Now that my LO is a toddler I feel like messenger style diaper bag isn't cutting it anymore. It is heaving when I am chasing after him and we are using the stroller less which means I am carrying it more. So, I am leaning towards a stylish backpack diaper bag. Right now I am struggling to decide between the Ju-Ju-Be BFF and the KiKi Lu. Both are just under $200 so I don't want to pick the wrong one. Has anyone had experience with either or both of these bags? Thanks in advance!