TTC After a Loss
justsuzie
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Ugh....I'm back TW-loss mentioned . UPDATE-TW TW TW
justsuzie
member
Sadly I'm back. MC this weekend...actually still riding it out. I don't feel like posting on the loss board because I know you ladies much better. I'm gonna lurk for a while without posting until my body gets back to normal but I have a quick rant....
I told my my doctor on a Thursday that I felt like things were off and the pg was over and she shrugged it off and wouldn't give me a scan or betas. So I waited in limbo just waiting for this to happen and then it does at the most inconvenient (not like it's ever convenient) time in a fucking dog park. Long story short, I know there's nothing they could do for me if I did get the scan but they made me feel like I was an idiot and like I was wasting their time. Just frustrated.
We are off to an RE after I recover from the MC and hopefully onto IVF because this is our third documented loss in less than a year. Frustrating but I know it means there was something wrong with the baby and my body was doing its job.
I know this post is more for the loss board but you ladies have become my sad little loss family.
UPDATE:
SOOOOOO Even with massive bleeding and clots there was a HB at 7 weeks. We ditched my OB because she had told me over the phone that I was miscarrying and there was nothing I could do about it and she would check I passed everything on that Monday....We are still being cautious because I am still having spotting an bleeding everyday. Looks like I'll be one of those lucky ladies who gets to stress throughout the pg because of constant bleeding, fun. I am sorry if I offended anyone (especially new posters who don't know my history.) I just didn't want to post and disappear. I'm still lurking all you ladies and hoping for some bfps. Thanks for the support and understanding, and again sorry if my post upset anyone.
I told my my doctor on a Thursday that I felt like things were off and the pg was over and she shrugged it off and wouldn't give me a scan or betas. So I waited in limbo just waiting for this to happen and then it does at the most inconvenient (not like it's ever convenient) time in a fucking dog park. Long story short, I know there's nothing they could do for me if I did get the scan but they made me feel like I was an idiot and like I was wasting their time. Just frustrated.
We are off to an RE after I recover from the MC and hopefully onto IVF because this is our third documented loss in less than a year. Frustrating but I know it means there was something wrong with the baby and my body was doing its job.
I know this post is more for the loss board but you ladies have become my sad little loss family.
UPDATE:
SOOOOOO Even with massive bleeding and clots there was a HB at 7 weeks. We ditched my OB because she had told me over the phone that I was miscarrying and there was nothing I could do about it and she would check I passed everything on that Monday....We are still being cautious because I am still having spotting an bleeding everyday. Looks like I'll be one of those lucky ladies who gets to stress throughout the pg because of constant bleeding, fun. I am sorry if I offended anyone (especially new posters who don't know my history.) I just didn't want to post and disappear. I'm still lurking all you ladies and hoping for some bfps. Thanks for the support and understanding, and again sorry if my post upset anyone.
Re: Ugh....I'm back TW-loss mentioned . UPDATE-TW TW TW
I really am so sad for you right now. I'm sending so many positive thoughts your way right now. Take good care of yourself.
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
i agree about going to a RE. A specialist at this point would be best for you rather than an OB. If we move towards clomid in January I'll do it with an RE for monitoring.
take care and take it easy
*TW loss and children mentioned*
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
*TW loss and children mentioned*
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019
I would assume you would have to be on pelvic rest until bleeding stops. When I started spotting with my loss that's what they told me to do.
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease