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Mariah Carey thread

NYTino24NYTino24 member
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edited January 2017 in TTC After a Loss
I feel like we need an Emotions thread... get it? ;)  Use your gifs, memes, or words and just let it all out.

PS did you see her butterfly ring? Just a little shout out to the angels up above.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17

Re: Mariah Carey thread

  • Kelly Clarkson!
    Image result for kelly clarkson behind these hazel eyes gif

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

    NYTino24Hopefulmommy1980dpjennifer
  • I'm so tired right now because work is absolutely crazy...


    Hopefulmommy1980Uhlease13
  • When my kids ask me what to do directly after my mini-lesson...


    Hopefulmommy1980
  • Possibly having to wait months to be able to TTC again?

    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17
    Hopefulmommy1980SP128Uhlease13justsuzie
  •  :'(  you can't do gifs on mobile...

    When you find out the best player on your team is suspended for dealing drugs 

    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

    NYTino24
  • @soontobemamahowe I gif on my iPhone! Hold down your finger over the image and press save. Then press the paper icon on TB, choose files, photo library, check mark, done. 


    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17
    RiverSong15laeberge3Hopefulmommy1980BelhurstBride

  • The CD1-CD14 wait kills me every month....
    laeberge3amberrukadpjennifer
  • @RiverSong15. Right there with ya!
    RiverSong15
  • @Hopefulmommy1980 You're GIF is resonating with me.  This spotting should get on to full blown AF so I can get the next cycle going or give me a BFP.  I don't have time for this nonsense.

    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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  • NYTino24NYTino24 member
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    edited January 2017
    Watching This is Us and hearing her complain about having 3 babies... I know it's hard to deal with a surprise like that, but give me all the babies, the financial difficulties, the pregnancy problems... I would be so grateful. And I'm sure if this was real life she would feel so bad later losing the third, but man. I think that was more rough than the rest. Also, the Subaru commercial where they say, "When you realize your baby isn't a baby anymore..." I know what they meant, but there is too much of this stuff on tv that I just need to watch movies so I know the content.

    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17
    Hopefulmommy1980
  • @NYTino24. My thoughts exactly when I watched that episode. There wasn't one scene when I had a really hard time. 

    Seriously mandy Moore , wish my prob was pregnant with. Trips
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
    Hopefulmommy1980justsuzie
  • NYTino24NYTino24 member
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    edited January 2017
    @STP128 had to swear off tv for a while after seeing repeated commercials for the next episode where Jack says, "I love you being pregnant," or whatever. I was fine the first one or two times. I don't think I can handle the next episode.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17
  • It was tough watching This us when he's rubbing her belly and everything. Sigh. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

    NYTino24
  • @NYTino24 @SP128 @Uhlease13 I am now so glad I decided not to watch that show! I cry over huggies commercials, I couldn't handle this is us. :'(


    NYTino24
  • @NYTino24, @SP128, @Uhlease13, @pumpkin0913  Might seem crazy but I actually cancelled cable 1 week after the loss because of all of the pg commercials.  And, actually I don't really miss it.  I am a bit extreme though because I also deactivated my facebook and instagram to shield myself.   Perhaps I should have learned some basic coping mechanisms.  Ugh.

    splashmountainNYTino24
  • SP128SP128 member
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    edited January 2017
    @justsuzie  Nope, not extreme.  FB is brutal.  I feel like I'm a glutton for punishment.  Even though it stings, I find myself wondering about couples who have been together for awhile to see if they are "next."  I've also known to try to spot bumps in people I know.  Again, I'm a glutton for punishment.  

    However,  the wind gets knocked out of me when a TW comes out of the blue and I'm not trying to see it.  

    edit - should really spell/grammar check before posting
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
    NYTino24
  • @NYTino24 - I've been wanting to watch that show but I could never bring myself to watch it because I was scared it would be too heavy for me.  TTC was stressful for me and then my CP was sad.  Right now I feel I'm starting over and actually not stressed so I don't want anything that may trigger sadness.
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    NYTino24
  • @justsuzie I went off FB for a few days before the MC finished. I realized then that having to keep it inside was making me feel terrible. Once I put it out there, I felt instantly better. No one said anything for a few hours, but then I started getting likes and then private messages and replies once people gathered their thoughts enough. I stopped feeling alone and started coping. Some people are still checking in with me there via messenger and text. It has been good for some of the women who have had losses to be able to share with me publicly or privately to be able to talk about theirs too, even if it does stir things up for them. It's just a personal choice, and I definitely have clicked "see less of _" ads or unfollowed some people for the time being. 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17
    justsuzie
  • I've avoided watching This Is Us until I feel like I'm in a better place. I just see it making me all sorts of negative feelings. 

    ** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **


    Me: 31+ H: 32
    TTC Since 11/2015
    #1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
    splashmountainNYTino24
  • Call me crazy, I lost multiples and I am still obsessed with This Is Us. I have cried every single episode for one reason or another but I think it is so well done and such a feel good show compared to some of the other crap on TV. I can see why it's a big trigger for the TTCAL community but for some reason I'm hooked. 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

    NYTino24Uhlease13Hopefulmommy1980
  • Dealing with doctors who don't listen or nurses who don't return calls or emails for a week = 

    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17
    justsuzieHopefulmommy1980
  • oh that sucks @NYTino24 - I have no patience for that
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  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe. I'm right there with you on This Is Us.  I love the show and cry most episodes but I just think it's a great show.  I can understand the triggers but I still love it. 
  • @NYTino24  That stinks.  I wonder what would happen if I did not call people back or respond to their emails for a week...... Professionals need to act like professionals and get back to people, especially on a sensitive matter like this.  
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Ditto @SoonToBeMommaHowe I still love the show :) 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @NYTino24 I 100% understand. I was so happy to be done and moving in the right direction but I ugly cried for a while too. 


  • NYTino24NYTino24 member
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    edited January 2017
    ...fakeout. Maybe today, maybe not at all this cycle. Que sera!
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 35 DH 33     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17   vanishing twin at 8 weeks   DS born 11/25/17
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