiting to tell her first, plus the timing is great since will be the 3 month mark.
We are still sorting out the logistics so I'm not sure yet if I will go. I will keep the post updated!