A couple days ago dh wanted to mess around, but I told him it's my week for my period. It's true, it is that week on my cycle, however since I've been on the pill I only get my period every few months, and I don't have it this month. I just was too exhausted and didn't want to start a fight.
Damien and I will be leaving on our little roadtrip next week and will be gone for 2 weeks. My husband has been 100% supportive but the other night he let me know how sad he is that we are going. He doesn't get to spend as much time with Damien as he would like because of work so he really cherishes our evenings and the weekends. My confession is that while I feel so guilty and selfish for taking Damien away for so long....I don't regret it. It does break my heart to see my husband sad though, I will try to send him loads of videos and pictures while we are away. I guess I'm a bit torn about the whole thing.
My FFFC is probably more of a rant. DH wants one night a week to hang with his friends (which he does anyway and sees them all at work everyday already) to keep "from losing it" (from what? He hangs with LO solo maybe 10minutes a day and doesn't help much with care taking activities during the week). Anyway, I said yes since he does it already, but used it as a bargaining chip to get more involvement on a day to day basis.
I'm so over the acceptance of misogyny, racism, xenophobia, homophobia, lies, and carelessness of our new president and administration. I'm not trying to start a political war. I just want to scream and cry about how far we've regressed as a society. Thank you for not flaming me.