Hi ladies. I think it's been a few weeks since the last MHCI. I did a quick search, but didn't see another one posted. Like last time, I'll just leave it open ended for whatever you want to talk about. I know we'll all be supportive and be here to offer advice if needed.
Re: Mental Health check in 1/10
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My DS is 14 months old. This past October 3 people who run a sex trafficking ring here in Dallas cornered me in a grocery store and tried to grab my son out of my shopping cart. I had noticed them following me, so I had a strong hold on him and they weren't able to get him. It was very traumatic and the police know who they are but haven't been able to locate their whereabouts.
Anyway, I was diagnosed with PTSD soon after and put on anxiety meds and started going to therapy. I basically became agoraphobic and was terrified to be out in public with my son. I've gotten a lot better as the months go by, but I still struggle with anxiety on a daily basis.
This week has been especially hard because DS has been sick for 3 days and anxiety has reared its ugly head again. I know kids get sick and it's normal, but this is the first time he's ever been sick and that anxious feeling is back because it's out of my control, just like when he was targeted to be kidnapped. I think I'm going to make a therapy appointment this week. I know therapy has helped me a lot. If you are dealing with any kind of trauma, I highly recommend it.
eta: spelling is hard today.
The weather has been so gloomy here lately. I had to go into work early for a meeting today and came and left work in the dark. I just felt so sad all day at work. Since suffering from depression, I'm always more concerned on the days my mood is gloomy. I'm always worried I won't be better the next day and that this feeling will overtake me. Luckily my DH picked up my favorite food for dinner. Hopefully I'll feel better tomorrow, but still slightly fearful.
@erinh84 I am SO sorry this happened to you. I have a friend have a similar situation at our local Target several months ago. She had her 2 little girls (both under 3) and she noticed a man and woman following her. When the man approached her she started screaming as loud as she could "NO! GET AWAY! SOMEONE HELP!" repeatedly and people started to stare, they got into a car and raced away. It was like 2 in the afternoon.. The police told her this had been happening around this location multiple times recently (the shopping center is near the interstate - quick get away to God knows where), they had the 2 people's discription that matched hers. Thank goodness they haven't been successful. I now am hyper vigilant when in public.
@erinh84, holy crap that is scary! I'm sorry you went through that!
I'm having a lot of anxiety regarding the adoption. I worry about the baby, I worry about the expecting mother, I worry about her changing her mind. After TTC for nearly 4 years, and being THIS CLOSE, I'm worried it'll all fall apart. But, I'm also having anxiety over the grief I know our birth mother will feel if she does go through with it...it's an emotional rollercoaster.