Are any of you ladies familiar with FMLA and can give me advice?? I think my HR lady is really trying to screw me.
So I work for a company that offers STD at 60% and we go by FMLA eligibility.
I meet all the requirements except the 12 months (if I deliver early)
My anniversary date is April 18th and my due date is April 15th.
At my HR's discretion, if I make it to my due date she will allow it and I will meet my anniversary date and be eligible for FMLA. (she already gave me a Notice of Eligibility stating that if I made it to my due date, I will qualify as eligible)
However, if I don't make it to my due date then I will not qualify because I did NOT reach the 12 month requirement for FMLA. She stated that the 12 months has to be from my anniversary hire date and that's how the company has always measured it.
I have found no written rules in the handbook specifically mentioning that it has to be my year anniversary date & I can't find that in the FMLA guidelines (only that it has to be 12 months & 1250 hrs)
I've had meetings with my manager & CEO but since they are clueless about it, they have to go by what my HR tells them.
I can use any personal time I have which is about 2 days roughly...so if I make it to the 12th or 13th then I will be ok. But first year employees do not receive vacation time nor any unpaid time off so I have NO other time I can use to bridge the gap if I deliver my baby early. And I will be terminated since I will be taking a leave absence for so long.
I have worked plenty of overtime as well (as of right now I am almost at 2080 hrs since I have been working at this company) but even though I surpassed the hourly requirement I would still not qualify and there's nothing they can do if I have to leave earlier than my anniversary date.
I'm 37 weeks pregnant, I just pray that I make it to 40 so I dont have to deal with any of this, but I need to know what to do just in case he's early. I'm worried about losing my job, my STD and my benefits if I am.
Does it HAVE to be my anniversary hire date??
It just seems so unfair
Re: FMLA eligibility question
Are you a FTM with an uncomplicated pregnancy? If so there's a good chance you won't go into labor before your due date.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
BFP #1 12/23/13 MMC 01/24/14 @ 9w5days
Like PP said, if you are a FTM with no complications, you will probably make it to your due date. I think the average gestation for a first pregnancy is somewhere around 41w1d.
Your HR is correct, that if you deliver before your due date, you do not qualify for FMLA, because you have not yet full-filled your 12 months. That being said, I don't think it means you are automatically fired, it just means that your job is not legally protected, so you may not be able to file a claim with the Department of Labor if they do replace your position. I think it was actually really kind of her to tell you if you made it to your due date, she would still let you file for FMLA, although your anniversary date is not quite met.
Did she specifically say that they would replace you while on leave? I would speak to your supervisor, and ask them what their plans are for your leave. Are they going to bring someone in temporarily, or have someone else in your department cover your work load? If they do plan to replace you, will there be a similar position available when you return? They may have every intention to keep your position on hold until you return, regardless of your FMLA status.
@kcasset, I think you are in HR too, do you have anything to add?
Now, there was a teacher in my district who I know who had a child her first year on the job. I think the district let her use her sick leave (what little she had) and then let her go unpaid for the remainder of the 6 weeks (we can take up to 12 in my district with 6 paid out with sick leave). I think that is entirely dependent on the employer and is not written into FMLA.
I would also add, that if your pregnancy is going as expected and you have no medical issues, you should make it to your due date. My first two babies were born at 40+3. My doctor told me to be prepared for this one to be born at 40 (and maybe beyond 40).
DD: 6/20/11
DS: 2/23/13
EDD: 4/15/17
She said that she will terminate me if I have to leave before then.
I have met with the CEO and addressed my concerns and he has no clue about FMLA and said he has to go by what HR says.
I have already been given my eligibility paperwork stating that if I leave by my requested date (April 15th) then I am eligible for FMLA.
From my understanding, she's not going to change that paperwork and it will be submitted to the DOL that i am eligible....but she will terminate me if I do not make it to that date since I will not be here
But that I could reapply once I am ready to come back. -_-
My managers have all stood up for me claiming this is unfair and expressed that they want me back since i am a very hard worker and i have never had any kind of disciplinary actions.
I don't understand why she is not being so helpful and if my position will technically still be here, it's not hurting the company for me to be gone....Just me.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
one last thing....as someone that works in a federal prison, falsifying FMLA documentation for paid benefits is a federal crime (again, $600 is minimal, but 30k is a whole different ball game) and I wouldn't be willing to do federal time for someone else, so I can't really blame her.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
Fingers crossed you make it to the one year mark so none of this is an issue.
DD1 born 5/24/10.
Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.
DD2 born 5/14/13.
Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.
It's a good sign that your managers appear to want you back and that your HR rep is completely fine with your reapplying, so I think in terms of job security in the long term, you will be okay. It sucks to not be able to get the short-term disability payments, but honestly, a lot of people get nothing (myself included) but job protection when they go on maternity/FMLA leave, so I am sure with some careful budgeting you will be able to make due.
At the end of the day, though, I hope you are able to make it to your anniversary date so that none of this is an issue.
(Pereda v. Brookdale Senior Living Facilities, Inc) so I'm going to find out if this would be the same situation. Because I do feel like it's discrimination and the manner in which HR has been. Since the beginning when I first contacted her, she's been lacking in correspondence and cold.
Yes, she did do me that "favor" by allowing my leave date to be a few days before my anniversary date however if it were that much of a big deal I could have saved personal time between my due date and the anniversary date.
I just feel like it would be discriminatory for her to terminate me before I became eligible if I do go into labor before, because it's a medical reason and an unforseeable event. I would understand if I were to schedule an induction or section but if it's nothing I can control and I'm already pre-eligibile for FMLA, termination would be wrongful. This is according to the ruling in the Pereda v. Brookdale Senior Living Facilities, Inc case that protects FMLA pre-eligibile employees.
So, I'm going to look more into this and go above her to find out because it just doesnt seem right to me and I'm uncomfortable with it.
https://www.employmentmattersblog.com/2012/01/fmla-protects-workers-even-before-they-are-eligible-for-fmla-leave/
I'm sorry you're dealing with this stress at the end of your pregnancy and hope this won't end up being an issue for you.
"I just feel like it would be discriminatory for her to terminate me before I became eligible if I do go into labor before, because it's a medical reason and an unforseeable event."
I'm pretty sure that's exactly what can happen to anyone before they meet the FMLA requirements of 1250 hours/1 year. If you get sick with cancer and can't work after 8 months on the job, that's an unforeseeable medical event but I think you can be terminated for it.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
Also, most businesses are not going to classify a pregnancy as an "unforeseen medical event" because you can plan for a pregnancy, whereas you can't plan that you're going to get cancer. It's not your workplace's obligation to give you special treatment because your (from their perspective, presumably planned) pregnancy occurred before you would have met your FMLA requirements. I would think you'd have a hard time winning a discrimination argument when your employer can always come back with the fact that you knowingly got pregnant in a time frame that would cut it close to your FMLA eligibility (and if that sounds harsh, I don't mean it to).
For perspective, I wanted to switch school districts this year, but DH and I knew we wanted to try and have another baby, so we made the decision that I would stay in my current position to protect my FMLA eligibility just in case we got pregnant right away...which was a good choice, because we did. I'd be in the same position as you where I would not have any protection or benefits from FMLA.
DD1 born 5/24/10.
Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.
DD2 born 5/14/13.
Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.
I did not get purposely get pregnant. I was on birth control and breastfeeding at the time.
I just had a baby and he was 7 months at the time I found out with this pregnancy.
Now I really don't think it's just me and I'm not that pregnancy-raging-hormonal-crazy lady.
After all this, my team found out about my potential termination if I don't make it to my due date so my team lead asked the CEO if she could donate her personal time if I do not. (Something we are allowed to do and have done here before as long as it's approved)
The CEO whole-heartedly agreed because after hearing about this situation, he agrees it's kinda crappy but there's nothing that can be done.
HR threw a fit and tried to talk to my manager about it to get it overturned. Manager disagreed since the approval came from higher up
Then recently I emailed HR to see if I needed anything else and to find out how much my insurance premiums would be so I can go ahead and pay some in advanced which she basically responded by telling me to figure it out myself.
Definitely bringing this email to my manager and see where it goes from there.
Also, I think I overheard someone say our company may be looking into a Non-FMLA type leave so maybe this won't happen again.
I hope they do. I can see the business side of it now and I understand it, but for employees not trying to take advantage of the system and are gard-working people putting 40 hrs+ per week, it just seems unfair to get terminated when you're sooooo close to something.