October 2017 Moms

TW - Goodbye

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After experiencing some strong cramping last night, I began to spot in the night. We went to the hospital and they were not able to find a heartbeat. While waiting for an ultrasound, we miscarried our baby in the hospital. 

The nurse was absolutely wonderful and offered to clean up our baby if we wanted to see it. Both DH and I were able to hold our baby before saying goodbye. 

We are obviously devastated by this loss. And appreciate any prayers and thoughts for us. 

I hope you all have wonderful healthy pregnancies! And you give those babies some huge hugs and kisses when you get to meet them!
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  • I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm glad you were able to see your angel and I will be thinking of your family. 



    • Siggy Warning: Loss, Living Child, Pregnancy mentioned
    • TTC Since August 2009
    • IUI #1, D/C December 2012
    • IUI #2, Natural MC March 2013
    • IUI #3 BFN
    • IUI #4 BFP Due April 2014
    • Rainbow Baby DS1 born April 2014 via emergency C-Section
    • IUI #5 February 1, 2017.....BFP due 10/25/17 with TWINS! --9w5d vanishing twin. 
    • Diagnosis: PCOS, Factor V Leiden Syndrome


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  • Oh my gosh this is heartbreaking to read. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I had tears while reading this. I am glad you were able to hold your baby before saying goodbye, and that you had a wonderful nurse to help you while you and DH had to go through this. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. <3
    Me: 31 DH:35
    TTC #1: March 2011 
    Fur-children: 3 dogs + 2 cats (all rescued)
    dx: Endometriosis and Fibroids 
    2 Laps and 1 Abdominal Myomectomy
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    5 rounds of iui
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    4/4 day 5 embryos were normal for PGS!!! 2 boys/2 girls
    FET 1/10/2017  
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  • I'm sorry very sorry to hear this. Please take care. 
  • I am so sorry and heartbroken to hear this. Will be thinking of you and your family. Take care of yourself.
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  • Oh @mommac2017 I am so very sorry to hear this.  Please take good care of yourself.  Virtual hugs coming your way.
    TTC x 1.5 years.
    Acupuncture, Femera x3 cyles, and HSG.
    BFP in September 2014, DS born June 2015.
    TTC x2 months.
    BFP January 2017.


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  • I am so so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I'm so very sorry to hear this! 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing lots of support from your loved ones. 
  • I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.

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  • :( I'm heartbroken for you and your DH. Sending you a huge hug, lots of prayers and strength. I'm so sorry.
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. 
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  • So so sorry :(
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • @mommac2017 I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you got a chance to hold your LO before saying goodbye. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  :'(
  • I'm so very sorry 
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. 

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    @mommac2017 I am so sorry to hear this! You and your family will be in my prayers! <3
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  • Oh no :( this is terrible - I'm so sorry to hear this news. Sending love <3

    Me.30 DH.31 
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    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. 


  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.

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    @mommac2017 I am so incredibly sorry to see this and to have to say goodbye. I am thinking of you, take care of yourself and we will deeply miss you <3



  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers for comfort and healing
  • Oh my goodness. I am so so sorry for your loss. I do find comfort that the hospital and nurse helped you to say goodbye. I bet your little sleeping angel was perfect. Be gentle with yourself.  

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.

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  • I'm so so sorry for your loss @mommac2017 I'm so glad you were able to hold your sweet angel with your DH. I'll be praying for you and your family
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  • I am so sorry for your loss, but glad that you were able to hold your baby and say goodbye. All the best to you.
  • This is so heartbreaking to read. I'm so, so, sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. We will be keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers..
  • @mommac2017 sending you and YH hugs and so much love <3 I am so very sorry for your sudden loss.
    me . late 30's | h . early 40's | < 3 . 2013

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    ttc#1 . jul 2015
    mmc . mar 2016
    dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
    tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
    BFP .  jan 2017
    DD .  oct 2017

    ntnp #2 . summer 2018
    mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
    RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
    surprise BFP .  aug 2019
    DS .  may 2020

    dx Hashimoto's 2023
    ttc #3 . feb 2023
    mmc . apr 2023
    mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
    dx elevated nk cells
    tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
    BFP . mar 2025

  • My heart is broken for you and your family.  You will be in my prayers.  Take care of yourself.
  • I am so sorry, I could not imagine the pain that you and your family are going through. I will pray for you during this hurt. Take care of yourself!
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts. Take care of yourself   <3
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself during this dark time. I'm glad you got to hold your angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I really wish you the very best. Big hugs your way 
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  • Praying for your healing hearts ♥️ I'm so sorry to hear this 
  • Omg I am ssssso sssso sorry for your loss mama. Thoughts and prayers headed your way. ❤️
  • I'm so incredibly sorry. I was rooting hard for all of us PGAL ladies. And I was really hoping that nobody else would have to go :( Sending thoughts and prayers your way <3
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  • My heart is broken! I pray for comfort for you & your family!
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  • @mommac2017  My heart breaks and I offer nothing but love and support. Praying for you and your Dh. 

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for you guys




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