I'm getting annoyed with H always being grumpy because he's tired. I'm tired too but I'd rather not be in a pissy mood all day because if it. He's a worse sleeper than me but it's partially his fault. No one told him to stay up after work and watch tv. Take your a$$ to bed. He knows S wakes up at 6 for the day so why would you only allow yourself 5 hours of sleep.
I'm pretty sure that's a universal man thing. Just like a man cold. When it happens, even if it was caused by their own doings, we are the ones that are going to hear about it- All. Day. Long. Sorry you're having to put up the grumpiness girl, so aggravating. Hopefully he'll check himself before you get home from work.
My mystery symptoms keep getting worse. I'm getting swelling and pain in joints and parts of my body that I didn't even know had joints or could swell up. The front of both of my shoulders got knots under my skin that left physical bruises once they went away, and then that pain moved down into my buttocks... Talk about inconvenient and miserable what sucks the most is I can't see my doctor to SHOW him, I'm just having to write everything down in a notebook until September 12th. Me just ignoring it isn't working... Last night I was stricken with sudden dizziness and double vision and it was scary- it subsided quickly thank goodness, but it came out of nowhere. We were watching Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 after dinner, and it just slapped me in the face.
I sure do complain a lot lately. I'm sorry ladies, bear with me. I'll get my act together soon, promise!
No worries @allythekid. You can talk about whatever you feel comfortable talking about here. I hope you start feeling better soon. It is so frustrating when you don't know what is causing it.
I went into the doctor's office today to see if the nurse would at least LOOK at the new knot and bruise on my hand before it goes away and all they have is my description. She wouldn't, but the receptionist somehow magically was able to reschedule me for this Friday at 2:00 as opposed to my September 12th appointment. How there is room NOW, I don't know- but I am grateful. Apparently she isn't supposed to do that, but she did anyway and it means a great deal to me that she did that.
I'm tired of my job. I'm at the point where something pisses me off every day. It's partly due to my new mgr that has never been a mgr before. Honestly I'm shocked they gave her the position without having any Mgmt experience. She is a hard core ass kisser so that is how she got it. It's amazing how one person can make your job miserable.
So it's about my job again. I feel like I'm being watched. I was texting my babysitter this morning and my mgrs mgr walked up super quiet and stared at my phone and didn't say good morning until I realized he was there. Every time he walks by he looks to see if I'm on my phone. Then twice he ended up in the break room right after I went in. My mgr isnt here today so I feel like he is looking for stuff to bring up to her. I'm sure in a few days I'm going to get called in her office about my phone. I wish I could say F off because anything regarding my child will always come before this job. I think they are being extra because of the whole pumping thing.
@Ladybug2821 Sorry I've been super busy and haven't been posting lately! That definitely sounds like harassment and slightly stalkerish/invasion of privacy.
So I'm pretty sure our LO is going to be our only child. Please tell me that not all only children turn out to be selfish entitled brats? Haha
I would LOVE another child but my husband doesn't feel the same way. And honestly, I wouldn't want to have another one unless he was 100% on board and I just don't see that happening.
Part of his reason is selfish. He likes his toys and lifestyle which we can easily afford with 1, but might have to cut back on some things if we have 2 kids. I hope I won't resent him for this. But in the same way, I'm afraid that if we have another child, he'll resent me for the lifestyle cut because I'm the one who pushed the idea. Plus he just isn't a ton of help with our LO and complains when she fusses/acts like a baby (which she is a baby!). I'm just not sure I want to have another one with him acting that way.
@fitlady21 I know several only children who tirned out beautifully. My aunt said to "raise them like a child, not like an ONLY child" haha Makes sense though.
I wish I could even begin to know what to say about the rest of your post You are entitled to what you want as well though, so always keep that in mind. I hope he'll come around to the idea of another baby, but if not, I hope you can both find contentment with whatever the both of you decide.
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Sorry you're having to put up the grumpiness girl, so aggravating. Hopefully he'll check himself before you get home from work.
I sure do complain a lot lately. I'm sorry ladies, bear with me. I'll get my act together soon, promise!
That sounds like harassment to me.
I would LOVE another child but my husband doesn't feel the same way. And honestly, I wouldn't want to have another one unless he was 100% on board and I just don't see that happening.
Part of his reason is selfish. He likes his toys and lifestyle which we can easily afford with 1, but might have to cut back on some things if we have 2 kids. I hope I won't resent him for this. But in the same way, I'm afraid that if we have another child, he'll resent me for the lifestyle cut because I'm the one who pushed the idea. Plus he just isn't a ton of help with our LO and complains when she fusses/acts like a baby (which she is a baby!). I'm just not sure I want to have another one with him acting that way.
Its a lose lose.
I wish I could even begin to know what to say about the rest of your post
I know