I'm so sorry to hear this. Like others have said, it's not fair that you should have to go through so much heartbreak. I'll keep you in my thoughts, and I hope you'll get your rainbow soon.
The TTCAL board here has a lot of wonderful people on it. Three in a year is a lot to bear and I'm sure you could use the support. As for trying again, did your doctor mention anything about testing for recurrent pregnancy loss? Three is the typical threshold for that (I did it after two because I was undergoing fertility treatments and it could influence our choices there). Sometimes they don't find anything and chalk it up to a horrible streak of luck. Sometimes they find something that can help. Are you in love with your doctor otherwise? Frankly, I'm pretty pissed for you that they didn't call you with the results earlier. This isn't like doing a regular panel of tests for your annual exam. Leaving you to stress for days and then call once you started bleeding is kinda crappy. That + if no one mentioned RPL testing might lead me to go shopping for someone who was going to be a little more hands-on and tuned into what you're going through emotionally. You and YH take care of each other. I'm always here if you need to talk.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/683816 BFP 6/30/16, MC 8/21/16 BFP 05/04/17, 5/10/17 Emergency LAP due to ectopic. Right tube removed. BFP 07/12/17, ECDD 03/25/18 - Silver Orion Born 3/23/18 BFP 09/30/19, EDD 06/11/20
@3littles2angels I am so very sorry. Please don't give up hope. I had 2 losses between my 2nd and 3rd and 3 losses in between my 3rd and this baby. I pray you can find peace in this time of uncertainty.
I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of T&P for you and your family. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon.
1st BFP 6/7/10 premature delivery and loss at 22w2d on 10/4/10
2nd BFP 10/10/11, EDD 6/2/12,natural m/c 10/13/11 at 6w5d
3rd BFP 12/25/11, DD born 8/31/12
4th BFP 1/3/14, DD born 9/5/14 5th BFP 11/15, DS born 7/24/16 6th BFP 7/14/16, EDD 3/20/18
I am so very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family in this difficult time. Be kind to yourself and grieve in whatever way feels right. I hope you get your rainbow soon
I am SO sorry sweet friend. Sometimes we just don't understand why things happen, all I can do is tell you that you have children waiting for you to come Home on the other side of eternity. I will be praying for peace and comfort over you and your family
Re: *TW* Waiting for the call...(UPDATE)
EDD March 12, 2018
Dx: PCOS
DS1 born 11/2014
DS2 born 11/2018
3 previous losses
Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green
For when you're ready to think about the future:
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Married: 5.27.16
Baby Boy Due: 3.18.18
**TW in Spoiler**
BFP 6/30/16, MC 8/21/16
BFP 05/04/17, 5/10/17 Emergency LAP due to ectopic. Right tube removed.
BFP 07/12/17, ECDD 03/25/18 - Silver Orion Born 3/23/18
BFP 09/30/19, EDD 06/11/20
BFP #1: 10/15/10- DS born 6/29/11
BFP #2: 6/26/2012- DS born 3/11/13
BFP #3: 2/26/14- MMC and D&C 4/11/14
BFP#4: 9/1/14- MC 9/6/14
BFP#5: 10/3/14- Due Date 6/15/15
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
2nd BFP 10/10/11, EDD 6/2/12,natural m/c 10/13/11 at 6w5d
3rd BFP 12/25/11, DD born 8/31/12
5th BFP 11/15, DS born 7/24/16
6th BFP 7/14/16, EDD 3/20/18
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Me: 28 Him: 30
Married: 11/15/14
TTC: 02/2016
IF DX: MFI (low count & morphology) & mild PCOS
June 2016 BFP - MC @8w2d
August 2016 BFP - MC @6w1d
June 2017 - 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP 7/6/17!!
Beta #1 = 422 (14dpo), Beta #2 = 810, prog - 12.3 (16dpo), Beta #3 = 5023, prog - 18.9 (20dpo)
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DS born October 13, 2014
Baby #3 due March 2018