My confession: I am not letting my DH know how good I am now starting to feel since I LOVE the extra help around our house. I don't have to pester him nearly as much, and I love that he does things on his own.
@DoulaTog13 Let us know how the BRU event is! I cant make it to the one tomorrow, but I might want to go to the one in April, but I dont want to go if its dumb.
**TW Loss/pregnancy mentioned** Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16 BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17 BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19 BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19 BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2 Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage IVF started Feb 2020 retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal. Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Mommy to a super cute havanesse puppy and baby boy!
This morning i left one of my appts at 9:20 but i stop by subway because i was craving a sandwich and came to work at 9:50 and I am leaving in 2 hours for my doctor's appointment. So today Friday has been an easy day for me for once. Love being pregnant and able to get away with many things
I know bump wide this has been flame heavy and talked about to death buut.. I never understood how someone could be disappointed in the sex if their baby until I found out this amazing miracle that I love, is a boy. I guess I hadn't realized how much I had been hoping this was another girl. I had brothers growing up and while I have AMAZING brothers now, as a small child it mostly just sucked. But it was a moment of disappointment and I've moved on and am elated we are having a boy. I just had always been very judgy when seeing moms say that and now I understand it more.
I will however continue to side-eye anyone who gets legitimately depressed over "gender disappointment".
I sometimes get jealous of the relationship that DD has with my MIL. She watches DD for me while we work six days a week so she gets to spend so much more time with her and it makes me sad.
@Nxy I wanted for my first baby to be a girl and i was blessed with a girl only reason was because i was the first born to my parents but then I came to a conclusion that if it would have been a boy either way it is a blessing as well with this pregnancy I want a boy this time around but whatever the baby is I am going to love unconditionally because those pains are no joke but well worth it
@nxy so I'm worried I'm going to be "disappointed". This is probably our last baby, so I'm struggling with the sex aspect. We are finding out Sunday with the family but now I don't think I want to know. I think if it's another boy I will be ecstatic that my son will have a little bro and best friend so close in age. And we can reuse all his super cute stuff. But then I won't ever have that special mother daughter relationship I hear about. I don't have that with my mom, she has MS and has been sick most of my life. But I hear it's so special. But then if it's a girl I will be ecstatic but then my son won't have that little brother I want him to have. So I'm not sure if I'm more disappointed in this being out last baby or being worried about the actual sex. I think I'm more mourning the bigger family that I am now missing out on. If any of that makes sense?
@dmbfan46835 my mom also has a chronic illness and I also totally missed out on the mother-daughter thing. I feel you, sister. We're having a girl and, as truly ecstatic as I am, I'm scared that I'll let her down like my mom did me. Parenting is so tough.
@mrsmatt1212 I'm so sorry! It sucks right? No prom dress shopping, wedding stuff, none of those big moments in my life consisted of my mom. Dad's out of the picture too so really it was just my grandparents. Honestly that's why I wanted a boy with my last baby. I was so afraid of the disappointment. But now I'm so afraid of missing the opportunity to heal my wounds by having a girl and doing all the things I missed out on. Man it's a total kind fuck.
I hope your baby girl heals your wounds and that you have an amazing relationship with her that just fills any holes you have left in your heart
I completely ripped apart a supervisor of our local electric company this morning and I do not feel bad in the slightest. Not one. Single. Bit.
My husband caught the power crew as they were leaving and he inquired how it was going and they said they were packing it in because power was restored to everyone in the street. That was the wrong answer people. We still did not have power. We were the only house on the street to fully lose power (other houses were "partial outages").
Bad news after going 40+ hours without power and 5 with, we are again without power. Isn't it standard procedure to remove the tree from the line/ pole and then reinstate power? Tree was removed from line/pole after power was restored. I heard the crash of the tree come down and now boom no more power.
Seriously struggling to reign iny pregnant crazy right now.
@dmbfan46835 you are so sweet and I needed to hear all of that. It's the worst! She just wasn't around. One Christmas she vowed to make dinner, and then couldn't, so we had Christmas dinner at the only place open: the gas station. (Clearly I need counseling to deal with this before baby girl arrives.)
Now that baby is on the way, she's trying to be *way* too involved, and it's just too little too late (also I'm all "so you can do this for your granddaughter but not for me?"). DH is trying to help me be a little more gracious with her, but man! Luckily my dad is amazing, and they're still married cause he's the bomb and totally devoted to her, and I love him. But I've got some family yuck that is being brought all to the surface with this pregnancy. Who knew?!?!
@DoulaTog13 I am going to the BRU event near us tomorrow too. Thus far, we are the only couple signed up. 100 slots, 98 are still available! I heard the goodie bag is good, and since they are low attendance you usually get the raffle stuff easily. Hoping that is the case. We are registering for a few of our larger things ( pack/play, rocker, etc. ) there, since you get the rewards and return policy is great, but were going for the coupons and free stuff.
TW: 1 infant loss 8/17: Our daughter was born 8/18: Our daughter kicked open heart surgery ass 2/19: We lost our son to Prader-Willi/Paradoxical Vocal Cord/ Noonans at 6wks old 4/26/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
@Lauradi1010 dh is a lineman and it's a lot more complicated than I ever realized. That's pretty bad that you were the only ones without restored power, though. He's been chewed out by so many people. One lady threw chicken salad on a crew member of his. It's a tough job
@Nxy I completely understand. We did a balloon reveal with colored confetti and the first one we popped was blue. My stomach sank thinking what if the second balloon was blue too. I would love all three boys no matter what, obviously, but I know this is our last pregnancy and I would never get to experience having a daughter. And also, wtf am I supposed to do with all those boys running around?! After the reveal, my husband said he had the same fears run through his head.
@dmbfan46835 DH had left it up to "fate" for having a third child. We had decided if we ended up with two of either sex we'd try for a third of the opposite. So having one of each makes this *very* likely to be our last and I guess I wasn't ready for that either. I had always wanted 3 and DH was firm on 2 and that was our compromise. So I feel like that was also probably a bigger part of it than I had realized.
The linemen that were out were fabulous. Somehow I think communication was strongly lacking between the call center/dispatch & the crews working on the lines. My husband and said they seemed genuinely shocked because a that our power wasn't on. They were "misinformed" via another power company helping with the clean up.
It's insanity... I feel bad for the workmen who have to deal with it.
@Lauradi1010 I don't know about other companies, but it seems the one he works for puts people in charge that have no idea how anything works. They definitely need to be careful with miscommunication, that's how people get hurt or killed!
My FFFC is that I want to run away this weekend. Not forever, but to have just 48 hours to myself...
DS1 is in trouble at school, DS2 has strep throat, and DD has an ear infection. All the doctors appointments, parent/teacher conferences, medications, housework, etc is catching up to me, and I just want to run & hide under a rock. Adulting is hard. Moming is even harder.
@dmbfan46835 DH had left it up to "fate" for having a third child. We had decided if we ended up with two of either sex we'd try for a third of the opposite. So having one of each makes this *very* likely to be our last and I guess I wasn't ready for that either. I had always wanted 3 and DH was firm on 2 and that was our compromise. So I feel like that was also probably a bigger part of it than I had realized.
I'll never judge a mom to be for having the initial sex disappointment and as you've revealed you just never know what else could be the reason for it. Although I know there are people who really have 0 preference for either or the reality is that almost everyone will have some sort of inclination as to what they envision the baby to be.
@dmbfan46835 DH had left it up to "fate" for having a third child. We had decided if we ended up with two of either sex we'd try for a third of the opposite. So having one of each makes this *very* likely to be our last and I guess I wasn't ready for that either. I had always wanted 3 and DH was firm on 2 and that was our compromise. So I feel like that was also probably a bigger part of it than I had realized.
I'll never judge a mom to be for having the initial sex disappointment and as you've revealed you just never know what else could be the reason for it. Although I know there are people who really have 0 preference for either or the reality is that almost everyone will have some sort of inclination as to what they envision the baby to be.
I too had that initial feeling of disappointment when I found out this baby would be a boy. I had it in my mind that it'd be another girl and had already imagined DD and baby being bff's. DH was so happy that we are having a boy and now I do understand why he was initially disappointed when we found out DD was a girl. Everyone wants that special mother/daughter or father/son bond and I don't think it's wrong at all to feel disappointed when you find out you won't have that. I'm still trying to wrap my head around having a boy- it'll be so different!
@nxy so I'm worried I'm going to be "disappointed". This is probably our last baby, so I'm struggling with the sex aspect. We are finding out Sunday with the family but now I don't think I want to know. I think if it's another boy I will be ecstatic that my son will have a little bro and best friend so close in age. And we can reuse all his super cute stuff. But then I won't ever have that special mother daughter relationship I hear about. I don't have that with my mom, she has MS and has been sick most of my life. But I hear it's so special. But then if it's a girl I will be ecstatic but then my son won't have that little brother I want him to have. So I'm not sure if I'm more disappointed in this being out last baby or being worried about the actual sex. I think I'm more mourning the bigger family that I am now missing out on. If any of that makes sense?
I totally get what you're saying. I have those same thoughts. The only difference is my mother's sickness was depression and I still have a lot of resentment against her for wallowing in it and sleeping all the time instead of addressing her illness for herself and for her family. That added on to the fact that she thinks she was a great mom and I'm a bad mom has really made me fearful to have a girl. I don't know what a healthy, loving mother-daughter relationship looks like and I'm scared of it. I wish I could have one more child, but I just don't think it's in the cards for us financially. I'll find out the baby's sex on Monday morning and I'm really trying to stay positive and hopeful no matter what the scan reveals.
I was the only one to sign up for our BRU event so I "won" a diaper genie! Haven't had a chance to look through the goody bag yet but I got 2 different ones.
@nyx I am surprised gender disappointment is flamed as much as it is. I think it is human nature to have a preference. I struggled with infertility and I feel like in that community there is a feeling that we should be happy as long as we have a healthy baby. But for me I still had a preference. We are going to end up with one of each and I am pretty happy with that because they each will bring such different things to our life.
@lsp87 oh man, you had it rough too then. Depression is a mother effer:( it's nice to be able to hear that others had similar issues and have the same concerns. But then it also makes me sad to see that others have similar fears and to hear their stories. It breaks my heart. I always feel like an anomaly because none of my friends have had any real adversity growing up. And are all still very close to their families. And I don't really have any. Only DHs family who is incredibly supportive and loving. I hope whatever you find Monday makes you happy one way or another. but it sounds like you will be an amazing mom no matter what the sex. You know what NOT to do and I'm sure you will make a little girl's life amazing like you deserved. I feel like I overcompensate big time with DS so I imagine if I see pink tomorrow it will just make me even more determined to be a bad ass mom for her.
@dmbfan46835 thank you! You're right, there's a sense of comfort in knowing others have experienced that pain too but there's also sadness in knowing they've suffered in that way. We understand how much it affects us all still as parents. Thank you for saying that. I feel so much better after reading this. Happy tears flowed. There is some good that comes from all that hurt and you are right, it's from knowing we want better for our little ones. No matter what it says for you tomorrow, I know you'll be the best mom for both your babies. Keep us updated! Bad ass mommas unite!
@Nxy One of the reasons I like being Team Green is for me, I feel like there isn't time to feel any disappointment in the delivery room. I have 2 boys and I love being a boy mom. I've always wanted to have a daughter though. This will be my last baby. I'm assuming we'll have another boy, but I'm sure at some point, I will be sad that I'll never experience what it would be like to have a daughter. It certainly won't change my feelings towards any of my kids, but it's coming to a realization that something you've imagined won't ever happen.
@DoulaTog13 we were the only ones there too, but our raffle wasn't that nice. We did 'win' a whole 30+pack of pampers diapers and 56pk huggies wipes. They also gave us two goodie bags full of stuff, one for me, one for my husband since they had so many. they each had 2 avent Bottles, 1 mam bottle, sample wipes, sample pack 7th gen diapers, and tons of coupons. totally worth the half hour we were there.
TW: 1 infant loss 8/17: Our daughter was born 8/18: Our daughter kicked open heart surgery ass 2/19: We lost our son to Prader-Willi/Paradoxical Vocal Cord/ Noonans at 6wks old 4/26/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
As for the disappointment convo goes... I felt sort of like it was win-win/lose-lose with this pregnancy. I already have a girl and she's only just turned 1yo this week. So if we have a girl, I feel like they will be really close sisters (plus I really love bonding with my daughter so far and sharing everything with her since my mother was very private and not inviting). If we have a boy, I know my husband will be so happy to have a son to try and force to be an MLB player (lol) and I'll get to experience a new kind of relationship that is mother and son. Realistically, the reason it's win-win AND lose-lose is because one of those things you have to say goodbye to when you find out the facts (unless we had b/g twins which would be AWESOME!). So instead of focusing what parts I'll miss out on with one sex, I'm focusing on all the wonderful things I'll gain with the other. I truly had no preference, just different positives to dream about. We found out i'm having another girl As for our reproductive life, having a girl means DH will likely want to have at least one more baby. If we had a boy, I think he would be a little less inclined to want to try again (but maybe not necessarily). So I struggled with worrying about having to be pregnant again (I don't particularly like being pregnant) and worrying about being done having kids (I don't know that I'm ready to be done yet lol!). So I can see where everyone is coming from. It doesn't sound silly that something like the sex of the baby has so many seeming implications on your life... but really, we could be wrong about all of them. It's normal for people to plan, worry, dream, and be scared. In the end, I know we all love our miracles dearly and wouldn't trade who they are for anything in the world.
I didn't have a ton of opinion though I always wanted an older brother so...Plus, my husband is the last boy in his family, so any chance of carrying the family name resides onus having a boy. There wasn't much pressure from the family, but it was mentioned. So having a boy first would have taken some of that away. We found out it was a girl and I got excited pretty quick, so did everyone else. My 6yo niece is sooo excited. Means I'm hoping when we go for #2 it's a boy, so I think I'll be more nervous/expectant for that.
TW: 1 infant loss 8/17: Our daughter was born 8/18: Our daughter kicked open heart surgery ass 2/19: We lost our son to Prader-Willi/Paradoxical Vocal Cord/ Noonans at 6wks old 4/26/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
I had so much pressure from fil to carry on the family name, even though dh is not the last one with the last name. He had a cousin have a boy born a few months before ds was born. He made constant comments to me. When DS was 4 days old he told us to start trying for number 2 in 3 months. Now he's pressuring for a girl because his daughter is due a couple weeks before me with another boy. It's like he doesn't get that I have no control over it.
@SouthernMama15 Fortunately(?), the only pressure I'm getting from my parents and his is "when are you two going to get married?" If I had any control over it, we would have been engaged before we found out I was pregnant, guys. Ask SO. (They do, daily. It's probably slowing him down because he hates being told what he should do.)
Two things: I had a Coke yesterday. I haven't had a sugared Coke in years, but that s**t was delicious.
Second, the nurse wrote down the gender at our last appointmentin a sealed envelope in case we changed our minds about wanting to know. We broke down and looked. I still stand by that it doesn't matter to me, but the suspense! So we looked, but we're still telling everyone we don't know. People say things and this disallows them from insulting me with disrespectful "advice." You know, the advice where they cock their head and raise their eyebrows and say something condescending about gender generalizations? It also prevents my home from being choked out with bright pink and makes baby stuff more useful being gender neutral. But most importantly, this is ours for just a little bit longer
I'm not tagging everyone. I definitely could have written the same things about my mom and her depression. She'd "nap" all day and we mostly took care of eachother. Which was really crappy for my oldest brother. She got on medication when I must have been about.. 15 or 16 so we missed a lot of the things small kids do with their moms. She's mostly better now and we are much closer but I still have a hard time trusting her with things. Dh's dad abandoned him when he was 5 and moved to Alaska and never thought about him again. So we both had areas where we were like uhh maybe we are going to suck at this. After we found out DD was a girl it became really clear to me how much stuff I'd be able to do differently with her and how much better I could make her childhood simply by being there for her. So I'm sure this can be intimidating for slightly damaged people like us but I found it really motivating.
and @MetsGirl18 I wanted to be team green SO BAD. I tried my absolute hardest to convince DH. He found out he's going to be gone for about.. 3.5 months and he really wanted to know and the conversation we had was something along the lines of 'I'm not going to be around to bond with the baby or the idea of a baby at all, I might not even be here when it's born, I want to know the sex so I can try and know this baby a little before I leave" and I mean obviously with my hormones I was on the verge of tears and caved.
@Nxy That's totally understandable why he'd want to find out. DH was the one who always wanted to be Team Green even before we started TTC #1 and the more I thought about it, the more it appealed to me. If he had wanted to find out from the beginning, I probably would've been on board with that.
Mine is sort of superficial. When I was pregnant with my son, DH would bring me donuts and coffee from 7/11 everyday. Soooo good, honestly, I'm surprised I only gained 18 lbs and didn't give birth to a donut.
Also, when I was around 17 or 18, I had a bad habit of getting an ice cream cone, filling th cone with ice cream plus two scoops on top, and then eating all the icecream off the top and putting more scoops on top. I LOVE a soggy come. My weakness is coffee icecream, mocha almond fudge and butterfinger icecream.
Also- I just got taco bell sober for the first time in like 10 years. I hope it is a revelation and everything I have it built up to be in my head. Lol
I know I'm late to this but I can join the group of mom's with depression. I wont get into details but it was really bad for a good 10 years. She's doing a lot better now but things will never be the same or "normal" as one would expect from a healthy mother daughter relationship. Makes me sad...and angry.
To the same point we found out we are having another boy (boy #3) and I am so excited and relieved. Everyone is shocked that I didn't want/need a girl and I think a lot of that stems from my issues with my own mother daughter relationship.
I've already met my insurance deductible for the year so I'm thinking it wouldn't hurt to see a Psychologist.
Also- I just got taco bell sober for the first time in like 10 years. I hope it is a revelation and everything I have it built up to be in my head. Lol
I have that same hope for you! <3Taco bell<3
Together: January 2002 Married: May 2008 Baby: August 2017
Clearly we like to rush along at lightning speed...
Re: FFFC 3/3
Watch this all change tomorrow, haha!
I'm attending the BRU registry event tomorrow solely for the goodie bag and the raffles.
I've been letting DS sleep in my room all week because I have been WAY too tired to do the nightly bedtime fight with him.
Wife. Mom. Doula. Photographer.
BFP #1- 12/26/2011- DS Born 9/7/12
BFP#2- 10/16/2014- DD Born 7/2/15
SURPRISE! BFP#3- 11/29/16- EDD 8/6/17
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
I will however continue to side-eye anyone who gets legitimately depressed over "gender disappointment".
mourning the bigger family that I am now missing out on. If any of that makes sense?
I hope your baby girl heals your wounds and that you have an amazing relationship with her that just fills any holes you have left in your heart
My husband caught the power crew as they were leaving and he inquired how it was going and they said they were packing it in because power was restored to everyone in the street. That was the wrong answer people. We still did not have power. We were the only house on the street to fully lose power (other houses were "partial outages").
Bad news after going 40+ hours without power and 5 with, we are again without power. Isn't it standard procedure to remove the tree from the line/ pole and then reinstate power? Tree was removed from line/pole after power was restored. I heard the crash of the tree come down and now boom no more power.
Seriously struggling to reign iny pregnant crazy right now.
Edit:. Clarity
Now that baby is on the way, she's trying to be *way* too involved, and it's just too little too late (also I'm all "so you can do this for your granddaughter but not for me?"). DH is trying to help me be a little more gracious with her, but man! Luckily my dad is amazing, and they're still married cause he's the bomb and totally devoted to her, and I love him. But I've got some family yuck that is being brought all to the surface with this pregnancy. Who knew?!?!
I heard the goodie bag is good, and since they are low attendance you usually get the raffle stuff easily. Hoping that is the case. We are registering for a few of our larger things ( pack/play, rocker, etc. ) there, since you get the rewards and return policy is great, but were going for the coupons and free stuff.
1 infant loss
8/17: Our daughter was born
8/18: Our daughter kicked open heart surgery ass
2/19: We lost our son to Prader-Willi/Paradoxical Vocal Cord/ Noonans at 6wks old
4/26/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
@Nxy I completely understand. We did a balloon reveal with colored confetti and the first one we popped was blue. My stomach sank thinking what if the second balloon was blue too. I would love all three boys no matter what, obviously, but I know this is our last pregnancy and I would never get to experience having a daughter. And also, wtf am I supposed to do with all those boys running around?! After the reveal, my husband said he had the same fears run through his head.
The linemen that were out were fabulous. Somehow I think communication was strongly lacking between the call center/dispatch & the crews working on the lines. My husband and said they seemed genuinely shocked because a that our power wasn't on. They were "misinformed" via another power company helping with the clean up.
It's insanity... I feel bad for the workmen who have to deal with it.
DS1 is in trouble at school, DS2 has strep throat, and DD has an ear infection. All the doctors appointments, parent/teacher conferences, medications, housework, etc is catching up to me, and I just want to run & hide under a rock. Adulting is hard. Moming is even harder.
@smallbutmighty77 @littlebug2010
Wife. Mom. Doula. Photographer.
BFP #1- 12/26/2011- DS Born 9/7/12
BFP#2- 10/16/2014- DD Born 7/2/15
SURPRISE! BFP#3- 11/29/16- EDD 8/6/17
totally worth the half hour we were there.
1 infant loss
8/17: Our daughter was born
8/18: Our daughter kicked open heart surgery ass
2/19: We lost our son to Prader-Willi/Paradoxical Vocal Cord/ Noonans at 6wks old
4/26/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
1 infant loss
8/17: Our daughter was born
8/18: Our daughter kicked open heart surgery ass
2/19: We lost our son to Prader-Willi/Paradoxical Vocal Cord/ Noonans at 6wks old
4/26/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
Second, the nurse wrote down the gender at our last appointment in a sealed envelope in case we changed our minds about wanting to know. We broke down and looked. I still stand by that it doesn't matter to me, but the suspense! So we looked, but we're still telling everyone we don't know. People say things and this disallows them from insulting me with disrespectful "advice." You know, the advice where they cock their head and raise their eyebrows and say something condescending about gender generalizations? It also prevents my home from being choked out with bright pink and makes baby stuff more useful being gender neutral. But most importantly, this is ours for just a little bit longer
I definitely could have written the same things about my mom and her depression. She'd "nap" all day and we mostly took care of eachother. Which was really crappy for my oldest brother. She got on medication when I must have been about.. 15 or 16 so we missed a lot of the things small kids do with their moms. She's mostly better now and we are much closer but I still have a hard time trusting her with things.
Dh's dad abandoned him when he was 5 and moved to Alaska and never thought about him again.
So we both had areas where we were like uhh maybe we are going to suck at this. After we found out DD was a girl it became really clear to me how much stuff I'd be able to do differently with her and how much better I could make her childhood simply by being there for her. So I'm sure this can be intimidating for slightly damaged people like us but I found it really motivating.
and @MetsGirl18 I wanted to be team green SO BAD. I tried my absolute hardest to convince DH. He found out he's going to be gone for about.. 3.5 months and he really wanted to know and the conversation we had was something along the lines of 'I'm not going to be around to bond with the baby or the idea of a baby at all, I might not even be here when it's born, I want to know the sex so I can try and know this baby a little before I leave" and I mean obviously with my hormones I was on the verge of tears and caved.
Also, when I was around 17 or 18, I had a bad habit of getting an ice cream cone, filling th cone with ice cream plus two scoops on top, and then eating all the icecream off the top and putting more scoops on top. I LOVE a soggy come. My weakness is coffee icecream, mocha almond fudge and butterfinger icecream.
Also- I just got taco bell sober for the first time in like 10 years. I hope it is a revelation and everything I have it built up to be in my head. Lol
To the same point we found out we are having another boy (boy #3) and I am so excited and relieved. Everyone is shocked that I didn't want/need a girl and I think a lot of that stems from my issues with my own mother daughter relationship.
I've already met my insurance deductible for the year so I'm thinking it wouldn't hurt to see a Psychologist.
Together: January 2002
Married: May 2008
Baby: August 2017
Clearly we like to rush along at lightning speed...