So here is the problem. I have lots of family and friends but not one person has offered to throw me a shower. My husband and I had decided to throw our own, and use a family member as "the silent host". After all the planning we had to divide up the guest list into 2 shower dates. Invitations were already sent out for both and we got several RSVPs between the 2. Because of the cost of it all, rentals of tables, chairs, tent, food, decor etc., we have to cancel it. We cant afford it and on top of that I would be the one doing everything from decorating to food prep etc. I just dont have the energy to do it. How do I cancel my 2 showers without having to explain that I just cant afford to do it by myself?