Can someone give me the quick and dirty of what went down?
I don't think it was July. I think a certain someone reported her and tons of other on the WTF Wed thread (tons of comments removed). That thread is now randomly closed despite a day lag since the last lost came in. I imagine this isn't the first time that certain someone reported her as other replies to that person were removed before.
Can someone give me the quick and dirty of what went down?
Someone on the July board said she posted on their ultrasound thread and then got banned... I'm guessing it was the one everyone was talking about earlier? I'm trying to find it but I can't.
Can someone give me the quick and dirty of what went down?
Someone on the July board said she posted on their ultrasound thread and then got banned... I'm guessing it was the one everyone was talking about earlier? I'm trying to find it but I can't.
Bump gods deleted that thread cause the OP of it had a hissy fit and contacted them.
What happened in the WTF Wednesday thread? I just see approximately a million "**Removed for TOU violation**" messages and then it was closed for unwelcoming tone. I'm not sure I've ever seen a WTF Wednesday closed before.
WTF wednesday was closed with "This thread has been closed to new posts due to the discussion’s unwelcoming tone. Continuing to create threads related to this topic will be grounds for warning and/or removal from The Bump Community."
Does this mean we're not allowed to have WTF Wednesday anymore?
I'm really bummed and hope she makes another account. It's frustrating that supportive, contributing members get banned but these trolls get free passes to be horrible.
Like I said to the folks in the TTGP private group this morning...I think I'm gonna start a second account right now so that when I inevitably get banned I won't have to wait 3 days to start posting again.
Hoping for the second coming of @Assiram42 monday-ish.
I think you need 3 warnings to be banned, and I'm sure the she was reported a time or two due to last week's shenanigans. Boo.
Not to be an instigator here, but do we need to start fighting fire with fire? I've never been of the tattle tale variety but if we need to report those that say horrible things to our regs in order to get those folks warnings that add up so that they get banned... maybe we just need to do that!
Or maybe people already are and I'm just oblivious...
Woke up and am still angry Assiram42 is banned. So completely unfair. It makes it much more clear though why so many people left during the great exodus if this is how the admin treat regular contributing members.
Married 12/17/2011 K born 8/31/12 C born 1/11/14 BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015 BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
So I missed all the "fun" yesterday, but just caught myself back up. Basically, people get banned for sticking up for themselves (and telling others that they are being COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS), while it's considered ok to be inflammatory and insensitive to others (if the others can tolerate it)?
FYI - This happened A LOT on N15 and we lost some great regs. For anyone thinking about a back-up account, it is against TOU and if the BGs find out you can get an IP ban. Don't announce the handle to the entire BMB. The regs will probably figure it out, but maybe PM someone you trust to give the BMB a generic "we got her back"
Got my first warning this morning...for a post last week where without mentioning another poster even by name I said "I hope that person leaves, her attitude is atrocious, gotta weed out the crazies." Apparently that was "unwelcoming." I feel like I've said far worse, and if warnings are issued a week in arrears, as it appears here, I might not be long for this board.
I know I made fun of the people who wanted to start FB groups like two months ago, but now that Assiram got banned, I wish the fun people had started one so that we could still keep up with her. Also so that when I get banned I can still keep up with you all without fear of trolls calling me out. Sigh.
I've been surprised by how tame our board actually is. In my previous BMB, people were banned way earlier and it was often for jokes that sensitive people couldn't take. There was a ton of hormone blaming. Our board has been so very polite and helpful more than the shame and blame of that board. But people just recreated accounts and were usually able to fly under the eraser, unless they really couldn't help their sarcasm. Then they got banned again.
*autocorrect fail. Fly under the radar. Not eraser. Lol.
What bothers me is that momofboys or whatever her name is actually insulted people and called people names. I didn't see @Assiram42 ever do that! Now, I didn't see the post that caused bangate but she just didn't speak that way so I can't see what she possibly could've done that bad. This is mind boggling to me.
Re: The Great Drama Llama Thread
Can someone give me the quick and dirty of what went down?
Someone on the July board said she posted on their ultrasound thread and then got banned... I'm guessing it was the one everyone was talking about earlier? I'm trying to find it but I can't.
Can we petition?! LOL
Especially when she literally called other members idiots. Pretty sure no one else was name calling.
Don't mind me... I'm off to stalk some drama
And why did @Assiram42 get banned?
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
Does this mean we're not allowed to have WTF Wednesday anymore?
DS1 - 7/2011, DD 12/2012, DS2 - 4/2014, MMC - 12/2015
Hoping for the second coming of @Assiram42 monday-ish.
I think you need 3 warnings to be banned, and I'm sure the she was reported a time or two due to last week's shenanigans. Boo.
Or maybe people already are and I'm just oblivious...
K born 8/31/12
C born 1/11/14
BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
Sigh. @Assiram42, we really hope you come back.
BFP #1 6/13 DD 3/14
Mirena 10/14-5/16
BFP #2 9/2/16, CP confirmed 9/8/16
BFP #3 10/10/16 EDD 6/22/17
Our BMB has the dynamic and personality that is does due to the regs and her being gone just sucks...
Got my first warning this morning...for a post last week where without mentioning another poster even by name I said "I hope that person leaves, her attitude is atrocious, gotta weed out the crazies." Apparently that was "unwelcoming." I feel like I've said far worse, and if warnings are issued a week in arrears, as it appears here, I might not be long for this board.
I know I made fun of the people who wanted to start FB groups like two months ago, but now that Assiram got banned, I wish the fun people had started one so that we could still keep up with her. Also so that when I get banned I can still keep up with you all without fear of trolls calling me out. Sigh.
*autocorrect fail. Fly under the radar. Not eraser. Lol.
MC 4/15
BFP 10/10/16