You give me hope lady! @Mack2342 - if it make you feel any better both of my pregnancies I didn't get a bfp until 4 weeks and 1 of those is a living child.
Congrats, @Mack2342 and @perfectypo! Let me know if you guys want to join us over on the private grads group. You can either request to join by searching in the private groups for TTCAL graduates or I can send you an invite.
you know I never had mine tested prior to this last month - mine could have always been a tad low even with DD but I don't know. Are you doing suppositories? I'll be starting those next week @Mack2342
I've been on vaginal suppositories for over a week now with almost no side effects. Just sore boobs and kind of tired, which could either be progesterone or the pregnancy. If you do go on the suppositories, though, I'd recommend asking the pharmacy to NOT give you the red pills. Those are a mindf&!k to see pink discharge all the time.
@RiverSong15 - glad your doing well! I can deal with sore boobs lol. I don't think mine are red. They are compounded at a pharmacy and I think they are a white color.
I can't believe all the BFPs since I was in here last! So excited for all your ladies and I hope all these babies are super sticky!
Dh and I met with my dr and I am set up to have an HSG after my period assuming I don't get pregnant this month. It's hard to believe it's been a year with nothing to show for is, but I'm glad at least we have a plan. If my remaining tube is in fact open then he said we will talk about if we want to use medication. DH and I have had the talk and know we are not going to do IUI or IVF so I have been working through in my head what I need to do to deal with it if we are never able to have our rainbow baby. Trying to stay positive though and staying away from temping and OPks so I don't get overly stressed out about it.
Me: 32 DH: 36 Married 5/08 BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13 BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16 Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube TTCAL 3/16 BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17 DS #2 born 12/11/17
I think I "officially" go here now. I got crosshairs on FF for today (after I added a dummy temp for tomorrow.) It's groundhog day for me as I thought I was here last week.
I still maintain my goal to NOT google any sort of ache, twinge, nose itch, gas, cramp, hot flash, cold flash, sneeze, cough, itchy eye, or any other symptom I have previously googled every cycle before. exhales intently and closes the laptop!
Pretty sure I'm moving over here - positive OPK yesterday at CD 16. Let the TWW fun begin. NOT! Why is it the TWW feel like the longest TWW of your life sometimes?
Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012
Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!
Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017
@Riversong15 - Glad you are doing well - we miss you around here!!
@justsuzie- yay for O again didn't you always want a three week wait? lol
@taggarab - glad to see you participating again and glad you are going to see an RE - I hope you get some answers and a plan. It really is crazy how long the ttc/ttcal journey is for some people.
@hdaley - I know why is the TWW so long? Remember before ttcal when it felt like you got your period every week? Now your cycle feels like eternity! lol
AFM, 8 DPO and past 2 cycles I felt crazy symptoms around this time and got BFNS. This time i just have on and off cramping and sore boobs. Both other times I was pg I just had AF symptoms so I don't know what to think. Really not feeling too hopeful this cycle - just feels like I can't get my hopes up again to be disappointed. Maybe Ill be pleasantly surprised but we'll see.
@justsuzie - still not sure when I will test. Might just play it by ear. Proud of myself for not googling is cramping an early pg sign this time bec you know the other 2 times I was pg it was...lol.
@pandawares Lucky you for a normal cycle post loss. I had a super late O after my loss and then wonky spotty throughout. Hope all continues to be normal.
Currently 2dpo. Love 2dpo because I have fresh hope and it's too early to symptom spot and freak out if I am or am not feeling something. Hate 6-8 dpo because I literally begin losing my mind.
Was going to test this morning at 9DPO but I chickened out. Hate looking at BFNs but also hate convincing myself Im pg for days to not be. Ugh. Having on and off AF like cramps and sore boobs which I have before AF and both BFPs. Why is this such a mid F?? Anyone else have AF like cramps before they get a BFP?
Re: March TWW
congrats @Mack2342 and @perfectypo! It makes me so happy to see so many bfps in the past few weeks. Fx for you both!
@justsuzie sorry you're having a second surge, it sucks to have extra days added to the TWW.
I've been on vaginal suppositories for over a week now with almost no side effects. Just sore boobs and kind of tired, which could either be progesterone or the pregnancy. If you do go on the suppositories, though, I'd recommend asking the pharmacy to NOT give you the red pills. Those are a mindf&!k to see pink discharge all the time.
Married 7/13
TTC #1 since 10/13
BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
IUI #1 2/25/16
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
Dh and I met with my dr and I am set up to have an HSG after my period assuming I don't get pregnant this month. It's hard to believe it's been a year with nothing to show for is, but I'm glad at least we have a plan. If my remaining tube is in fact open then he said we will talk about if we want to use medication. DH and I have had the talk and know we are not going to do IUI or IVF so I have been working through in my head what I need to do to deal with it if we are never able to have our rainbow baby. Trying to stay positive though and staying away from temping and OPks so I don't get overly stressed out about it.
Married 5/08
BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
TTCAL 3/16
BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
DS #2 born 12/11/17
I still maintain my goal to NOT google any sort of ache, twinge, nose itch, gas, cramp, hot flash, cold flash, sneeze, cough, itchy eye, or any other symptom I have previously googled every cycle before. exhales intently and closes the laptop!
Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!
Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017
@justsuzie- yay for O again didn't you always want a three week wait? lol
@taggarab - glad to see you participating again and glad you are going to see an RE - I hope you get some answers and a plan. It really is crazy how long the ttc/ttcal journey is for some people.
@hdaley - I know why is the TWW so long? Remember before ttcal when it felt like you got your period every week? Now your cycle feels like eternity! lol
AFM, 8 DPO and past 2 cycles I felt crazy symptoms around this time and got BFNS. This time i just have on and off cramping and sore boobs. Both other times I was pg I just had AF symptoms so I don't know what to think. Really not feeling too hopeful this cycle - just feels like I can't get my hopes up again to be disappointed. Maybe Ill be pleasantly surprised but we'll see.
@hdaley We are cycle buddies. I'm 1DPO right now. I'll be going through the miserable wait with you.
Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!
Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017
TW
I think I Od around the time when I would have if I hadn't had a CP last cycle.
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We BD on -3 and -1, so not too bad!
On a side note, I think I have PMDD. As soon as I O, I have extreme fatigue and my depression worsens.
*TW*
30 January 2017: Loss at 6+2
8 March 2017: Loss at 5+4
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
*TW*
30 January 2017: Loss at 6+2
8 March 2017: Loss at 5+4
2DPO.....
6DPO
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
Was going to test this morning at 9DPO but I chickened out. Hate looking at BFNs but also hate convincing myself Im pg for days to not be. Ugh. Having on and off AF like cramps and sore boobs which I have before AF and both BFPs. Why is this such a mid F?? Anyone else have AF like cramps before they get a BFP?