Testing: IDK... The BFN yesterday really hurt, so maybe I can just wait.
R/R: It's Monday.
CS/Q: No.
GTKY: It's had for me to narrow this down, so I'm going to do two. I am somewhat obsessed with living authentically which leads me to a quote and a poem: "Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony." -Mahatma Gandhi
Me: 29 | DH: 29
Married 12/2016 DSS born 01/2016 TTC since 01/2017 Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
R/R: So I took my BFN pretty hard yesterday. It was supposed to be one of the most sensitive tests out there, and its a digital, so the result was easy to read. I also had a temp dip yesterday. Really thought this might be the month as I had an HSG and they say that helps odds since everything was flushed out. I am not out yet, but at 11 DPO, not feeling hopeful either.
I am only in the office two days this week between training and PTO, so I am busy but oh so excited!!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? Everything has beauty, but not everyone can see it. I am one that can find the silver lining in almost anything and am mostly and optimistic, even though my Rant doesn't seem that way right now
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "eggs have no business dancing with stones" is a fav of mine. I also love anything from rupi kaur. One of my favs is: The kindest words my father ever said to me women like you drown oceans
R/R: I'm still really bummed about this cycle. I felt like everything was perfect, but nothing but BFNs. And next week marks 1 year since first TTC. I keep thinking about taking a bump break this next cycle, since I feel like I'm obsessing and getting my hopes up a little too much. But I'm so bored without you guys!
CS/Q: I stopped progesterone yesterday since it was pretty clear I was out and because it was making me BSC. Still no temp dip today though.
GTKY: I don't have much in the way of inspiration today, but I do love Ben Folds "Rock this shit" for a good laugh and morale booster. Maybe that should be my theme song next cycle?
Me: 30 | DH: 31 Met: August 2006 Married: July 2012 TTC #1 since June 2016
So I was going to put these cute gifs of Pomeranians with their heads in pieces of bread to lift everyone's spirits, but I can't get gifs to work again. Anyone know what is up with that?
Me: 30 | DH: 31 Met: August 2006 Married: July 2012 TTC #1 since June 2016
@pebbledam I really like your masks poem. A lot. It really hits home for me...
Month/Cycle: 5 total, 1 AL
CD/DPO: 22/7
Timing: O
Testing: Waiting...
R/R: Rant: *TW* My good friend's wife just did a maternity photo shoot and posted all the pictures. I'm really happy for them, but all the same it was really bittersweet/emotional to see. When we first started TTC we had hoped to beat them to it, but they got there first. Then the first time I got KU we would have just been a couple months behind. I MC'd, but got KU again right away and still would have only been a few months behind... until I MC'D again, and now who knows what will happen. I know it's a stupid and unfair way to feel, but it's still there. */TW*
Rave: I want to the ocean with MH and my brother yesterday. My brother was getting a tattoo and MH and I just got to walk around all day and window shop. The beach was beautiful too
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "To see a world in a grain of sand/and heaven in a wild flower/hold infinity in the palm of your hand/and eternity in an hour." William Blake
TW
Me: 33 DH: 32 Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013 Started TTC August 2016 BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17 BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17 BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18 BFP: 2/27/20
@hedgepig, I'm so sorry for how those shoot photos made you feel. It really sucks when you can't enjoy someone else's joy because if you're own pain. **TW** my cousin's wife was due one month after my first EDD, and now my mom just yesterday posted a picture on Facebook saying "getting my baby snuggle fix in" and posted pictures of my little bro holding him because he was the sponsor at the baptism this weekend. It really felt like it was rubbing salt in the wounds. And now I'm not going on Facebook for a while again.
Me: 30 | DH: 31 Met: August 2006 Married: July 2012 TTC #1 since June 2016
@icecubeinthedesert Ugh, that sucks so bad... definitely that salt in the wounds feeling. Especially because it's family. Hugs to you!
The friends I was talking about live in a different state now and we're going to be able to visit them in a few weeks because we'll be in the area. I was talking to my friend about when we're going to stay and he was like "oh, that's perfect timing, that way you can come to the shower!" I'll do it, but it's gonna be hard.
In much better news, oh wow, dat gif. I can't get it out of my head!
TW
Me: 33 DH: 32 Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013 Started TTC August 2016 BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17 BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17 BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18 BFP: 2/27/20
Testing: I said I was going to wait until we got home from vacay... but I'm already waivering a bit... we will see.
R/R: traveling home tomorrow! Excited to see my family and friends!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs?
Im a big fan of Rumi. A few favorites... "Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love." "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
R/R: Rave: I'm so glad I officially joined TB, even if I do still mostly lurk. Y'all are so smart and hilarious. Rant: Why isn't there just *definitive* science on the effectiveness of things like raspberry leaf tea (is it good or bad for combating estrogen dominance)?! I swear, there are as many different answers to the question as there are websites that discuss them.
CS/Q: Since removing my IUD, I spot brown for a good week before AF. And when I say spot, I mean I track my CM and my CM for that week is brown-- nothing usually works its way down to my undies until CD1. Not trying to SS, just wondering if this is considered out of the range of "normal"? I have an appt with Dr next month and will also be asking her, of course.
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "The world owes us nothing; we owe each other the world." A little Ani DiFranco from my youth that still hits me whenever I hear it.
@looeeze I've always spotted before my period. I went to my OBGYN about it last month, we did an ultrasound to see if I have fibroids, and nope - everything is fine. She said it's normal for some.
@doxiemoxie212 Thanks! I do have at least one fibroid that I know of (right on top o the ol' ute, but not big enough to concern my OBGYN), I didn't realize that could be contributing to the spotting. I also have a dermoid on my R ovary (it has a tooth!!) that she said wasn't a big deal. Maybe I should get a second opinion.
@looeeze I'm not a fibroid expert by any stretch, but fibroids can cause spotting in between periods. I have no idea if the kind that can cause spotting might also present challenges for TTC, though. If you ask in the chart stalk weekly thread someone more knowledgeable might chime in!
I completely posted in yesterday's thread, sorry about that!!! @icecubeinthedesert thank you for the Pomeranian pics, definitely brought a smile to my face!
Month/Cycle: 10/10 (but took a break in there so maybe 6/6 actually trying?)
CD/DPO: 24/8
Timing: -2 and O
Testing: Not until after AF is due
R/R: My last meeting today cancelled so I have a lot of time to do paperwork... so it is a good Monday!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "Take a moment from time to time to remember that you are alive. I know this sounds a trifle obvious, but it is amazing how little time we take to remark upon this singular and gratifying fact. By the most astounding stroke of luck an infinitesimal portion of all the matter in the universe came together to create you and for the tiniest moment in the great span of eternity you have the incomparable privilege to exist." -Bill Bryson
@pebbledam and @labgrand2012 I'm so sorry for those BFNs. It's the worst when you really let yourself hope for a cycle and then it all comes crashing down. No shame in crying into some wine or ice cream today!
@icecubeinthedesert hitting 1 year TTC is definitely hard. I struggled with it a lot. I had taken a break from this board once I hit about 6 months TTC, but just came back. I don't think I'll be as active or committed as I was in the beginning, but it definitely helps knowing this community exists. Sometimes I feel like the only person in the real world with these problems.
@hedgepig I know what you mean!! One of my best friends just had her baby last month. She was one of the few friends I confided in about TTC since the beginning and she said she wasn't even in the place to start thinking about kids. Fast foward 6 months later and *whoops* she gets pregnant by accident, now has a beautiful baby boy, and my uterus is still empty. The pain is real, even when you want to be happy for your friend.
Month/Cycle: 17/17
CD/DPO: 24/4
Timing: approx. -4,-2,O,+1
Testing: not yet
R/R: Mostly a rave today, since I finally feel well enough to go back to the gym!! I miss my boot camp class kicking my butt every day. Plus DH is finally on board with meal prepping! Hopefully we can ride this motivation train all the way to some significant weight loss.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "Unless a person like you cares a whole awful lot, the world's not going to get better. It's just not." Dr. Seuss from the Lorax. I know it's maybe a little childish, but I've always loved that quote and have seriously thought about getting the word "unless" tattooed on my body, maybe with a tree.. my tattoo addiction is real though so I need to take a break from it. lol
Me 30 Him 30 Married August 2015 DS born 5/23/2018 TTC #2 July 2020
Not trying to give false hope here, just want to be supportive @pebbledam and @labgrand2012, but, 11dpo is still early for a positive test. I wouldn't let it drown you out just yet. @labgrand2012 how long is your usual LP? Was the temp drop below your cover line?
It's possible (maybe probable) that this article from Fertility Friend regarding the "best" time to POAS and HPTs has already been shared somewhere on TTGP, but I find the info in it really helpful: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/When-can-I-expect-a-positive-HPT-if-I-am-pregnant.html I know it's really hard to resist the urge to find out asap though. Hugs ladies.
@icecubeinthedesert I'm so sorry that you are feeling so down about this cycle and your upcoming TTC anniversary. I'll admit I would personally be really sad if you took a bump break, but you have to do what you have to do to take care of yourself and your mental health. Big hugs my friend. Also, I LOVE Rock This Shit.
@hedgepig I don't think that your feelings are stupid and unfair. There are so many layers to the feelings that we have after loss and none of them are wrong. Feel what you feel and be kind to yourself.
@hollieileen Stay strong and wait till after vacay! You can do it!
@looeeze How big is the dermoid? It's interesting that yours has teeth.
Month/Cycle: 3/2 (1AL)
CD/DPO: 20/3
Timing: according to FF today (and my relocated CHs) we are bang on at O. No other timing this cycle due to an absentee DH because work travel.
Testing: Probably not, unless I happen to hit 14dpo with no sign of AF. This is my first full cycle AL, so, I'm really just curious what my LP will be.
R/R:
GTKY: In spoiler because I'm always worried that mobile pics will end up huge.
echoing @kbamomma33, not to give false hope either, @pebbledam,@labgrand2012, @labgrand2012 but (*TW*) when I got KU, my tests were negative every day until 16 DPO, and I have generally a 14-15 day LP. ::shrug::
@pebbledam and @labgrand2012 I'm sorry about the BFNs. @icecubeinthedesert I'm sorry about how you feel about this cycle. The 1 year mark is tough, take all the time you need and know we are all here
Month/Cycle: 14/13
CD/DPO: 24/9
Timing: -5.-3,-2,-1, O
Testing: Most likely not
R/R: Today I had some nice pre AF cramps and a little bit of spotting. Spotting is usually a good sign I'm out. UGH.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? Is it sad that I don't really turn to anything that's inspirational?
@kbamomma33 I only have three cycles where I have confirmed O, and those LP phases were 11, 11 and 15. But I did have two longer cycles in the last 5 months were I was not tracking O. I am still going to stay hopeful that maybe it was just too early and that FF article definitely helped! Thank you.
BFP #1 1/4/14 | Diagnosed with Trisomy 13 at 12 weeks 3/6/14 | MMC 3/21/14 | D&C 3/24/14
BFP #2 7/1/14 | DS born March 2015 BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
I just posted over in the newbie thread, I hope it's OK to jump in here.
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: CD21/5DPO
Timing: -3
Testing: I'm not even worrying about it this month. DH and I were both super sick during the FW this month so we only hit -3, and that's assuming that the fever didn't throw off my chart. On to next month!
R/R: Not related to TTC, but my DD's friends trashed her room yesterday and she had a mega fit about having to clean it up. I heard her using the iPad in her room and remotely disabled it with Lost Mode via my phone, and displayed a message that said "This iPad will reactivate when your room is clean." She promptly lost her shit and came out crying that "the iPad insulted [her] for having a messy room". TL;DR, she and DH got the room cleaned after she calmed down and I came clean about having put that message on her screen, but I also laughed my ass off about the iPad insulting her.
CS/Q: N/A
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "Keep Your Head Up" by Andy Grammar. It was REALLY popular during one of the most difficult times in my life and it really helped me through it. A few years later when I was going through my divorce, I got a chance to see him live and hear him play it live and it was wonderful.
@labgrand2012, @icecubeinthedesert - Sorry for the BFNs. Splitskies on a bucket of ice cream? @hedgepig - I haven't had the losses you've had and it still really hurt when my friend posted her maternity photos. What you are feeling now, most of us can relate to. *hugs* @Amphibious22 - I love that quote. Sometimes the aimpliest thoughts are the most profound. @kbamomma33 - Thank you for the reality check. My temp dropped waaaayyyy below coverline today which also confirms impending AF, but I will keep my FX for the other ladies who still have a chance. @jellybean529 - Welcome! That sound like my type of parenting right there. I might be a little bit evil. *shrug*
Me: 29 | DH: 29
Married 12/2016 DSS born 01/2016 TTC since 01/2017 Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
@doxiemoxie212 It has been raining so much here as well, we had one lovely spout of 70s/80 and now its 50s and raining for like 2 weeks straight... @icecubeinthedesert I'm sorry for your BFNs as well. I too have though taking a bump break just to try to ease the stress. FX no temp dip is a good sign! Also, thank you for the gifs!! @hedgepig the ocean sounds amazing right now! And sorry you are feeling mixed emotions on your friend's pictures, it is so hard not to compare to others. @hollieileen Have fun seeing your family and friends! The pull to POAS is so hard to resist at times! @looeeze sorry you are feeling down about this cycle. and I agree, we need better science @jeg07 I love when meetings get canncelled @amphibious22 I hope you enjoy getting back into bootcamp. I love my bootcamp classes. And that is amazing that your DH is on board for meal prepping. It is so hard when one partner wants to do it and the other doesn't. My DH will be on board for like a week, and then wants to eat out all the time. @mispanda I am sorry you feel like AF is coming, FX it is not. @jellybean529 LOL, i love that your DH was insulted. And way to use the technology to your advantage!
BFP #1 1/4/14 | Diagnosed with Trisomy 13 at 12 weeks 3/6/14 | MMC 3/21/14 | D&C 3/24/14
BFP #2 7/1/14 | DS born March 2015 BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
@kbamomma33 the dermoid was 2.8 x 1.8 x1.7 cm as of 12/2015. In 2012, it was juuuust about the same size, maybe a teeny bit smaller.
Yeah, when I got the second ultrasound to confirm the dermoid and her (obviously she's a she!!) teeth, I made my husband come with and sit in the room to see because I was so fascinated with it.
@doxiemoxie212 - It's been like this for the last month or so? I think it's partially because a lot of the people that used to post on the dailies either graduated (March/April had so many grads!) or moved to the IF thread. And I think the other part is that there are more ladies WTO. I, personally, stay in the WTO for 3-4 weeks at a time just waiting for my ovary to decide to do it's job.
Me: 29 | DH: 29
Married 12/2016 DSS born 01/2016 TTC since 01/2017 Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
Re: TWW Monday 5/22
CD/DPO: 32/12
Timing: -3, O
Testing: IDK... The BFN yesterday really hurt, so maybe I can just wait.
R/R: It's Monday.
CS/Q: No.
GTKY: It's had for me to narrow this down, so I'm going to do two. I am somewhat obsessed with living authentically which leads me to a quote and a poem: "Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony." -Mahatma Gandhi
DSS born 01/2016
TTC since 01/2017
Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
CD/DPO: 27/12
Timing: -3, -2, -1, 0, +1
Testing: Another BFN yesterday.
R/R: So I took my BFN pretty hard yesterday. It was supposed to be one of the most sensitive tests out there, and its a digital, so the result was easy to read. I also had a temp dip yesterday. Really thought this might be the month as I had an HSG and they say that helps odds since everything was flushed out. I am not out yet, but at 11 DPO, not feeling hopeful either.
I am only in the office two days this week between training and PTO, so I am busy but oh so excited!!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs?
Everything has beauty, but not everyone can see it.
I am one that can find the silver lining in almost anything and am mostly and optimistic, even though my Rant doesn't seem that way right now
@pebbledam Sorry for the BFN Hugs!
BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
CD/DPO: 21/4
Timing: all the days
Testing: nope
R/R: it's raining again booooooo
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs?
"eggs have no business dancing with stones" is a fav of mine. I also love anything from rupi kaur. One of my favs is:
The kindest words my father ever said to me
women like you drown oceans
@labgrand2012, sorry about the BFNs for you too. I also had an HSG this cycle, and took a FRER on CD11, so I totally feel your pain.
@doxiemoxie212, I really like that egg quote!
Month/Cycle: 6/5 (1 TTCAL)
CD/DPO: 35/15
Timing: doesn't matter
Testing: nope, just waiting for AF.
R/R: I'm still really bummed about this cycle. I felt like everything was perfect, but nothing but BFNs. And next week marks 1 year since first TTC. I keep thinking about taking a bump break this next cycle, since I feel like I'm obsessing and getting my hopes up a little too much. But I'm so bored without you guys!
CS/Q: I stopped progesterone yesterday since it was pretty clear I was out and because it was making me BSC. Still no temp dip today though.
GTKY: I don't have much in the way of inspiration today, but I do love Ben Folds "Rock this shit" for a good laugh and morale booster. Maybe that should be my theme song next cycle?
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
@labgrand2012 Yay for silver linings!
@pebbledam I really like your masks poem. A lot. It really hits home for me...
Month/Cycle: 5 total, 1 AL
CD/DPO: 22/7
Timing: O
Testing: Waiting...
R/R:
Rant: *TW* My good friend's wife just did a maternity photo shoot and posted all the pictures. I'm really happy for them, but all the same it was really bittersweet/emotional to see. When we first started TTC we had hoped to beat them to it, but they got there first. Then the first time I got KU we would have just been a couple months behind. I MC'd, but got KU again right away and still would have only been a few months behind... until I MC'D again, and now who knows what will happen. I know it's a stupid and unfair way to feel, but it's still there. */TW*
Rave: I want to the ocean with MH and my brother yesterday. My brother was getting a tattoo and MH and I just got to walk around all day and window shop. The beach was beautiful too
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs?
"To see a world in a grain of sand/and heaven in a wild flower/hold infinity in the palm of your hand/and eternity in an hour." William Blake
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
The friends I was talking about live in a different state now and we're going to be able to visit them in a few weeks because we'll be in the area. I was talking to my friend about when we're going to stay and he was like "oh, that's perfect timing, that way you can come to the shower!" I'll do it, but it's gonna be hard.
In much better news, oh wow, dat gif. I can't get it out of my head!
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
https://youtu.be/6RPx5NFWbIM
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
CD/DPO: 22/8
Timing: good
Testing: I said I was going to wait until we got home from vacay... but I'm already waivering a bit... we will see.
R/R: traveling home tomorrow! Excited to see my family and friends!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs?
Im a big fan of Rumi. A few favorites... "Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love." "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
CD/DPO: 26/11
Timing: -4,-2,-1,0
Testing: no. don't feel good about this cycle.
R/R:
Rave: I'm so glad I officially joined TB, even if I do still mostly lurk. Y'all are so smart and hilarious.
Rant: Why isn't there just *definitive* science on the effectiveness of things like raspberry leaf tea (is it good or bad for combating estrogen dominance)?! I swear, there are as many different answers to the question as there are websites that discuss them.
CS/Q: Since removing my IUD, I spot brown for a good week before AF. And when I say spot, I mean I track my CM and my CM for that week is brown-- nothing usually works its way down to my undies until CD1. Not trying to SS, just wondering if this is considered out of the range of "normal"? I have an appt with Dr next month and will also be asking her, of course.
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "The world owes us nothing; we owe each other the world." A little Ani DiFranco from my youth that still hits me whenever I hear it.
@icecubeinthedesert thank you for the Pomeranian pics, definitely brought a smile to my face!
Month/Cycle: 10/10 (but took a break in there so maybe 6/6 actually trying?)
CD/DPO: 24/8
Timing: -2 and O
Testing: Not until after AF is due
R/R: My last meeting today cancelled so I have a lot of time to do paperwork... so it is a good Monday!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs?
"Take a moment from time to time to remember that you are alive. I know this sounds a trifle obvious, but it is amazing how little time we take to remark upon this singular and gratifying fact. By the most astounding stroke of luck an infinitesimal portion of all the matter in the universe came together to create you and for the tiniest moment in the great span of eternity you have the incomparable privilege to exist." -Bill Bryson
@icecubeinthedesert hitting 1 year TTC is definitely hard. I struggled with it a lot. I had taken a break from this board once I hit about 6 months TTC, but just came back. I don't think I'll be as active or committed as I was in the beginning, but it definitely helps knowing this community exists. Sometimes I feel like the only person in the real world with these problems.
@hedgepig I know what you mean!! One of my best friends just had her baby last month. She was one of the few friends I confided in about TTC since the beginning and she said she wasn't even in the place to start thinking about kids. Fast foward 6 months later and *whoops* she gets pregnant by accident, now has a beautiful baby boy, and my uterus is still empty. The pain is real, even when you want to be happy for your friend.
Month/Cycle: 17/17
CD/DPO: 24/4
Timing: approx. -4,-2,O,+1
Testing: not yet
R/R: Mostly a rave today, since I finally feel well enough to go back to the gym!! I miss my boot camp class kicking my butt every day. Plus DH is finally on board with meal prepping! Hopefully we can ride this motivation train all the way to some significant weight loss.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs?
"Unless a person like you cares a whole awful lot, the world's not going to get better. It's just not." Dr. Seuss from the Lorax. I know it's maybe a little childish, but I've always loved that quote and have seriously thought about getting the word "unless" tattooed on my body, maybe with a tree.. my tattoo addiction is real though so I need to take a break from it. lol
Married August 2015
DS born 5/23/2018
TTC #2 July 2020
It's possible (maybe probable) that this article from Fertility Friend regarding the "best" time to POAS and HPTs has already been shared somewhere on TTGP, but I find the info in it really helpful:
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/When-can-I-expect-a-positive-HPT-if-I-am-pregnant.html
I know it's really hard to resist the urge to find out asap though. Hugs ladies.
@icecubeinthedesert I'm so sorry that you are feeling so down about this cycle and your upcoming TTC anniversary. I'll admit I would personally be really sad if you took a bump break, but you have to do what you have to do to take care of yourself and your mental health. Big hugs my friend. Also, I LOVE Rock This Shit.
@hedgepig I don't think that your feelings are stupid and unfair. There are so many layers to the feelings that we have after loss and none of them are wrong. Feel what you feel and be kind to yourself.
@hollieileen Stay strong and wait till after vacay! You can do it!
@looeeze How big is the dermoid? It's interesting that yours has teeth.
Month/Cycle: 3/2 (1AL)
CD/DPO: 20/3
Timing: according to FF today (and my relocated CHs) we are bang on at O. No other timing this cycle due to an absentee DH because work travel.
Testing: Probably not, unless I happen to hit 14dpo with no sign of AF. This is my first full cycle AL, so, I'm really just curious what my LP will be.
R/R:
GTKY: In spoiler because I'm always worried that mobile pics will end up huge.
@icecubeinthedesert I'm sorry about how you feel about this cycle. The 1 year mark is tough, take all the time you need and know we are all here
Month/Cycle: 14/13
CD/DPO: 24/9
Timing: -5.-3,-2,-1, O
Testing: Most likely not
R/R: Today I had some nice pre AF cramps and a little bit of spotting. Spotting is usually a good sign I'm out. UGH.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? Is it sad that I don't really turn to anything that's inspirational?
BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: CD21/5DPO
Timing: -3
Testing: I'm not even worrying about it this month. DH and I were both super sick during the FW this month so we only hit -3, and that's assuming that the fever didn't throw off my chart. On to next month!
R/R: Not related to TTC, but my DD's friends trashed her room yesterday and she had a mega fit about having to clean it up. I heard her using the iPad in her room and remotely disabled it with Lost Mode via my phone, and displayed a message that said "This iPad will reactivate when your room is clean." She promptly lost her shit and came out crying that "the iPad insulted [her] for having a messy room". TL;DR, she and DH got the room cleaned after she calmed down and I came clean about having put that message on her screen, but I also laughed my ass off about the iPad insulting her.
CS/Q: N/A
GTKY: What's one of your favorite inspirational quotes, phrases, poems, or songs? "Keep Your Head Up" by Andy Grammar. It was REALLY popular during one of the most difficult times in my life and it really helped me through it. A few years later when I was going through my divorce, I got a chance to see him live and hear him play it live and it was wonderful.
Throwing leaves
@hedgepig - I haven't had the losses you've had and it still really hurt when my friend posted her maternity photos. What you are feeling now, most of us can relate to. *hugs*
@Amphibious22 - I love that quote. Sometimes the aimpliest thoughts are the most profound.
@kbamomma33 - Thank you for the reality check. My temp dropped waaaayyyy below coverline today which also confirms impending AF, but I will keep my FX for the other ladies who still have a chance.
@jellybean529 - Welcome! That sound like my type of parenting right there. I might be a little bit evil. *shrug*
DSS born 01/2016
TTC since 01/2017
Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
@icecubeinthedesert I'm sorry for your BFNs as well. I too have though taking a bump break just to try to ease the stress. FX no temp dip is a good sign! Also, thank you for the gifs!!
@hedgepig the ocean sounds amazing right now! And sorry you are feeling mixed emotions on your friend's pictures, it is so hard not to compare to others.
@hollieileen Have fun seeing your family and friends! The pull to POAS is so hard to resist at times!
@looeeze sorry you are feeling down about this cycle. and I agree, we need better science
@jeg07 I love when meetings get canncelled
@amphibious22 I hope you enjoy getting back into bootcamp. I love my bootcamp classes. And that is amazing that your DH is on board for meal prepping. It is so hard when one partner wants to do it and the other doesn't. My DH will be on board for like a week, and then wants to eat out all the time.
@mispanda I am sorry you feel like AF is coming, FX it is not.
@jellybean529 LOL, i love that your DH was insulted. And way to use the technology to your advantage!
BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
Yeah, when I got the second ultrasound to confirm the dermoid and her (obviously she's a she!!) teeth, I made my husband come with and sit in the room to see because I was so fascinated with it.
DSS born 01/2016
TTC since 01/2017
Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018