I'm in diabetes education class with a terrible attitude. I just want to get the book and go. The teacher keeps asking questions that she apparently thinks are common knowledge (how does insulin work? What does your liver do? What causes GD?) And nobody knows the answers so it's just a lot of long awkward pauses then she answers her own questions.
FFFC: the weather is supposed to be beautiful this afternoon, so I'm not going back to work after this. I'm also not picking up DS early. I'm going to get a pedicure and eat my 45-carb lunch alone, and run some errands with the sun roof open.
FFFC: DH and I split up some errands the other day. I took the dogs to the vet and picked up a baby shower gift from target for a friend while he went to the grocery store. I was getting ready to leave Target and he was still at the store so I wandered around for a while longer so I didn't have to help him put groceries away haha
FFFC: I dont think kids should have their drivers license until they are 18. I just dont think they have the maturity or understand the reality of danger at the age of 15 or 16 but I do get that parents cannot always drive them to and from jobs and school. However its like some of them just think they are invincible and drive like maniacs. Maybe its just me that sees it that way but looking back as I get older the thought is just scary.
FFFC: I dont think kids should have their drivers license until they are 18. I just dont think they have the maturity or understand the reality of danger at the age of 15 or 16 but I do get that parents cannot always drive them to and from jobs and school. However its like some of them just think they are invincible and drive like maniacs. Maybe its just me that sees it that way but looking back as I get older the thought is just scary.
Age does not make someone a responsible driver. There are a whole lot of "adults" that drive more wrecklessly than a new driver because they're "confident" in what they're doing. Age doesn't change the level of expertise of the driver.
FFFC: I dont think kids should have their drivers license until they are 18. I just dont think they have the maturity or understand the reality of danger at the age of 15 or 16 but I do get that parents cannot always drive them to and from jobs and school. However its like some of them just think they are invincible and drive like maniacs. Maybe its just me that sees it that way but looking back as I get older the thought is just scary.
I totally get what you're saying, but I think you could cite all the same reasons as an argument for why people should learn to drive while they are still under their parents "control." Of course that's assuming everyone has good parents who will help them understand responsible driving. But if you don't have that at 16, you're still not going to at 18.
DS1 doesn't have school today. Instead of doing anything productive, I've allowed him to watch TV since 9am; it's now 11:15am, and I have zero plans to stop him anytime soon. I'm sick with a cold (again!) and I just have no energy to make this rainy no-school day educational or magically fun. TV will have to do.
Because I can't have wine right now, I have eaten some kind of chocolate or treat every night before going to bed because life has just been tough lately. I have no shame.
FFFC I'm searching for an inexpensive bridal shower gift for a wedding I'm in because she only did a money registry and I refuse to be forced to do that.
@MrsZeno I understand where you're coming from, but in my experience there are way more adults who drive like maniacs, because they're either over-confident or just negligent. Its hard to generalize by age, because some teens are more mature than some adults, honestly.
ETA: Re-reading this I think I might have contradicted myself...? My main point was that it's hard to generalize by age because age doesn't equal maturity necessarily.
My FFFC is that I actually don't mind the cheesy baby shower/bridal shower games. I think they're mildly entertaining and I don't care if someone thinks my belly measures 5 feet around, haha.
FFFC I'm searching for an inexpensive bridal shower gift for a wedding I'm in because she only did a money registry and I refuse to be forced to do that.
When SIL got married, I made her gift because I had already spent 1k on her wedding BS. Her wedding gift cost me about $3 to make (I actually spend more on her card then her gift). And honeymoon funds and cash only registries are TACKY!
FFFC I'm searching for an inexpensive bridal shower gift for a wedding I'm in because she only did a money registry and I refuse to be forced to do that.
A money registry? I've never heard of that. One thing I like to do especially for more established couples who have all the typical wedding stuff already is a gift certificate for a "date night" to a nice restaurant in town. Is that an option?
@AdaByron I never thought about it that way. Responsibility is a huge part of it. I assumed which is silly because I had a responsible educator who taught me to drive, I've never forgotten what they said.
FFFC I'm searching for an inexpensive bridal shower gift for a wedding I'm in because she only did a money registry and I refuse to be forced to do that.
WTF is the point of the shower with only a cash registry?
I totally agree with the money registries being tacky. I had a cousin who wrote a note on her registry saying how she doesn't want meaningless gifts they won't use. But, she was asking for money for things like her dream kitchen. The whole thing rubbed me the wrong way.
My FFFC is that I love watching murder mystery shows. I find them so interesting!! My DH thinks it's really strange.
We don't do registeries at all, it's entirely upto guests on weddings what they want to do, and mostly people give money in an envelope and a card with a note etc, I find giving money easier too BUT particularly saying money only sounds BAD!.
fffc: my hubbys changing jobs so these two very nice ladies/coworkers who I've never met sent me aden and anais swaddles, shower robe for baby, and a cute white fluffy jacket 3-6 months, and a very cute card. I feel awful but, I am just and going to return all of it and chose things myself.
Ever since the private group started, I've been extra conscious of my posting, like wondering whether I'm funny and clever enough (probably not) or if people are liking what I'm saying (judging by the exactly zero love its on my UO yesterday, I'm guessing not). I think I need to get a grip.
FFFC I'm searching for an inexpensive bridal shower gift for a wedding I'm in because she only did a money registry and I refuse to be forced to do that.
I would do the same. I hate being forced to give money. I feel like it's greedy but that my POV with that. My SIL tried that crap for her baby shower, that mind you she kind of didn't officially invite me to. But she text my husband later about not having received a gift from us for her baby. Which we planned on getting once baby was born. He talked it over with me and we bought her an attachment for her stroller. (A stroller she can't afford but likes to walk around like she makes more money than she really does) anywho....
How do you even run a shower like that (yes, I'm still hung up). "Thanks Aunt Sally! Everyone look at Aunt Sally's check for $75! Oh, here is the money from next door neighbor Bertha. She gave me $30 in singles - we all know where she gets those!"
How do you even run a shower like that (yes, I'm still hung up). "Thanks Aunt Sally! Everyone look at Aunt Sally's check for $75! Oh, here is the money from next door neighbor Bertha. She gave me $30 in singles - we all know where she gets those!"
LOL yes! I mean, I almost always give money for weddings, but showers are for GIFTS. That's the whole point of a shower. It's not a fundraiser.
How do you even run a shower like that (yes, I'm still hung up). "Thanks Aunt Sally! Everyone look at Aunt Sally's check for $75! Oh, here is the money from next door neighbor Bertha. She gave me $30 in singles - we all know where she gets those!"
Yea a shower with no registry is strange. I get it for the wedding (because you don't open the gifts in front of guests - and most people just give money anyways). But if you don't have a registry, I don't think you should have a shower.
When SIL got married, I made her gift because I had already spent 1k on her wedding BS. Her wedding gift cost me about $3 to make (I actually spend more on her card then her gift). And honeymoon funds and cash only registries are TACKY!
THIS. I really don't like them. She did a registry at BBB, but there were only 13 things on it. There are three items that were discontinued and can't be found. One thing is over $250, and the rest have been bought.
FFFC I'm searching for an inexpensive bridal shower gift for a wedding I'm in because she only did a money registry and I refuse to be forced to do that.
WTF is the point of the shower with only a cash registry?
RIGHT!??? Not to mention this is going to be her second shower now. I don't get it.
FFFC I'm searching for an inexpensive bridal shower gift for a wedding I'm in because she only did a money registry and I refuse to be forced to do that.
WTF is the point of the shower with only a cash registry?
RIGHT!??? Not to mention this is going to be her second shower now. I don't get it.
Ever since the private group started, I've been extra conscious of my posting, like wondering whether I'm funny and clever enough (probably not) or if people are liking what I'm saying (judging by the exactly zero love its on my UO yesterday, I'm guessing not). I think I need to get a grip.
I'm sorry you feel this way. I don't think anyone in the PG wants it to feel like a popularity contest, or have anyone feel excluded. You really don't have to be funny or clever for people to appreciate you here!
Ever since the private group started, I've been extra conscious of my posting, like wondering whether I'm funny and clever enough (probably not) or if people are liking what I'm saying (judging by the exactly zero love its on my UO yesterday, I'm guessing not). I think I need to get a grip.
My FFFC is this FFFC made me sad. Nobody is expecting you to be clever or funny @ljd2010 I know it's cliche but just be yourself, don't cause drama, and join in on the conversations. I think everyone has had some not so juicy UO that got no acknowledgement lol I know I have.
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I've bought 6 pairs of new shoes/sandals this week. Oh well lol it's rare to find cute shoes in my small size, and I hit the jackpot this week with sizes. I always go shopping with intentions to get myself things, never find anything I like and end up buying DS a whole new wardrobe. Makes me more excited for good weather!!
I've bought 6 pairs of new shoes/sandals this week. Oh well lol it's rare to find cute shoes in my small size, and I hit the jackpot this week with sizes. I always go shopping with intentions to get myself things, never find anything I like and end up buying DS a whole new wardrobe. Makes me more excited for good weather!!
I love sandals. I own way too many, since they're usually way more affordable than winter shoes! But I'm on a shoe-buying freeze at the moment, since my feet grew the last time I was pregnant, I don't want to buy anything that might not fit for long. I'm also assuming my feet will swell and I'll only be able to wear flip flops for most of June/July.
I've bought 6 pairs of new shoes/sandals this week. Oh well lol it's rare to find cute shoes in my small size, and I hit the jackpot this week with sizes. I always go shopping with intentions to get myself things, never find anything I like and end up buying DS a whole new wardrobe. Makes me more excited for good weather!!
I love sandals. I own way too many, since they're usually way more affordable than winter shoes! But I'm on a shoe-buying freeze at the moment, since my feet grew the last time I was pregnant, I don't want to buy anything that might not fit for long. I'm also assuming my feet will swell and I'll only be able to wear flip flops for most of June/July.
Ahhh, I can't wait!!
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I had an August baby (who was due in September) and flip flops were life for the last couple of months! I wish I could wear them now. I would but I've gotten side eyed by my MIL for wearing flip flops in colder weather so now I'm embarrassed lol.
Another FFFC: I would wear flip flops in pretty much any weather except snow.
BFP May 2013 - MMC at 8 weeks BFP September 2013 - MMC at 12 weeks BFP February 2014 - early loss/CP at 4.5 weeks BFP May 2014 - MMC/ complete molar pregnancy at 11 weeks BFP December 2015 - DD born 8/18/2015 BFP November 2016 - pending...
@LM1007 your good lol, it's the season, enjoy! they always have nicer things around this time and I always get into the shopping for myself only mode during march/April. I just got myself an entire maternity wardrobe because I need to feel my best, be ready to go anywhere without squeezing into fifty clothes that don't fit anymore. Have myself rganized and ready to go and then get busy with nursery.
@AdaByron I was hoping my feet would grow with my last pregnancy and this one. I fit in a size 3-4 in kids and sometimes can get away with a 5-5.5 in certain heels/woman shoes. It sucks having tiny feet, except price sometimes is a plus for my size. But yeah I'm a little concerned for swelling, but the ones I bought have some wiggle room or flip flop style. I lived in flip flops my last pregnancy too.
I'm a tad late the to the party but re: driving: In addition to what everyone else said, it's not about age, it's about when you start driving. A driver who starts at 23 is just as dangerous and likely to cause an accident as a driver who starts at 16. Experience actually driving really matters when it comes to driving, not just over all life experience.
Hubby and Me Friends since 2008 Started dating: July 1st, 2013 Engaged: July 1st, 2014 Married: July 1st, 2016 R born: July 8th, 2017 N born: June 30th, 2019 Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022 (maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
I had an August baby (who was due in September) and flip flops were life for the last couple of months! I wish I could wear them now. I would but I've gotten side eyed by my MIL for wearing flip flops in colder weather so now I'm embarrassed lol.
Another FFFC: I would wear flip flops in pretty much any weather except snow.
I wore flip flops all the time in high school and got so many comments about it. I even wore toe socks when it was cold. In my defense, I have really bad (large and flat) feet, so regular shoes hurt and we were too poor to get custom shoes.
My FFFC is that I still wear some of my toe socks under my regular shoes when I need to do laundry and all of my real socks are dirty. Not ashamed!
Re: driving. Experience matters for sure. But brain development also matters. On average, our brains continue to develop into our mid-20s. The last piece to fully develop controls impulse control, risk analysis, and decision making - all of which can make someone a safer driver.
Edit it to add my FFFC: my office is warm, there's almost no one here, and I'm really tempted to just put my head down and take a nap.
Re: cash registries--YIKES. I would buy something inexpensive or make a gift as well!
@Poppyseed72017 I can't believe that. If someone guilted me about not getting a gift I'd be tempted to say "oh it must have gotten lost in the mail..."
FFFC: on my second Starbucks of the day. I have a long break in between a meeting and TAing, and there are two SB within a 5-minute walk.... and when I get a drink of course I need a snack too.
I will preface thus by saying I hardly ever use our hot tub because it takes a couple hours to lower the temperature to pregnancy safe range. But my back hurt so bad last night I got in. I was only planning on being in for a few minutes because I knew DH wanted to watch a hockey game, so I was going to put DS to bed. But it was almost bedtime by the time it was cool enough, and when I came in, DH had already gone upstairs to put him to bed. So I got back in the hot tub for another half hour or so, then came in after he was asleep and went straight to bed. I'm pretty sure H was still able to see the last half of the game.
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FFFC: the weather is supposed to be beautiful this afternoon, so I'm not going back to work after this. I'm also not picking up DS early. I'm going to get a pedicure and eat my 45-carb lunch alone, and run some errands with the sun roof open.
Me: 26 Him: 27
Dating: 5/2011 Married: 6/2014
Mirena out/TTC: 02/2016
BFP #1: 12/01/2016
EDD: 07/24/2017
ETA: Re-reading this I think I might have contradicted myself...? My main point was that it's hard to generalize by age because age doesn't equal maturity necessarily.
My FFFC is that I actually don't mind the cheesy baby shower/bridal shower games. I think they're mildly entertaining and I don't care if someone thinks my belly measures 5 feet around, haha.
Married: 6/2016
TTC:6/2016
BFP: 11/22/2016 | EDD: 7/29/2017
My FFFC is that I love watching murder mystery shows. I find them so interesting!! My DH thinks it's really strange.
fffc: my hubbys changing jobs so these two very nice ladies/coworkers who I've never met sent me aden and anais swaddles, shower robe for baby, and a cute white fluffy jacket 3-6 months, and a very cute card. I feel awful but, I am just and going to return all of it and chose things myself.
Me: 26 Him: 27
Dating: 5/2011 Married: 6/2014
Mirena out/TTC: 02/2016
BFP #1: 12/01/2016
EDD: 07/24/2017
Me: 26 Him: 27
Dating: 5/2011 Married: 6/2014
Mirena out/TTC: 02/2016
BFP #1: 12/01/2016
EDD: 07/24/2017
BFP September 2013 - MMC at 12 weeks
BFP February 2014 - early loss/CP at 4.5 weeks
BFP May 2014 - MMC/ complete molar pregnancy at 11 weeks
BFP December 2015 - DD born 8/18/2015
BFP November 2016 - pending...
Highly monitored internet and no cell service in the office, so I'm postin' and ghostin' while I'm workin'
Another FFFC: I would wear flip flops in pretty much any weather except snow.
BFP September 2013 - MMC at 12 weeks
BFP February 2014 - early loss/CP at 4.5 weeks
BFP May 2014 - MMC/ complete molar pregnancy at 11 weeks
BFP December 2015 - DD born 8/18/2015
BFP November 2016 - pending...
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
My FFFC is that I still wear some of my toe socks under my regular shoes when I need to do laundry and all of my real socks are dirty. Not ashamed!
Edit it to add my FFFC: my office is warm, there's almost no one here, and I'm really tempted to just put my head down and take a nap.