MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
Re: TTCAL Check-In Week of 6/12
Status: Benched
How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with this week? What is going well for you this week? R/R? I’m doing pretty well actually. I’m past depression of AF, my weight is about the same, and I had a good weekend that was fun and productive.
Any testing coming up/any recent results? None.
GTKY: What is currently your favorite way to relax and escape the pressures of TTCAL? Right now I’m focusing on trying some new recipes and looking a designs for some pretty cookies to decorate for my SIL’s wedding in a few weeks!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es) , diagnosis / conditions surrounding loss, etc. 2 losses, in September and March
Status: TWW! I'm so excited because I've now had two cycles in a row where I ovulated in the same CD, and it's the earliest I've ever O'ed! Maybe my body is finally getting it's ish together after a year and a half off BC. Will start progesterone tomorrow after confirming with a second high temp.
How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with this week? What is going well for you this week? R/R? pretty good this week. Was just anxious that DH was going to run out of baby juice before I O'ed. This weekend wasn't very fun though because I was working on a last minute proposal due Wednesday. But I got a great headstart on it! Oh, and we went to see Wonder Woman. It was pretty good!
Any testing coming up/any recent results? just HPTs, but not until mid next week.
GTKY: I tend to throw myself into work, whether that be work work or house work. Sitting and wallowing while watching TV doesn't end week for me.
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
@dpjennifer I glad to hear that you're feeling better. Fun weekends can go a long way sometimes.
@icecubeinthedesert Hooray for TWW! Good luck w/ progesterone.
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Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es) , diagnosis / conditions surrounding loss, etc: MC about two weeks ago at 5.5 wks.
Status: WTO. Decided to jump right back in.
How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with this week? What is going well for you this week? R/R? I really don't like my job. It's important work but my heart isn't in it and it just doesn't feel right to be here. Going well: I'm trying to cut down sugar and successfully resisted the temptation of a delicious-looking milk chocolate/caramel cupcakes this morning.
Any testing coming up/any recent results? No
GTKY: What is currently your favorite way to relax and escape the pressures of TTCAL? MH and I have been talking a lot of walks lately. It's nice quality time together.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with this week? What is going well for you this week? R/R? This past week I have definitely been feeling better about things and finally stopped being angry. I'm not the happiest at my job, but it's tolerable. Nothing to rant about. My rave is that I've stated eating healthier and I love how it makes me feel.
Any testing coming up/any recent results?
No tests
GTKY: What is currently your favorite way to relax and escape the pressures of TTCAL?
I like to read, walk my dogs and I make my own mala bead necklaces, which is time consuming and very relaxing.
@looeeze, I'm sorry about your job. Are there any other options for you in your field where you live?
@dpjennifer, mmm those sound so good right now.
@janelane33, hey there ovulation buddy! I don't think we've met before, and I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad you're feeling better. Great job on the healthy eating! I'm not sure I know what a mala bead necklace is. So you have a pic of one you've made that you'd like to share?
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
I have a co worker, (whom I never really liked to begin with because she is so lazy,) who always complains about her PG symptoms to me. I had a mmc in January as well as the chemical pg in May, and she knows about them both, so it drives me crazy when she does that. People can be so clueless and self absorbed.
Mala beads are also known as yoga beads, or bhuddist prayer beads. I've made two so far and am working on a third. the first is made with amethyst and white jade, the other is labradorite and rose quartz, and the one I am currently working on will be all rose quartz with pyrite. I love your pug!! My husband and I love dogs, especially pugs, we have a Bugg and just rescued another dog in March, not sure what kind of dog she is though. She's super sweet and loveable
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
How is everyone else today?
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
@dpjennifer - I'll have to try the Land O'Lakes Butter Cookies, they sound super easy.
@icecubeinthedesert - I really want to see Wonder Woman, I'm hoping to go sometime this week or next week. And that's really not cool that your co-worker brought her baby in to work.
@looeeze - Good job on resisting the cupcakes! You have way more will power than I do right now, haha.
@janelane33 - Congrats on being in the TWW! And those mala beads look very interesting.
I also do the Netflix/movie/tv show marathons to unwind. It can really take you away to another place for awhile. Aside from the mala bead necklaces, I also make bracelets, so I usually do that while I'm watching something to help pass the time even more!
Hope you're feeling better soon!
Personally, I believe the 3 cycles rule is old thinking that hasn't been supported by research since. And it's fair that your GP was going with that since it's the more conservative thing but, as GPs, they have a lot to keep up with so perhaps the latest in MC research isn't one of the things she's really familiar with. I was seeing an OB/Gyn when I had a MMC at 9 weeks. I did the misoprostol and a follow-up US a week later (I had made a placenta so she wanted to be sure everything passed). She told us that we needed to wait until my next period to try but after that we were cleared. I felt comfortable with that and would do it again.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
@kiki75 - I will definitely be going to my OB if/when I get pregnant next time. I just really like my GP, she's a no-nonsense kind of doctor, but she does seem a little out of touch with new research and it's really hard to get in to see her. I was just a little shocked that she told me to wait because I didn't have any medical intervention, everything is happening naturally.
ChloandCoco Doctors give varying opinions on how long to wait after a MC, usually between 1-3 cycles. Sometimes it’s a ‘guess’ based upon medical research (which is ever changing in this area), and other times it’s based upon your specific situation. Also, FYI, beware of the episode where Meredith has a MC. And don’t give yourself worry about going to GP instead of OB. It was such an early loss that there’s nothing OB could have done, and with 1 previous PG that resulted in a live birth they probably wouldn’t have had you do betas. So don’t beat yourself up over it!
janelane33 I want to punch people in the face when they tell me to relax. One day I may just be off my rocker enough to do it. *sigh*
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es) , diagnosis / conditions surrounding loss, etc. MC in December and CP in March. Suspected low progesterone issue - taking progesterone supplements after ovulation
Status: WTO
How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with this week? What is going well for you this week? R/R? I'm struggling with my family. We didn't go to a concert with them Saturday night. DH knew that AF was due sometime around this weekend and that I would be upset if it came so he wanted me to be able to stay home and relax. Monday night my sister texted me basically saying that I'm a horrible daughter who neglects our parents. I got really upset and spilled my guts about what is going on and how we're probably headed to fertility treatments. DH and I are supposed to talk to my mom tonight. It's hard though because I want her to understand what's going on so she doesn't get offended, but I don't want her constantly calling and checking on everything because right now there's not a lot to talk about.
I have an appointment with my OB on July 28th! We're going to talk about the progesterone supplements and how my post-O temps have been lower since starting it and my LP has been shorter which is the opposite of what is supposed to happen. If this cycle isn't successful it'll be in the middle of cycle 11 so I should be able to get the ball rolling on an RE referral and maybe some initial testing.
Any testing coming up/any recent results? OB didn't order a progesterone test for this cycle but I might request one so that we have an actual number to talk about at the appointment.
GTKY: What is currently your favorite way to relax and escape the pressures of TTCAL? I read a lot, mainly super trashy romance novels.
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
@KariAnn323 sorry for your losses, and to hear about what happened with you family. That was super nice of your husband to think of your feelings. I hope your talk with your mom goes well.
@KariAnn323 - I'm so sorry for your losses and everything that is happening with your family. At least you know you can count on your husband for support. Good luck with your mom tonight, and if you are worried about her calling/checking up on you could you tell her tonight that you don't want her to do that? Sometimes it's better to be up front about it.
@ChloandCoco, sorry to see you back here. I'll add to what others that I was only told to wait until first AF. This is actually the current recommendation after a MC from ACOG. But the bottom line is that with a blighted ovum, which doctor you see is not going to make a difference, unfortunately. There's nothing you did wrong, but I understand the feeling of wanting to know why and worrying about whether there's something else you could have done.
@kariann323, that's so strange about your progesterone experience! I wonder what would cause that? I definitely had a longer LP (usually 12 days, but stopped progesterone at 14 days and didn't get AF until 16 or 17 dpo), but would have to say my temps were about the same or maybe a hair lower than normal, but that could just be a fluke cycle.
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
@icecubeinthedesert Yay for early O! That's horrible about your mom and your coworker. Yeah, my body is being super weird on progesterone. I really wish I could get in with my OB sooner.
@looeeze I'm sorry about work. Out of curiosity what do you do? Yay for successfully avoiding sweets!
@janelane33 Yay for O'ing. Long cycles can be the worst
@ChloandCoco I'm so sorry for your loss! Of course you are more than welcome to hangout here. I also find the dailies hard sometimes. This is a shitty club to be in, but these women are so amazingly supportive that it makes it a little bit better.
AFM: The talk did my mom did not go very well. Most of it was a bitch fest by her about how hurt she was. She basically said that our issues with TTC suck but it was a shitty excuse. She also said that we should be telling everyone what is going on. She really doesn't understand at all which I suppose makes sense. She got KU with me the first month they tried. I just wish she would make more of an effort.
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
@KariAnn323 Sorry to hear the talk with you mom didn't go well either. Even if she doesn't understand, what she said was pretty mean. You did what was right for you at the moment and no one should make you feel badly for that. I hope she will come around and be more understanding. My mom isn't always the most supportive person either when I need her to be, so I totally understand how that feels.
@ChloandCoco with my mmc they tracked my blood work until it was at zero again, I am also in Canada, I went every week until it had gone back own to normal. I had been 8wks along but the loss happened at 6 wks, it took a month for my levels to return to zero. But the home tests do work just as well, although they usually only will be able to detect hcg to 25meq/ml, so they may start to show negative before all the hcg is actually out of your system. Hoping it goes quickly for you.
@icecubeinthedesert Ugh… mom’s just don’t seem to get it usually! Sorry for the giant TW to your night.
@KariAnn323 Sorry for unsupportive mother. I feel EXACTLY the same about my mom making an effort! But, I think MC is just something people do not understand unless they’ve been through it, esp. RPL. I can’t tell you the number of times my mother has tried to ‘help’ by saying things that make me horribly upset. Or that she’ll say that it’s just a part of life and that I can’t avoid people and babies forever. I told her I couldn’t handle Mother’s Day this year and she did what your mom did, and made it all about her and how upset she was. She seems so callous and unsympathetic, and yet at the same time I know she cares about me greatly. I recently had ANOTHER conversation with her (after she mentioned every random person in the entire area I grew up in that was PG) and it finally occurred to her that she had no idea how to help me or what to say…. A year and a half after our first loss. So, hopefully things with your mom will get better for you... but I guess know that she probably means well but has no idea what you're going through and doesn't realize how hurtful her words can be.
@janelane33 Exactly! I feel like with MC, if people know about it, they’re super sympathetic for a few days or a week… and then it’s like no big deal and you should be over it. I wish they would treat us the way that they treat anyone who’s lost a loved one that they had physically seen.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@KariAnn323 - I'm really sorry your talk with your mom didn't go well. Like what dpjennifer said, people really have no idea what it's like to go through a loss unless they've experienced it themselves.