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WTF Wednesday 5/31/17

It's our favorite day ladies!  Who or what has made you say "WTF?" this week?

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Re: WTF Wednesday 5/31/17

  • WTF summer break is going to be exhausting for me!  I forgot how much of my attention DD  demands.  I told her I'll need an hour a day of quiet time just so I can keep caught up on things around the house and with my business.  On the plus side though it gives me less time to think about being or getting pregnant at least until mid August.
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  • It rained last night and the windows in my car were cracked open so my seats were soaked this morning. Wtf! It never rains here in May!
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    @pumpkin0913  Oh no.  Guess you'll be sitting on some towels!

    @vlagrl29  I can't believe your DD is on summer break already.  I have practically the whole month of June left
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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  • School starts again August 16 - not that I'm counting
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  • WTF President Trump - thats all... just can't even. (sorry to get political)
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    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Did a new development happen? @ladipale
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  • As a climate change scientist, I'm not super happy about his decision to pull out of the Paris Climate Agreement - that was leaked/announced today @vlagrl29
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    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • That's what I just read @ladipale and figured that's what you were talking about. My mind is focused on health ins. It's gotten sad to me.
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  • My wtf is why are we getting people who don't respond on threads starting their own threads.?
  • @Chawk17 I guess because MC is rough and no one expects it to happen to them. Especially if they've had successful rainbows and unicorn babies in the past, and it's a shot in the face and they're just a wreck with no idea what's going on. So, they reach out for help IN THE MOMENT when they're still all hyped up on hcg and grief and don't think about the fact that we're an established community, with some members who have been here for YEARS struggling with these issues...

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  • @vlagrl29 summer break starts at noon tomorrow, so I will feel some of your pain next week. 
    @ladipale I hate to admit my stupidity so I will have to look that up later today. 
  • @vlagrl29 That's part of the reason I'm keeping DD in day care part time this summer.  Momma needs some "me time."

    @pumpkin0913 Oh no!  I hope you were able to get where you needed to go without getting all we yourself.

    @ladipale I'll have to look that up as well.  I don't get to follow politics/news like I used to.  I feel so clueless sometimes.

    @chawk Yes.  Why?

    AFM...  WTF DH's boss?!?!?!?!  DH got laid off yesterday.  It's a very small company that apparently isn't making any money.  DH has been there for four years, and was definitely not the "last hire," so this is quite a shocker to us.  We were planning to sell our house this summer anyway and find somewhere to rent for a year where we live.  So now we'll just sell the house and move on back home.  DD will definitely love having more grandparent time.  

    Fun fact.  DH's work wife wasn't there yesterday, so he called her last night to tell her the news.  She texted this morning and said she and her husband talked last night, and she is putting in her two weeks notice today.  Their boss is so screwed.  And I'm kind of happy about it.
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    @tlq0726 oh man. The lay off sucks. Hope he can collect unemployment. Is where you live now and home far away. More grandparent time is always nice. Hoping he gets a job soon. Amazing his work wife is quitting. Screw them 
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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  • @tlq0726 sad about the layofg..but pumped about your husband's work wife's loyalty...that takes guts.
  • Oh my goodness that is awful. Hoping he can get unemployment and then find another job.  I will be thinking of y'all during this difficult time. 
  • tlq0726 That's such crap that he was laid off before a newer employee. Ugh. Glad his work wife is sticking up for him! Also, glad you guys have a plan.

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    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
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    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

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  • @tlq0726 oh that sucks.  sorry about the lay off!
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  • @tlq0726 - ouch :( so sorry about husband's lay off.
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    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Thanks ladies.  DH's work wife is awesome.  She has wanted to quit for a while anyway, and apparently the fact that their boss has zero loyalty was the straw that broke her back.  Who wants to work for someone like that anyway?  She's planning to go to school for sonography.  

    @SP128 We're about a three-hour drive from home.  We're going back home to tell our families this weekend, and let them know we'll need storage space soon.  My uncle has an apartment I'm hoping he'll let us rent until we have a concrete plan.  
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  • @tlq0726. That sucks.  I hope all goes well with the family and you get some assistance during this time 
  • So I know it's not Wednesday but WTF came home from girls overnight and DS was napping so DH got some BD in. He then say my mom supposed to come over sometime and I jokingly said so for all we know she is downstairs and sure enough she let herself in and was waiting in the family room when we came down 
  • OMG I'm freaking LOFL - hahaha.  Sorry @Mack2342

    I was trying to pee in a cup yesterday for a preg test and I used one of DDs dixie cups and she saw I had pee in it and got all mad I used it and said "gross"
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    @Mack2342 hahahha. Get it girl. Well, that's how grand babies are made !!
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    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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    Just got back from dinner. Went surprisingly ok. Same mooches, but expected. I'm sure my mother will get me on Father's Day.....
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 glad dinner went better than expected.  Hopefully it's the same for Father's Day 
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    edited June 2017
    I should have checked rhis thread first. Glad it went well @SP128. Nothing worse than expected at least. 
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  • @sp128 I'm glad dinner went well. I was anxious for you.  Did you end up driving or did the friend? 
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    @Chawk17  The friend ended up driving.  I mean, they all live in the same house.  Not sure why my mother was perturbed that I didn't want to make an extra trip.
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • I'm glad. Whew :smiley:
  • I'm glad everything went well @SP128

    this is not my weekend ladies. I opened my car door and it whacked me in the forehead and I started bleeding. Let's just get on with Monday!
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  • Sorry @vlagrl29! Monday will be here before we know it. 
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  • @vlagrl29 oh no. I hope for a better week
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