After seeing baby's heartbeat last week, the baby hasn't grown and we can no longer see a heartbeart. Going to talk to doctor tomorrow about options. My heart is hurting so bad right now...
Oh no, I am so incredibly sorry! Please take care of yourself, reach out if it's overwhelming, you can't decide what to do, etc. Your area might have Bereavement Doulas available, worth a look❤️
I'm so sorry. Do what you need to do to grieve. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about how you grieve or how long it takes. Grief knows no timeline. Be kind to yourself and remember that this isn't your fault. There isn't anything you could have done to prevent this.
If it comforts you at all: the odds are very much in your favor that next time you'll get your take-home baby. I know that isn't helpful for everyone but it helped me a lot after my first loss. I just couldn't even imagine having to go through that kind of heart break again.
There is an amazing group of ladies over on the Miscarriage board and also on the TTC After Loss board, whenever you get ready to try again.
Me: 28 Husband: 31 TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016 Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Sending <creepy internet hugs> I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Please take care of yourself. Know that it's not fair and that it's okay for you to not feel okay.
So sorry to hear this! I have been down that road twice. It is a tough one to go through! It gets better over time, I promis. And I know that isn't very easy to understand now, but it will. Praying for you!
Re: Guess I don't belong here anymore...
If it comforts you at all: the odds are very much in your favor that next time you'll get your take-home baby. I know that isn't helpful for everyone but it helped me a lot after my first loss. I just couldn't even imagine having to go through that kind of heart break again.
There is an amazing group of ladies over on the Miscarriage board and also on the TTC After Loss board, whenever you get ready to try again.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
MC#1 : April 15 | MC#2 : Aug 15 | MC#3 : Jan 16 | MC#4 : April 16
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
BFP #1 9/1999. DD Born 6/7/2000
BFP #2 10/2011. EDD 7/11/12. MMC discovered 11/2/11. D&C 11/4/11.
DX PCOS 10/2012.
BFP#3 1/11/13. DS Born 9/17/2013
BFP#4 9/30/17. Grow baby grow!
~Everyone Welcome~
K born 8/31/12
C born 1/11/14
BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
BFP Oct 2011 - DD born July 2012
TTC again since July 2014
First IUI 9/26/16: BFP!
EDD 6/19/2017
It's a girl!
Born 6/26/17, 9lb 5oz
Me: 31 DH: 34
Married 11/09/2013
LO#1: LMP 09/14/2014 BFP 10/15/2014 EDD 06/24/2015 DS Born 06/14/2015
LO#2: LMP 09/18/2016 BFP 10/19/2016 EDD 06/27/2017 DD Born 06/27/2017
LO#3: LMP 05/16/2018 BFP 06/18/2018 EDD 02/20/2019
DS1 - 7/2011, DD 12/2012, DS2 - 4/2014, MMC - 12/2015
DH: 35 | Me: 29
BFP #1- 07.25.12, EDD: 03.24.13, DD born 03.26.13
Surprised BFP #2- 02.25.15, EDD: 10/29/15 |*m/c 7w4d, D&C 04.02.2015
BFP #3- 01.21.16, EDD: 09.29.26 |*m/c-blighted ovum 2.19.16 8w1d, D&C 03.04.16
BFP #4- 05.24.16, EDD: 02.04.17 |*natural m/c- 07.08.16, 9w1d
BFP #5- 09/25/16, EDD: 06.07.17 GROW, BABY, GROW!
Gavin - 8/27/10
*TW*
Gabriel - 2nd tri loss 5/17/16 Trisomy 18 & 21
Hope - 2nd tri loss 12/7/16 complications from pneumonia
Me: 25 | DH: 29
MC: March 2016
BFP #2: October 2016
Our fur-baby is a black Labrador Retriever.
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