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CD/DPO of first BFP?
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP?
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU?
How was your timing?
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)?
How are you going to/did you tell your partner?
Anything else to add?
Me: 29 | DH: 29
Married 12/2016 DSS born 01/2016 TTC since 01/2017 Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
I couldn't decide if it was better to make a post with an apology or slip away. I decided to do this because a formal apology is always best with people you care about and slipping away sucks and can leave people feeling ghosted. I want to apologize for what happened, what I did, what went down, and for anyone that was hurt in the process. I do care about everyone here and would never want to hurt them. I hope I can be forgiven and if anyone still has something to say to me, feel free to tell me or PM me.
CD/DPO of first BFP? 13 for no doubts about it
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP? 7+2 NTNP
What did your chart look like? This was the one month I didn't temp. I just did one opk and CM. I decided to take my temp when period was coming and no spotting and it was really high.
What were you doing TGKU? Preseed, opks, temping usually
How was your timing? -4, -2, 0
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)? A lot of cramping that started after sex on Saturday. Some waves of nausea. Nothing significant. No boob pain!
How are you going to/did you tell your partner? We were getting ready for work and we both saw the test. We were naked from showering and did a naked hug lol
Anything else to add? Just that I hope we can still maintain our relationship and if anyone ever has issues or questions for me personally or even about their own chart/tests, feel free to contact me.
@charlestonchew CONGRATS! I'm so happy you posted here. We all want everyone in the community to get their BFP. I appreciate the apology and I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months!! Also your naked hug sounds so cute and something i could definitely see MH and I doing
Re: TTGP Grad Thread - Week of 8/28
CD/DPO of first BFP?
13 for no doubts about it
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP?
7+2 NTNP
What did your chart look like?
This was the one month I didn't temp. I just did one opk and CM. I decided to take my temp when period was coming and no spotting and it was really high.
What were you doing TGKU?
Preseed, opks, temping usually
How was your timing?
-4, -2, 0
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)?
A lot of cramping that started after sex on Saturday. Some waves of nausea. Nothing significant. No boob pain!
How are you going to/did you tell your partner?
We were getting ready for work and we both saw the test. We were naked from showering and did a naked hug lol
Anything else to add?
Just that I hope we can still maintain our relationship and if anyone ever has issues or questions for me personally or even about their own chart/tests, feel free to contact me.
DD: 07/19/18
EDD: 06/22/22