SO Scared single and no family.

Knottie1427425310

ladies this is my first post because I feel so depressed and scared and need some help. I don't know where to get support anymore. My ex and I broke up at 2 months pregnant. I'm not sure if he is going to be involved because we are going through a domestic violence case with courts and he cannot have contact with me but there is a big change he won't be. I literally don't talk to any of my family members for a reason is too long too explain and no, I can't ever be around my family for my own safety. Yes I have friends but they all have their own life's and can't rely completely on them. Should I give my baby for adoption so he can have a good life? I want to keep my babg but I don't want to be selfish and not provide a good life for him.please help me 

MamaBish

Nobody can answer this question for you. You have to do some thinking about what it is that you really want. 
Also, something to consider, the father will have a say in if this baby can go up for adoption or not.

Time to do some soul searching. Good luck!

SaphireSweetie88

Knottie1427425310 said:

ladies this is my first post because I feel so depressed and scared and need some help. I don't know where to get support anymore. My ex and I broke up at 2 months pregnant. I'm not sure if he is going to be involved because we are going through a domestic violence case with courts and he cannot have contact with me but there is a big change he won't be. I literally don't talk to any of my family members for a reason is too long too explain and no, I can't ever be around my family for my own safety. Yes I have friends but they all have their own life's and can't rely completely on them. Should I give my baby for adoption so he can have a good life? I want to keep my babg but I don't want to be selfish and not provide a good life for him.please help me 

This is a very personal decision that only you can make. I do have a a couple questions though:
1. How old are you?
2. Are you working? What forms of income do you have?

britters314

As PPs have said, it is a very personal decision. I'd suggest looking to see if there are any pregnancy crisis centers near you where you can meet with a counselor to talk about your options and any resources available to you.