Hi ladies please excuse me for posting this as a new thread. BUT I am in need of some advice. I awoke this morning and peed. I always glance at my TP to check for any spotting..due to my history of MC. I noticed red specs on the tp, and thought the worst. I waited 15 minutes and peed again, this time I had pink stain on the tp. I made the choice to call my OB and the MA was able to get me in for a U/S at 9AM this morning. So fast forward to that appt. I have a abdominal U/S to start but the tech said she needed to do a Transvaginal one. The tech said she needed to show the doctor. Comes back in to say she couldn't find the HB (Mind you at my first dating scan I measured a week behind 6.4 but according to LMP I should've been 7.5. We got the HB right away that day @125
..this was 3/2/17. I was told to go see my OB, so I waited in his office and he came in to say there was no HB and said I had options for how I wanted to handle the MC. What I'd like to know is should he have checked my cervix...done HCG levels? In the office I didn't think to ask any of those questions bc I was holding back tears. My mind was racing trying to listen and not break down. He asked which option, I said the D&E. (With my past MC's I passed everything naturally) I asked if he thought this was the best way. His response was no bc he usually gets a call in the middle of the night that the Mother is hemorrhaging, and then he has to perform surgery anyway. So that is why at that moment I said D&E. Now the hospital has me added to the surgery list for today after 6pm. My question is do you think I should go and ask for another ultrasound? My DH said the tech said she was new at this..I missed that part bc I was in the bathroom changing. Do you think her experience could have played a small part in not finding the HB? Today our LO measured 7w1day, (I wasn't told that I looked at the screen) Do you think i should go to the Hospital and ask for another Ultrasound, while I'm the for the D&E?? I've gone to use the bathroom 3 times since 8:30AM and haven't had any spotting, nothing on my underwear either.. I'm really confused and don't want to get my hopes up. I wish I would've asked him to check my cervix. Would that have mattered? I don't have any severe cramping really none at all. Minor twinges but nothing of real concern. I am so sorry this is so long. I didn't think I wanted to post anything but my heart says it's worth a try. I appreciate any insight! I also want to apologize for starting a new thread, I'm a mess trying to stay strong for my DH. I don't want him to see me cry. Thank you all!!