October 2017 Moms

**TW** Gestational Sac Sizes and Dropping HCG *My Goodbye*

ShakeUpTampaShakeUpTampa member
edited March 2017 in October 2017 Moms


Updating the post as many of you were so thoughtful to send thoughts and prayers. My husband came home early from work today and went with me to the ER. HCG had gone back up to 2200 from the drop to 2000 last week which 2 days prior had been the 2262. After both the abdominal and vaginal ultrasounds they sent us back for one more photo on abdominal and we were let know they saw no embryo and no heartbeat (Yesterday we saw both at OB with a 106)

I was told to call my OB to set up a confirmation and they were able to get us in literally 20 minutes later so we just went that way. The tech who saw me yesterday was so sad to see me but it was weird, she immediately saw the embryo, no heartbeat..but with moving the wand within seconds it moved from one side to near the uterus to start expelling. They want me to keep coming back for HCG until I go to 5 or below so I know to start tracking cycles. I of course still have no cramping and got the OB who in 2013 I told could never be near my vagina again he is VERY OLD SCHOOL and said we need to wait minimum 6-12 months to try again, but others have said a cycle or two. He did say to lose 20-30lbs which I was on my way to doing before we got the BFP. 

I thank each of you for the support and wish this wasn't goodbye but maybe you will see me again soon on another board. I have my two photos and finally feel brave enough to share with other family and friends who did not know about our 2015 very early loss, just to clear the air. I'm heartbroken but know there is nothing we could have done, of course the OB said it's my chromosomes that are causing the issues probably. I have a brilliant three year old boy who I still need to focus on. I wish you all happy and healthy pregnancies <3

**ORIGINAL POST**
So long story short, I went in to the OB office today (two weeks ago on a Wednesday was at ER, since then some spotting, however today, when I pee...getting red blood in the toilet and wiping red but no cramping)

The OB walks in, and surprise, he is the Doctor who delivered my son in 2013. He basically prepared me for the worst as last week my HCG was 2200 up from the ER which was 1240, he stated the HCG two days later dropped to like 2000 and he has seen cases where that didn't matter. 

We did the U/S and there we were measuring 7 weeks and a HB of 106, the tech said I would bleed some more as she saw blood in the cervix but still no clue why but the concern was the gestational sac is not really big, I guess looking at photos and what they know the size is much bigger. Of course Dr. Google has good and bad stories. I'm just wondering if anyone else has had issues with the gestational sac and gone on to a healthy pregnancy or had regular pink/brown spotting, some red almost like early pregnancy and it stop and go on to a healthy baby. We had a miscarriage in 2015 so we have been trying with my wonky cycles and now I have to wait two weeks until the next U/S at 9 weeks, but told to go straight to the ER if I start having cramping or more bleeding. 

He did state they won't check HCG anymore now that we can see on U/S but I didn't think numbers would go down until after 10 weeks from most literature I had read. 

Sorry so long, didn't think this should go under symptoms and didn't want to type this all out in the U/S thread. 
Nichole Tampa, FL
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Re: **TW** Gestational Sac Sizes and Dropping HCG *My Goodbye*

  • I have zero advice or help, but I've been waiting for an update from you.  I'm glad that they found the baby and a hb.  For right now, you are pregnant.  *Hugs*
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  • Thank you @mrs_fogue, I'm not trying not to worry, with my son I had ONE day of lots of red blood then nothing else. This pink/brn spotting then today has me messed up but since I just had the U/S this morning and she said she did see more blood to come I can't base anything off today unless cramping starts. There does not seem to be a lot of scientific information about small gestational sacs but reading some old forums I see some people, it caught up, and some miscarried. I'm too on edge to get overly excited as I'm just now starting to process and grieve my Mother who passed last Summer and other relatives that I reserved my emotions so I could be the strong one and take care of others. I just want a happy healthy baby. 
    Nichole Tampa, FL
  • emwj10187emwj10187 member
    edited February 2017
    I'm sorry you're still somewhat in limbo land. My SIL is about as far along as you are, and has been bleeding consistently since week 4. They found a heart beat for her at 6weeks+5 and are monitoring her closely b/c of the bleeding, but other than that baby seems healthy. I know everyone's situations are different, but i hope this gives you peace of mind. Having heart beat is a great sign! Keeping you in my prayers.
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  • @ShakeUpTampa I too had been eagerly awaiting your update.  Seeing the baby and the heartbeat are a great step, and I agree with @mrs_fogue , today you're pregnant.  The next 2 weeks will feel like forever.  Take some time for yourself and try your best not to worry.  Thinking of you, I'm sorry you didn't get more reassurance.  
  • @ShakeUpTampa I've been on the edge of my seat for your appointment today. I have never gone through this before but I want to share some optimism. I'm happy for you that they found a heartbeat. I googled and found that some women experienced a rapid growth of their gestational sac in the upcoming couple of weeks. I hope that is the case for you as well.

    Take time for yourself, goodness knows how stressed you must be. I will be thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way!
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  • Thank you ladies. <3 I hate using Dr Google but when the OB straight up said, there is so much that even Doctor's can't explain, after preparing me for the worst, I cried when they said they saw the heartbeat. I'm going to take it super easy the next two weeks and pray this spotting stops and maybe just maybe it's breakthrough (Would be due for period about now)....and I see that can happen too. The what if's and waiting it the worst. 
    Nichole Tampa, FL
  • I'm sorry you're still in a waiting pattern. We all know every pregnancy is different and what is true for me may or may not be true for you, but I like hearing optimistic outcomes. So...I spotted/bled throughout my entire first trimester with my first pregnancy. It sucked. They saw a subchorionic hematoma at some point (I remember asking if it shrunk at my NT scan so it was before then). Usually they resolve by 12ish weeks. My didn't. I had two BIG bleeds close to 20 weeks complete with gumball sized clots. Those were terrifying. Prior to getting pregnant I was also told I have a very friable cervix so who knows if that ever contributed (I'm sure it did at least in the first tri). I ended up with a healthy baby at the end of it. 

    So far I've been spotting for over a week (I'll be 7w on Thursday) with this pregnancy. Time will tell what it means. 

    Ill be hoping that your sac catches up ( <----- will probably never get to say that again bahaha) and that baby continues to thrive!
  • I don't have anything practical to offer, but I'm thinking of you and hoping for the best. Take extra good care of yourself, lady!
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  • My DH is coming home from work now to go to ER with me, we had the red when wiping and some in toilet that was like water color paint (sorry, best way to describe) and this morning I was legit having period like blood when going to the bathroom, still no clots or pain but we might as well go find out if this is just odd ball bleeding that happens to some ladies or if it is the turn the other direction. Thank you for all your kind words, this is not where I imagined I'd be when I finally got pregnant again. Trying to remain calm as I know stress can also cause more issues. 
    Nichole Tampa, FL
  • Praying everything goes well!
  • @ShakeUpTampa I hope everything goes well at the ER and they can explain the bleeding. Hopefully you'll be updating us with somw good news in a few hours. Thoughts and prayers going your way. 
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  • So sorry. I know just how stressful that can be. Hoping you get some good answers. 
  • @ShakeUpTampa Really pulling hard for you. Good luck this morning.
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  • Sending my thoughts and many many prayers your way @ShakeUpTampa
  • Big *hugs* @ShakeUpTampa.  Keep us posted.  Sending thoughts and prayers up for you <3
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  • @ShakeUpTampa oh no!  Thinking of you.
  • So sorry you're going through this. Sending positive thoughts and prayers to you.
  • @ShakeUpTampa Been thinking about you all day, hope all is well. I'll be eagerly awaiting an update
  • Thank you so much for the support ladies, I updated the OP. This is my goodbye. I wish you all well <3
    Nichole Tampa, FL
  • CytheCythe member
    I am so sorry for your loss, please take care of yourself.
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  • I can't imagine the stress and fear that you are feeling right now. I'm sure that all of us can share in that terror of something going/being wrong. Hoping that the ER has some new news for you but take it as easy as possible over the next couple weeks and I'm wishing for time to pass quickly for you in waiting for some resolution. *hugs*
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss <3 

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  • MyelhsaMyelhsa member
    edited March 2017
    I'm so sorry for your loss @ShakeUpTampa :'(
  • I'm so sorry :(
  • I'm so sorry :( hugs to you. I wish you and your hubby the best of luck for a future baby bean!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss  

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  • I'm sorry for your loss, please be well. I will miss you here and will keep you in my thoughts
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.,...I was really hoping that things would turn around and that you'd have great news.  I hope we get to cross paths again on a future BMB.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take your time to heal and take care of yourself.  All the hugs and prayers for healing.
  • I am so sorry for your loss @ShakeUpTampa. Take whatever time you need for yourself. 
  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers your way for some peace in this time. <3
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  • I'm so sorry. Hugs to you. Take care of yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs. 
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss <3
    me . late 30's | h . early 40's | < 3 . 2013

    *siggy warning*

    ttc#1 . jul 2015
    mmc . mar 2016
    dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
    tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
    BFP .  jan 2017
    DD .  oct 2017

    ntnp #2 . summer 2018
    mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
    RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
    surprise BFP .  aug 2019
    DS .  may 2020

    dx Hashimoto's 2023
    ttc #3 . feb 2023
    mmc . apr 2023
    mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
    dx elevated nk cells
    tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
    BFP . mar 2025

  • I'm so sad to hear this news. My prayers are with you and your family. Take care of yourself  <3
  • I am so, so sorry, @ShakeUpTampa. Thinking of you and YH. Be kind to yourself. <3
  • @ShakeUpTampa I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. We will be thinking of you, and missing you- you've been such a constant and supportive presence on this board. All the best and I pray you get your take home baby soon <3



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    @ShakeUpTampa I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for you! 
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  • I'm sorry for your loss! Take care of yourself!
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