The Bump After Dark: "Mommy Boxes," Etc.

Cats*in*space

@Sugargirl1019 I'm sorry you feel rejected.  To play devil's advocate, men also have days where they don't feel "sexy".  And in my experience, DH will shut down in that way with something as little as "why is my car making that noise?". Sometimes it's nothing to do with you or sex.

Sugargirl1019

We fixed it this morning thanks for all your concern and responses! I don't think he's bothered by baby at all actually. Probably actually just tired or something was on his mind.

@wyomama0427 I have sent pics to dh before, and he's never responded that way! It's usually one phrase response and a heart or something. He never asks for them though!

wyomama0427

Sugargirl1019 said:

We fixed it this morning thanks for all your concern and responses! I don't think he's bothered by baby at all actually. Probably actually just tired or something was on his mind.

@wyomama0427 I have sent pics to dh before, and he's never responded that way! It's usually one phrase response and a heart or something. He never asks for them though!

Hooray for getting laid!!! He didn't ask for that one but he asked for more after it lol! I'm glad you fixed it though. 

msashley2010-2

I think the grass is always greener with the boob situation. I'm jealous of gals with smaller boobs cause they always seem perkier and can be paired with so many adorable outfits. Sometimes I will stuff mine into a sports bra to make them look smaller lol. And there's also the sag factor. Yay fun. 

lap018

Msashley2010 said:

I think the grass is always greener with the boob situation. I'm jealous of gals with smaller boobs cause they always seem perkier and can be paired with so many adorable outfits. Sometimes I will stuff mine into a sports bra to make them look smaller lol. And there's also the sag factor. Yay fun. 

You are hilarious acting like small boobs don't sag. They don't sag as much sure just because of the lack of weight but they definitely sag. And flatten out even more. Man must be such a drag being able to have cleavage..... I'm sure your super jealous of a woman that looks like a 14 year old boy in a bathing suit. But OK...

mrs_tacos

You guys, I had a weird discharge yesterday, and my doctor told me no sexual activity until I can be seen on Monday or Tuesday.  

wyomama0427

@lap018 whoa lady I never said that! I used to have tiny boobs! Including proof in spoiler lol. I know they sag too! Nursing ruins all boobs too, big or small.

mrs_tacos

wyomama0427 said:

@lap018 whoa lady I never said that! I used to have tiny boobs! Including proof in spoiler lol. I know they sag too! Nursing ruins all boobs too, big or small.

My mom always had small-ish boobs, and after breastfeeding she didn't sag...they just went away. She's mostly just nipples now. I'm bigger than she is naturally, but I'm still a little worried.

lap018

@mrs_tacos I wouldn't worry too much I hear boobs skip a generation. Of course my moms boobs are ginormous 

Breath_Easy92

I'm so jealous of you all! My sex drive has been crazy but I keep spotting since day one of being pregnant and I've not been allowed to have sex yet! I just worry it will effect out relationship we are both very umm "physical" people lol but I will say I think we talk more than we use to. Just sucks because we've only been married 5 months

msashley2010-2

@lap018 Lol, that's definitely not what I meant. I just lament over my own situation as I have a lot of body image issues. Luckily SO loves me just the way that I am, but sometimes I have a difficult time loving myself the way that I am.   

lap018

wyomama0427 said:

@lap018 whoa lady I never said that! I used to have tiny boobs! Including proof in spoiler lol. I know they sag too! Nursing ruins all boobs too, big or small.

Damn that's a nice fish!

wyomama0427

@lap018 thanks! I love when they get their spawning colors on. Ever heard of the miracle mile on the north platte river? I used to live by it. Look at this one DH pulled outta there. 

mrs_tacos

wyomama0427 said:

@lap018 thanks! I love when they get their spawning colors on. Ever heard of the miracle mile on the north platte river? I used to live by it. Look at this one DH pulled outta there. 

Well, this thread took an unexpected turn.

harleyquinn0621

I wish I knew how to fish....knowing me I'd throw them all back tho

msashley2010-2

harleyquinn0621 said:

I wish I knew how to fish....knowing me I'd throw them all back tho

Fishing is a ton of fun if you ever have the chance to go. My dad always cleaned the fish when we went and we would have fish fries afterward. 

wyomama0427

harleyquinn0621 said:

I wish I knew how to fish....knowing me I'd throw them all back tho

I toss back everything I don't eat. Most places there's a limit, you can't keep fish under a certain length and stuff. It's pretty regulated. It's nice to throw the big ones back sometimes so they can spawn more big babies. It's very strange that we are talking about fishing on the after dark thread lol. My bad. Just wanted to share a picture for proof that my boobs haven't always been monsters lol! 

harleyquinn0621

Well to tag on to the boobs thing....mine are large but don't seem to be growing yet with this pregnancy yet...which I'm thankful for....with DDs I'm afraid what they might turn in to

msashley2010-2

wyomama0427 said:

harleyquinn0621 said:

I wish I knew how to fish....knowing me I'd throw them all back tho

I toss back everything I don't eat. Most places there's a limit, you can't keep fish under a certain length and stuff. It's pretty regulated. It's nice to throw the big ones back sometimes so they can spawn more big babies. It's very strange that we are talking about fishing on the after dark thread lol. My bad. Just wanted to share a picture for proof that my boobs haven't always been monsters lol! 

Lol! I haven't always had big boobs either! But unfortunately my pregnancy with my daughter left them not only much larger but also with lovely purple stretch marks that make it look like they've been clawed by a mountain lion. (Yet my belly is strechy free, go figure! Lol) You win some and lose some I guess! 

mrsmarygs

Speaking of big fish, can I brag on my DH?

msashley2010-2

mrsmarygs said:

Speaking of big fish, can I brag on my DH?

Wow!!! Nice!! 

sugarpixxie2

Not to show you guys up or anything

kaylaakosua

Secret nudes are my favourite, I use snapchat usually so he knows when he gets a snapchat from me. Gives him a chance to replay and screenshot as well.