Hello Everyone, My name is Lovey, (yes my real name ). I’m 43 and TTC my third child. I had 3 miscarriages, so I am trying to be hopeful. I had a Mirena for 9 years and took it out today. I am divorced and now dating my SO who doesn’t have any kids. We’ve dated on and off since 7th grade, and timing was always an issue. So here we are and it’s an incredible feeling. My ex-husband is a wonderful Dad to DD and DS, I feel like the time is now or never. It’s nice to have somewhere to come and learn and vent. My Obgyn told me today all of the risks and I knew them, his delivery was just awful. He made me feel silly for even considering having another child. Needless to say, changing that ASAP. Thank you for welcoming me!! Have a beautiful day!!!