GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
Me: 35 DH: 35
Married: 5-16-2009
Charlotte Elaine 5-27-2014 Anna Josephine 3-29-2016 Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
R/R: temp went up just a little bit this morning, so I'm not out yet! Still not feeling optimistic but I guess we'll see
CS/Q: no
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
Laser hair removal for practically my entire body. I've almost done it several times but can't get past the price!
Me: 35 DH: 35
Married: 5-16-2009
Charlotte Elaine 5-27-2014 Anna Josephine 3-29-2016 Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
R/R: Well my spotting is very light off and on so I will stay here until it really hits me. Usually take a couple of days to get the full flow going - nothing like dragging on and on until it really slaps ya in the face.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I would pay someone ridiculous amounts of money to just help us get KU before the 12 month mark.
Me 27 DF 44 TTC post VR Sept 21/16 SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
R/R: temp is still high, but trying so hard not to get my hopes up.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I would plan a long vacation for me, MH and our extended families where we would travel to all the places I've always wanted to visit, but don't have the time or money!
@georgiagirl3050 I'm in the same boat as you, FX for both of us! @flashley-2 Sorry the spotting is dragging on, that's the worst.
R/R: Im supposed to pick my mom up from the airport today (she is flying home from vacation and needs a ride home). But I found out yesterday we need to make some later afternoon updates at work (no earlier than 4pm), so I might not be done by the time her flight lands at 630... Thankfully DH has agreed to be my back up, but it would have been nice to see my mom.
CS/Q: Nope just waiting...
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I'd go on a European vacation with DH to all the places we both want to visit - Ireland, Scotland, Italty, Spain, etc. We've talked about going into the past, but just never have the money to justify the trip.
@flashley-2 sorry about the spotting. @georgiagirl3050 I'd love to do laser hair removal as well! Why does it have to be so expensive??
georgiagirl3050 I hope the slight
temp spike is a good sign!
flashley-2 Ugh. I’m sorry. I hate when that spotting
starts. I’d much rather it just started already.
sjb2215 So
hard not to get your hopes up. Really hope it is good for you!
PS I am 90% sure I am not tagging correctly. Super dumb here!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 22/5
Timing: O, -1, -3, -5
Testing: Grrrr… Not happening unless I magically get
to 15 DPO.
R/R: Rave: **TW** My 19 month old daughter slept
through the night alone for the first time ever. Part of my fertility issues
relate, I hope, to BF, which she mostly does at night, so if this keeps going
or anything close to this, it could be a big help for me. Plus, you know, sleep
is awesome. End TW**
CS/Q: Not yet! Sadly, my chart is resembling last
month’s… which I thought was great but obviously wasn’t!
GTKY: A brand new Subaru Outback or Forester with all the
features! (I’m boring).
R/R: CH just showed up today and I'm a little bummed we didn't hit O day. I know the timing is ok without it, but still...
CS/Q: --
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) Buy a huge, newly constructed house in the town we've been trying to move to! And we'd buy a vacation home, which we are *so close* to doing right now, but if we won the lottery it would be like...SO MUCH BIGGER
@georgiagirl3050 temp going up a bit is great! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. @flashley-2 I'm sorry about the spotting @sjb2215 travel would be #2 on my list for sure...though maybe not with extended family @darkrose88 ugh sorry work is potentially getting in the way of seeing your mom.
R/R: I booked myself a massage for Friday because I desperately need one. Hoping it'll help me relax do I can sleep. This no sleeping thing is rough.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
I would find the best looking cherry red 1967 Mustang Convertible, buy it and then buy a house with a big, heated garage to keep it in.
R/R: Had a killer workout this morning, haven't sweat that much in awhile, so now I feel amazing but know the afternoon slump is going to hit hard as we have a potluck today.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) Well after doing the responsible things I think there would be two things I would do, a long spa vacation where I get every service I have ever wanted to try no matter how ridiculous it sounds. I would also bring my whole family to this weekend, including my in-laws from England. Maybe even some theme park for the kids. And I would buy my husband his wedding band that he wants. He has a cheap one that we got when we got married and we always said we would replace but just never have gotten around to it.
@georgiagirl3050 laser hair removal is also something that popped into my head. it would be glorious! Also fx for you! @flashley-2 sorry the spotting it taking its sweet time @sjb2215 fx for you! @darkrose88 I hope your work updates don't take too long so you can see your mom. That is nice of your DH to be your backup though! @EmilyLove25 **TW** oh a full nights sleep!! I love those! *I hope she keeps it up **TW** @kmalls sorry you're bummed about not hitting O day, but the rest of the timing looks fantastic! @Dilynne Ohhh a massage! I hope it helps.
BFP #1 1/4/14 | Diagnosed with Trisomy 13 at 12 weeks 3/6/14 | MMC 3/21/14 | D&C 3/24/14
BFP #2 7/1/14 | DS born March 2015 BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
R/R: Had some suspicious cramps last night but I refuse to let the BSC get me. Still feeling out. It helps that I have been super busy planning this bridal shower. It's Harry Potter themed which will be a lot of fun! I'm making butterbeer! Yummm!
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I would hop on a plane with the hubby and fly to Australia! Then we would fly out the best financial planner we could find. Then we would lay on a beach and have him tell us how to responsibly spend our money.
@georgiagirl3050- laser hair removal is a great idea! I would definitely be getting that if I was a millionaire!
@flashley-2- Sorry about the spotting and that it's dragging out. That really is the worst.
@darkrose88- Sorry to hear that you won't get to see your mom today. Work ruins everything!
@flashley-2 Sorry about the spotting.
@darkrose88 Sorry you may not be able to see your mom. Hopefully you can get out of work in time!
@EmilyLove25 You need the "@" before the username in order for them to be notified that they were tagged. Also, woo-hoo to sleeping through the night!
@Dilynne Hope your massage is just what you need to relax!
@labgrand2012 Holy timing! I applaud you. Month/Cycle: 11/12
CD/DPO: 23/maybe 9
Timing: decent
Testing: only if AF is not here by my appt the 25th
R/R: Only two more work days this week, and the weekend cannot come soon enough.
CS/Q: nothing to see, chart is still ugly
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I don't know exactly where I would want to go, but it would definitely be some crazy vacation to try to hit as many locations as we can.
R/R: Today is closing day!! So excited to finally be a homeowner! We also finally know exactly what our closing costs are and it came in under what we were expecting. So thankfully we aren't quite as poor as we were anticipating. OB appointment also went well yesterday which I mentioned in the randoms thread.
CS/Q: No question but my temp took an unexpected dive this morning. Still above the CL but WAY too early for AF to be in the way. Hoping it goes back up a bit tomorrow.
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
I think I would take a year to travel the world. I would definitely go to the Maldives and do one of those tikis with my own personal pool in the ocean. I'd also fly first class.. go all out.
@LaurenEG14 Good call with the financial planner. I just went straight to spending mode haha.
ETA- @georgiagirl3050 My friend is doing lazer on her bikini area right now and she paied $3,000 for all of her treatments (like 7-8 total?) but there is a lifetime guarantee that the hair will not grow back. She is only 3 treatments in but she said she is so happy she pulled the trigger to do it. I get brazillians every 3-4 weeks and I think I'm going to splurge for it eventually too.
@georgiagirl3050 your timing looks great! Hopefully your temp stays high!
@flashley-2 sorry for the spotting. Hang in there.
@sjb2215 I would also love to travel, maybe just not with my family
@Dilynne enjoy your massage! I got some really good sleep at my last acupuncture appointment.
@laureneg14 I wish someone had thrown me a Harry Potter bridal shower. That sounds awesome!
Happy Hump Day!
Month/Cycle: 24/18ish
CD/DPO: 7dp5dt
Timing: FET 4/12
Testing: beta 4/26
R/R: I'm starting to think it's a cruel joke that my RE scheduled my beta for 14dp5dt. Itso becoming next to impossible not to test. But I have that day off of work so I'm trying really hard to hold out.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
There is a beautiful new construction house that was built to look like an old farm house in a very cool neighborhood near us and that would definitely be my first purchase. I day dream all the time about holding the winning ticket and immediately calling our realtor.
Me: 31 Husby: 36 Married May 2014 TTC # 2 Since December 2021 Baby girl W born 2/2021 Our journey so far... (tw loss & infertility)
Diagnosis: Poor Egg Quality Working with an RE since March 2016 2 failed TI cycles 3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017 23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17 BFP 4.21.17 MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey: 12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted! 5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house! 1.1.20 Homestudy process started 3.14.20 First social worker visit 5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test! Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
R/R: I'm sick today, not full blown cols or flu just tired and sore throat and stuffy nose so I decided it's a good day to sit in bed and watch Netflix and crochet lol
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) Oh geez....either picking up and buying a new house with farm land or getting a tummy tuck....id love to be rid of all the extra skin from losing weight
Testing: AF is due Friday, so Saturday if necessary.
R/R: Raves: I feel nicely sore from Zumba last night. I'm super loving the new gym that's less than a mile from my house. So much more convenient than the gym by work!
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I was all prepared for a responsible answer! I would say either a dream-ish home or a new car. (I purposely answered this before reading everyone else's answers so I wouldn't be tempted to steal other people's answers!)
R/R: It's another day and no AF! 4 days is a new record!
CS/Q: None today. I've got everything crossed and I'm praying!
GTKY: If a house is a responsible answer, then the VR headset for steam. So expensive but I want it so bad!
@georgiagirl3050 Laser hair removal. That's smart, I think that would be my next next splurge. For my chine and upper lip. @Flashley-2 That really bites and I'm sorry you have to wait. @sjb2215 Vacation would be awesome. Where would you go first? @darkrose88 I've always wanted to go to Spain, but so few people every consider it. @EmilyLove25 Not lame. Because I want a new car, too. And it would probably be something just as practical. I hope your daughter keeps it up! @kmalls O day or not, those are some respectable timings. @Dilynne Sleep is for the weak! (No, it's not... I wish I could sleep! Lol) @labgrand2012 I would like to do a spa day. Everyone is thinking of better splurges than me! This would be my third. @LaurenEG14 Butterbeer! It sounds so good in the books. @Pinky917 Woo weekend!
Husband & I married May 26th, 2012
Me 28 Him 28
TTC #1 since January 1st 2016
Anovulatory with PCOS Clomid 50;100;150;200: No O TSH 3.75 Put on 50mg levothyroxine 1500 MG Metformin 7.5 MG Letrozole: No Follicles 9 MG Letrozole: 21mm Follicle no pregnancy 4 cycles at 9 MG Letrozole, No pregnancy
Thanks for the positive thoughts everyone! I have a totally-getting-ahead-of-myself question. Last time I was TTC we were still announcing BFPs on the TWW thread, but I know now there's a separate grad thread. My question is related to how restrictive the grad thread is and the fact that I don't feel like I'm worthy of posting there since I'm only cycle 2. Do I just disappear if it's positive? Feels kinda rude since everyone is being so nice and wishing me luck...
Me: 35 DH: 35
Married: 5-16-2009
Charlotte Elaine 5-27-2014 Anna Josephine 3-29-2016 Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
@georgiagirl3050 Laser hair removal would be amazing. I hate shaving with a passion. @flashley-2 How did I not think of that GTKY answer? Sorry about impending AF. @sjb2215 Again, another awesome GTKY answer I didn't think of! @darkrose88 I hope you're able to finish and pick up your mom! @EmilyLove25 Yay for more sleep! @kmalls Ohhh yes a fancy vacation house would be great too! @Dilynne Boo to not sleeping. I hope the massage helps! @labgrand2012 Good workouts are the best! @LaurenEG14 Well now I know that if I ever get KU I need a Harry Potter themed baby shower with butterbeer! @Pinky917 Seriously, the weekend needs to hurry up. @JJMNO1616 Every time I see pictures of one of those huts in the Maldives I desperately want to go! @tamalahoops I imagine that wait must be agonizing. You can do it! And it's nice you'll have that day off! @kaitlink33 I wish I was sitting in bed watching Netflix. But not the sickness, I'm sorry you're not feeling well!
@kaitlink33 I saw the flow chart and I'm pretty sure I fit in the category of not been around long enough for the grad thread. So then I just disappear to my BMB without saying goodbye? Still feels rude but I'll do it if that's least likely to upset people.
Me: 35 DH: 35
Married: 5-16-2009
Charlotte Elaine 5-27-2014 Anna Josephine 3-29-2016 Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
@JJMNO1616 I wouldn't worry to much about the drop. It is totally normal for your temps to fluctuate a bit. I will normally get a random drop or two like that.
@tamalahoops Sorry they have you waiting so long for your beta. I'll be rooting for you next week!!!
@kaitlink33 Hope you are feeling better soon. And boo to your work schedule!! @Mythril Sorry to still see you here, but happy to see you on the TWW side!
@georgiagirl3050 We root on everyone who actively participates in the WTO/TWW threads, no matter how long they've been here. Rest assured, if you disappear, the people invested in your story will lurk the BMB and LT your intro. But given that many of us haven't really gotten the chance to know you, there really isn't a need for a long goodbye. FX your pretty chart is right and we see less of you in the future Wishing you the best.
@georgiagirl3050 I can understand why it feels a little rude. I have been hanging out here since Dec TTA because of unemployment reasons and I'm obviously hoping that next month (1/1) will be my month. Even through I have been hanging out here for awhile I know posting a 1/1 or even 2/2 in the grad thread would be hurtful to some ladies so I fully intend to just move onto my BMB (bc I'm tots going to be a SS and get KU right away ya know). A lot of ladies here lurk the BMB as well so they will probably see you and know where you went I don't think anyone will be offended if you disappear but that's not to say you won't be missed!
@georgiagirl3050 I think it is nice that you asked! I know I would not post on the Grad thread. And just so you know, a lot of people (or am I the only crazy one?) check the Bump Month Clubs to check on who has gotten the BFP if we don't think it would (yet or at that moment) be too personally upsetting (like I don't check on CD1 lol). So I'd still be cheering you along and seeing your results over there if you get it!
@darkrose88 Oh no! I hate when things come up at work unannounced that require me to stay late. At least your Husband is sweet enough to pick up your mum.
Testing: Maybe this weekend. Otherwise I'll test around Wednesday.
R/R: My work evaluation went well - yay!
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
If I won the lottery I'd splurge on buying my first house! After that I'd fund my wedding.
**TW in Spoiler**
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/683816 BFP 6/30/16, MC 8/21/16 BFP 05/04/17, 5/10/17 Emergency LAP due to ectopic. Right tube removed. BFP 07/12/17, ECDD 03/25/18 - Silver Orion Born 3/23/18 BFP 09/30/19, EDD 06/11/20
@tamalahoops that is a long wait and I don't know if I could wait that long but you can do it!
Month/Cycle: 13/12 (2/2, 1/1 AL)
CD/DPO: 20/5
Timing: -4,-3,-1, O
Testing: Most likely the 26th
R/R: I think I was clenching my jaw while I slept last night because I have a few sensitive teeth this morning. Hopefully it goes away soon because I do not want to have to go see my dentist. Also weird cramps today and I'm trying not to think about it too much.
CS/Q: nada, no chart this cycle.
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I would go on a nice lengthy vacation that included a lot of travel.
R/R: I'm just having a rough couple of days. My temp dropped today so I know AF is coming. I just don't know how much longer I can deal with this. I feel like I'm getting depressed and I feel like I'm not being a good mother to the child I already have because I'm always so down in the dumps. Part of me just wants to throw in the towel and just be one and done, as hard as that will be, but the other part of me is just telling myself to hang on until our RE appointment next month. Sigh.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) a new car--we only have one right now so a getting a second car would be amazing.
I'll try to come back later and reply to everyone else's comments.
TTC History
Me: 35 DH: 34 Married 07/2012 DD born 07/2014 DD2 born 10/2018 DS born 10/2022
IF history: TTC #2 since January 2016 June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018 FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
Good news ladies! I just found out we should by upgrading 6pm, so as the airport it only 25 minutes away, I should be able to pick up my mom after all!
@JJMNO1616 We found out the week of closing our closing costs, and they were pretty much what we were expecting. Funnily enough though, about a week after the closing, we got a check in the mail for $8 that we overpaid. Goes to show you never really know what your final costs will be! @shortstack930 Sorry you're having such a rough day! @labgrand2012 Hey there DPO buddy! like @mispanda said, you're timing was awesome! @SoraLk Glad to hear your work eval went well!
Haha @kmalls and @tamalahoops maybe I should clarify family for parts of the trip, but then also time alone for me and MH!
@Mythril Australia, southeast Asia (thinking Thailand, Indonesia, Phillippines), Italy, back to Austria/Germany, Ireland, Hawaii. Do I have to pick just one? I've got the travel bug for sure!
@shortstack930 I am so sorry you are feeling that way. It’s
awful. I really do think and hope the RE appointment would help. It’s next
month and you might learn a lot and get a better understanding. I think it’s
hard when you have no idea why nothing’s happening especially. I’m with you on
feeling like a bad mom. I’m that way too when I know AF is coming and
definitely on CD1.
@EmilyLove25 thank you, I've been super emotional today and then big surprise, AF shows up a few minutes ago. You're right that the appointment next month might help me feel better.
I'll be back in WTO tomorrow ladies, don't follow me!
TTC History
Me: 35 DH: 34 Married 07/2012 DD born 07/2014 DD2 born 10/2018 DS born 10/2022
IF history: TTC #2 since January 2016 June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018 FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
@georgiagirl3050, hello, 9 DPO buddy! My temps were up a little bit too this morning, fx it's a good sign for both of us!
@flashley-2, sorry about AF sneaking in gradually and dragging things out, that sucks.
@shortstack930, I'm sorry you're having a rough time right now and about CD1's appearance.
@darkrose88, fingers crossed that by some miracle you get finished at work in time to see your mother!
@EmilyLove25, I'd love to get a Subaru for my next car. They took over our Saturn dealership when Saturn went out of business (*sob*, still traumatized) and the cars always look so nice! My mother has one and loves it.
@LaurenEG14, ooh, a Harry Potter themed shower sounds really fun! I've never tried any of the butter beer recipes that are floating around but I really want to at some point.
@JJMNO1616, congratulations on the closing and officially being a homeowner!
@Mythril, the VR headset for Steam is a good thought! That would definitely be a fun splurge!
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 24/9
Timing: -4, -2
Testing: 12 DPO (Saturday)
R/R: Had a bad migraine yesterday and spent the day sleeping, so very happy to be back on my feet today and once again being a productive member of society. (If only because I need the distractions from obsessing over the TWW!)
CS/Q: Nope, just hoping that I at least have an 11-12 day LP if this isn't the cycle for me.
GTKY: I would love to have LASIK surgery on my eyes, though I get really squeamish about it if I think about it too much...so it would depend on how brave I was feeling! I'd also love to own a vacation home in Scotland or Ireland. (Never mind that we don't own an actual home yet!)
@sjb2215 You most certainly don't have to pick just one! I asked because if someone asked me where I wanted to go, I would have no clue! It's interesting to hear where other people want to go.
Seeing as how I'm a little bit into cartoons such as Shin Chan, Mainichi Kaa-San and a few animes, as well as video games from Japan, I think that's where I'd like to go. I want to see the sakura trees blooming and maybe go visit a festival or a shrine.
Husband & I married May 26th, 2012
Me 28 Him 28
TTC #1 since January 1st 2016
Anovulatory with PCOS Clomid 50;100;150;200: No O TSH 3.75 Put on 50mg levothyroxine 1500 MG Metformin 7.5 MG Letrozole: No Follicles 9 MG Letrozole: 21mm Follicle no pregnancy 4 cycles at 9 MG Letrozole, No pregnancy
Re: TWW Wednesday 4/19
CD/DPO: 33/9
Timing: -3, -2, -1, O
Testing: tomorrow if no AF
R/R: temp went up just a little bit this morning, so I'm not out yet! Still not feeling optimistic but I guess we'll see
CS/Q: no
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
Laser hair removal for practically my entire body. I've almost done it several times but can't get past the price!
Anna Josephine 3-29-2016
Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
My Chart
CD/DPO: 28
Timing: Doesn't matter
Testing: Not
R/R: Well my spotting is very light off and on so I will stay here until it really hits me. Usually take a couple of days to get the full flow going - nothing like dragging on and on until it really slaps ya in the face.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I would pay someone ridiculous amounts of money to just help us get KU before the 12 month mark.
Me 27 DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
Month/Cycle: 10/12
CD/DPO: 26/12
Timing: -5, -2, O, +1
Testing: Friday if AF still hasn't arrived
R/R: temp is still high, but trying so hard not to get my hopes up.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
I would plan a long vacation for me, MH and our extended families where we would travel to all the places I've always wanted to visit, but don't have the time or money!
@georgiagirl3050 I'm in the same boat as you, FX for both of us!
@flashley-2 Sorry the spotting is dragging on, that's the worst.
CD/DPO: 23/5
Timing: -2, -1, +1
Testing: April 28th
R/R: Im supposed to pick my mom up from the airport today (she is flying home from vacation and needs a ride home). But I found out yesterday we need to make some later afternoon updates at work (no earlier than 4pm), so I might not be done by the time her flight lands at 630... Thankfully DH has agreed to be my back up, but it would have been nice to see my mom.
CS/Q: Nope just waiting...
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I'd go on a European vacation with DH to all the places we both want to visit - Ireland, Scotland, Italty, Spain, etc. We've talked about going into the past, but just never have the money to justify the trip.
@flashley-2 sorry about the spotting.
@georgiagirl3050 I'd love to do laser hair removal as well! Why does it have to be so expensive??
@darkrose88 Boo for work getting in the way of your personal life!
Me 27 DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
georgiagirl3050 I hope the slight temp spike is a good sign!
flashley-2 Ugh. I’m sorry. I hate when that spotting starts. I’d much rather it just started already.
sjb2215 So hard not to get your hopes up. Really hope it is good for you!
PS I am 90% sure I am not tagging correctly. Super dumb here!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 22/5
Timing: O, -1, -3, -5
Testing: Grrrr… Not happening unless I magically get to 15 DPO.
R/R: Rave: **TW** My 19 month old daughter slept through the night alone for the first time ever. Part of my fertility issues relate, I hope, to BF, which she mostly does at night, so if this keeps going or anything close to this, it could be a big help for me. Plus, you know, sleep is awesome. End TW**
CS/Q: Not yet! Sadly, my chart is resembling last month’s… which I thought was great but obviously wasn’t!
GTKY: A brand new Subaru Outback or Forester with all the features! (I’m boring).
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
CD/DPO: 17/3
Timing: -2, -1(x2), +1(x2)
Testing: not sure
R/R: CH just showed up today and I'm a little bummed we didn't hit O day. I know the timing is ok without it, but still...
CS/Q: --
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
Buy a huge, newly constructed house in the town we've been trying to move to! And we'd buy a vacation home, which we are *so close* to doing right now, but if we won the lottery it would be like...SO MUCH BIGGER
@georgiagirl3050 temp going up a bit is great! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.
@flashley-2 I'm sorry about the spotting
@sjb2215 travel would be #2 on my list for sure...though maybe not with extended family
@darkrose88 ugh sorry work is potentially getting in the way of seeing your mom.
CD/DPO: 24/8
Timing: -3, -2
Testing: maybe...
R/R: I booked myself a massage for Friday because I desperately need one. Hoping it'll help me relax do I can sleep. This no sleeping thing is rough.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
I would find the best looking cherry red 1967 Mustang Convertible, buy it and then buy a house with a big, heated garage to keep it in.
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
CD/DPO: 24/5
Timing: +1, O, -1, -3, -4, -5
Testing: Will try to hold off until the 28th
R/R: Had a killer workout this morning, haven't sweat that much in awhile, so now I feel amazing but know the afternoon slump is going to hit hard as we have a potluck today.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) Well after doing the responsible things I think there would be two things I would do, a long spa vacation where I get every service I have ever wanted to try no matter how ridiculous it sounds. I would also bring my whole family to this weekend, including my in-laws from England. Maybe even some theme park for the kids. And I would buy my husband his wedding band that he wants. He has a cheap one that we got when we got married and we always said we would replace but just never have gotten around to it.
@georgiagirl3050 laser hair removal is also something that popped into my head. it would be glorious! Also fx for you!
@flashley-2 sorry the spotting it taking its sweet time
@sjb2215 fx for you!
@darkrose88 I hope your work updates don't take too long so you can see your mom. That is nice of your DH to be your backup though!
@EmilyLove25 **TW** oh a full nights sleep!! I love those! *I hope she keeps it up **TW**
@kmalls sorry you're bummed about not hitting O day, but the rest of the timing looks fantastic!
@Dilynne Ohhh a massage! I hope it helps.
BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
Dating 03/31/2011 Married 10/18/2014
DS Born 12/28/2017
TTC #2 06/2019
CD/DPO: 23/maybe 9
Timing: decent
Testing: only if AF is not here by my appt the 25th
R/R: Only two more work days this week, and the weekend cannot come soon enough.
CS/Q: nothing to see, chart is still ugly
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) I don't know exactly where I would want to go, but it would definitely be some crazy vacation to try to hit as many locations as we can.
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
CD/DPO: 22/8
R/R: Today is closing day!! So excited to finally be a homeowner! We also finally know exactly what our closing costs are and it came in under what we were expecting. So thankfully we aren't quite as poor as we were anticipating. OB appointment also went well yesterday which I mentioned in the randoms thread.
CS/Q: No question but my temp took an unexpected dive this morning. Still above the CL but WAY too early for AF to be in the way. Hoping it goes back up a bit tomorrow.
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
I think I would take a year to travel the world. I would definitely go to the Maldives and do one of those tikis with my own personal pool in the ocean. I'd also fly first class.. go all out.
@georgiagirl3050 YAY so happy your temp went back up a bit!
@flashley-2 Ugh, so sorry that it's being drawn out like this. I hate spotting.
@Dilynne Good for you! Glad to hear you are scheduling some self care.
@labgrand2012 Is your DH English?!
@LaurenEG14 Good call with the financial planner. I just went straight to spending mode haha.
ETA- @georgiagirl3050 My friend is doing lazer on her bikini area right now and she paied $3,000 for all of her treatments (like 7-8 total?) but there is a lifetime guarantee that the hair will not grow back. She is only 3 treatments in but she said she is so happy she pulled the trigger to do it. I get brazillians every 3-4 weeks and I think I'm going to splurge for it eventually too.
@flashley-2 sorry for the spotting. Hang in there.
@sjb2215 I would also love to travel, maybe just not with my family
@Dilynne enjoy your massage! I got some really good sleep at my last acupuncture appointment.
@laureneg14 I wish someone had thrown me a Harry Potter bridal shower. That sounds awesome!
Month/Cycle: 24/18ish
CD/DPO: 7dp5dt
Timing: FET 4/12
Testing: beta 4/26
R/R: I'm starting to think it's a cruel joke that my RE scheduled my beta for 14dp5dt. Itso becoming next to impossible not to test. But I have that day off of work so I'm trying really hard to hold out.
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
There is a beautiful new construction house that was built to look like an old farm house in a very cool neighborhood near us and that would definitely be my first purchase. I day dream all the time about holding the winning ticket and immediately calling our realtor.
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
CD/DPO: 25/ 8 or 9?
Timing: ok,but not great
Testing: maybe this weekend
R/R: I'm sick today, not full blown cols or flu just tired and sore throat and stuffy nose so I decided it's a good day to sit in bed and watch Netflix and crochet lol
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) Oh geez....either picking up and buying a new house with farm land or getting a tummy tuck....id love to be rid of all the extra skin from losing weight
@flashley-2 sorry for spotting:/
@georgiagirl3050 and @sjb2215 f2f for both of you!
@Dilynne hope you enjoy your massage!
CD/DPO: 35/13
Timing: errday
Testing: AF is due Friday, so Saturday if necessary.
R/R: Raves: I feel nicely sore from Zumba last night. I'm super loving the new gym that's less than a mile from my house. So much more convenient than the gym by work!
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
I was all prepared for a responsible answer! I would say either a dream-ish home or a new car. (I purposely answered this before reading everyone else's answers so I wouldn't be tempted to steal other people's answers!)
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
CD/DPO: 22/4
Timing: -2, 1
Testing: I can't even wrap my head around this.
R/R: It's another day and no AF! 4 days is a new record!
CS/Q: None today. I've got everything crossed and I'm praying!
GTKY: If a house is a responsible answer, then the VR headset for steam. So expensive but I want it so bad!
@georgiagirl3050 Laser hair removal. That's smart, I think that would be my next next splurge. For my chine and upper lip.
@Flashley-2 That really bites and I'm sorry you have to wait.
@sjb2215 Vacation would be awesome. Where would you go first?
@darkrose88 I've always wanted to go to Spain, but so few people every consider it.
@EmilyLove25 Not lame. Because I want a new car, too. And it would probably be something just as practical. I hope your daughter keeps it up!
@kmalls O day or not, those are some respectable timings.
@Dilynne Sleep is for the weak! (No, it's not... I wish I could sleep! Lol)
@labgrand2012 I would like to do a spa day. Everyone is thinking of better splurges than me! This would be my third.
@LaurenEG14 Butterbeer! It sounds so good in the books.
@Pinky917 Woo weekend!
Clomid 50;100;150;200: No O
TSH 3.75 Put on 50mg levothyroxine
1500 MG Metformin
7.5 MG Letrozole: No Follicles
9 MG Letrozole: 21mm Follicle no pregnancy
4 cycles at 9 MG Letrozole, No pregnancy
Anna Josephine 3-29-2016
Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
My Chart
@flashley-2 How did I not think of that GTKY answer? Sorry about impending AF.
@sjb2215 Again, another awesome GTKY answer I didn't think of!
@darkrose88 I hope you're able to finish and pick up your mom!
@EmilyLove25 Yay for more sleep!
@kmalls Ohhh yes a fancy vacation house would be great too!
@Dilynne Boo to not sleeping. I hope the massage helps!
@labgrand2012 Good workouts are the best!
@LaurenEG14 Well now I know that if I ever get KU I need a Harry Potter themed baby shower with butterbeer!
@Pinky917 Seriously, the weekend needs to hurry up.
@JJMNO1616 Every time I see pictures of one of those huts in the Maldives I desperately want to go!
@tamalahoops I imagine that wait must be agonizing. You can do it! And it's nice you'll have that day off!
@kaitlink33 I wish I was sitting in bed watching Netflix. But not the sickness, I'm sorry you're not feeling well!
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
Anna Josephine 3-29-2016
Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
My Chart
@MJDsquared I love when gyms are close, making going so much easier! Glad you are enjoying it!
BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
@georgiagirl3050 We root on everyone who actively participates in the WTO/TWW threads, no matter how long they've been here. Rest assured, if you disappear, the people invested in your story will lurk the BMB and LT your intro. But given that many of us haven't really gotten the chance to know you, there really isn't a need for a long goodbye. FX your pretty chart is right and we see less of you in the future Wishing you the best.
@labgrand2012 So is my DH!
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
@flashley-2 Sorry about the spotting =(
@sjb2215 FX your temp stays high!
@darkrose88 Oh no! I hate when things come up at work unannounced that require me to stay late. At least your Husband is sweet enough to pick up your mum.
@Dilynne Hope the massage helps!
@JJMNO1616 Yay for closing day! Congrats!
Month/Cycle: 13 cycles, 8 TTCAL
CD/DPO: 22 CD, 7 DPO
Timing: -1, -3, -4
Testing: Maybe this weekend. Otherwise I'll test around Wednesday.
R/R: My work evaluation went well - yay!
CS/Q:
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
If I won the lottery I'd splurge on buying my first house! After that I'd fund my wedding.
**TW in Spoiler**
BFP 6/30/16, MC 8/21/16
BFP 05/04/17, 5/10/17 Emergency LAP due to ectopic. Right tube removed.
BFP 07/12/17, ECDD 03/25/18 - Silver Orion Born 3/23/18
BFP 09/30/19, EDD 06/11/20
@darkrose88 that's exactly what I would do with a lottery win. That vacation sounds amazing!
@EmilyLove25 it's amazing when they sleep through the night!
@Dilynne enjoy your massage Friday!
@labgrand2012 your timing is amazing!
@JJMNO1616 yay for closing day, that's exciting!
@tamalahoops that is a long wait and I don't know if I could wait that long but you can do it!
Month/Cycle: 13/12 (2/2, 1/1 AL)
CD/DPO: 20/5
Timing: -4,-3,-1, O
Testing: Most likely the 26th
R/R: I think I was clenching my jaw while I slept last night because I have a few sensitive teeth this morning. Hopefully it goes away soon because I do not want to have to go see my dentist. Also weird cramps today and I'm trying not to think about it too much.
CS/Q: nada, no chart this cycle.
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!)
I would go on a nice lengthy vacation that included a lot of travel.
Month/Cycle: 16/16
CD/DPO: 29/15 (me) 29/14 (FF)
Timing: -5,-2,+1 (me) -3,0FF)
Testing: nope
R/R: I'm just having a rough couple of days. My temp dropped today so I know AF is coming. I just don't know how much longer I can deal with this. I feel like I'm getting depressed and I feel like I'm not being a good mother to the child I already have because I'm always so down in the dumps. Part of me just wants to throw in the towel and just be one and done, as hard as that will be, but the other part of me is just telling myself to hang on until our RE appointment next month. Sigh.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: if you won the lottery, what would your first splurge be (before you donate to charity and invest and pay off debts and all the other responsible answers!) a new car--we only have one right now so a getting a second car would be amazing.
I'll try to come back later and reply to everyone else's comments.
Married 07/2012
DD born 07/2014
DD2 born 10/2018
DS born 10/2022
IF history:
TTC #2 since January 2016
June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
@JJMNO1616 We found out the week of closing our closing costs, and they were pretty much what we were expecting. Funnily enough though, about a week after the closing, we got a check in the mail for $8 that we overpaid. Goes to show you never really know what your final costs will be!
@shortstack930 Sorry you're having such a rough day!
@labgrand2012 Hey there DPO buddy! like @mispanda said, you're timing was awesome!
@SoraLk Glad to hear your work eval went well!
@Mythril Australia, southeast Asia (thinking Thailand, Indonesia, Phillippines), Italy, back to Austria/Germany, Ireland, Hawaii. Do I have to pick just one? I've got the travel bug for sure!
@SoraLk glad your evaluation went well!
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
I'll be back in WTO tomorrow ladies, don't follow me!
Married 07/2012
DD born 07/2014
DD2 born 10/2018
DS born 10/2022
IF history:
TTC #2 since January 2016
June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
@darkrose88, fingers crossed that by some miracle you get finished at work in time to see your mother!
Anna Josephine 3-29-2016
Baby #3 EDD 3-3-2018
My Chart
Seeing as how I'm a little bit into cartoons such as Shin Chan, Mainichi Kaa-San and a few animes, as well as video games from Japan, I think that's where I'd like to go. I want to see the sakura trees blooming and maybe go visit a festival or a shrine.
Clomid 50;100;150;200: No O
TSH 3.75 Put on 50mg levothyroxine
1500 MG Metformin
7.5 MG Letrozole: No Follicles
9 MG Letrozole: 21mm Follicle no pregnancy
4 cycles at 9 MG Letrozole, No pregnancy