TTC After a Loss
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Hi everyone! I have been absent from TB for awhile, but I wanted to introduce myself and hopefully learn from others. I found out I lost my twins at my 12 week appointment on August 15th of this year. (I was due at the end of February). I had a D&C the following day. It has been 2.5 months since my loss and I am still reeling, but also actively trying to get pregnant. I have two daughters, ages 3 years, 9 months, and 2 years, 1 month. I had two losses before my daughters, my first at around 7 weeks and my second also at 12 weeks. Has anyone else had 3 or more losses? I am in the two week wait right now. This is our second cycle trying to conceive after the miscarriage. I had testing done after my miscarriage that revealed the fetuses had chromosomal abnormalities. 
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4 losses- MC in 2006, MMC in February 2012 at 12 weeks and MMC (twins) August 2016 at 12 weeks. Pregnant again- 11/7/16. Another loss on December 28, 2016.

BFP April 23, 2017.  Our triple rainbow baby! EDD: January 2, 2018. It's a boy!

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    Sorry you are here, but I have found it a wonderful place to be. I don't have information to share, but know others will. Hope your stay is short!!

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    I am very sorry for your losses @Runner313. I have had three early losses and have no living children of my own. I'm sorry you find yourself here, but this is a wonderful support community.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

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    So sorry for your losses. I've also had 3 losses at 6, 22 and 17 weeks and it is my second cycle TTC. I saw a MFM and got tested for multiple things since I don't have living children, everything came back normal so here I am again, really hoping and next time I'll make it to viability. I'm currently on cycle day 28, tested this morning and got a BFN, no sign of AF though so I'm kinda in a limbo right now. 
    I'm 29, husband is 30
    Together since 2006
    Married 01.17.15  <3

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    fiorip said:
    So sorry for your losses. I've also had 3 losses at 6, 22 and 17 weeks and it is my second cycle TTC. I saw a MFM and got tested for multiple things since I don't have living children, everything came back normal so here I am again, really hoping and next time I'll make it to viability. I'm currently on cycle day 28, tested this morning and got a BFN, no sign of AF though so I'm kinda in a limbo right now. 
    I am so sorry for your losses. I hope this cycle gives you a BFP. I hope you never have to go through another loss again. 
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    4 losses- MC in 2006, MMC in February 2012 at 12 weeks and MMC (twins) August 2016 at 12 weeks. Pregnant again- 11/7/16. Another loss on December 28, 2016.

    BFP April 23, 2017.  Our triple rainbow baby! EDD: January 2, 2018. It's a boy!
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    I am very sorry for your losses @Runner313. I have had three early losses and have no living children of my own. I'm sorry you find yourself here, but this is a wonderful support community.
    Thank you and I am sorry for your losses. I wish you the best and hope I can contribute to the support offered here. 
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    4 losses- MC in 2006, MMC in February 2012 at 12 weeks and MMC (twins) August 2016 at 12 weeks. Pregnant again- 11/7/16. Another loss on December 28, 2016.

    BFP April 23, 2017.  Our triple rainbow baby! EDD: January 2, 2018. It's a boy!
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    I'm so sorry for your losses. I've had two myself, with no living children. Losses just suck. Welcome to the board though. Hoepfully your next pregnancy is your rainbow.
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    I'm so sorry for your losses.  This was my first mc and no children.  Welcome even though I know you don't want to be here.  These ladies are so amazing.  
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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    Very sorry for your losses. I have had 2 losses so far. FX your stay is short!
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    CP #1- due April 2017 lost 5.5 weeks
    cp #2- due May 2017 lost at 4.5 weeks
    iUI #1- BFN
    IUI #2-BFN
    IVF#1- transfer 2- BFP! Due October 2017 c/p#3 lost at 3.5 weeks
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    I'm sorry for your losses. But welcome to our sucky little club. Hopefully you will have a short stay! 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
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    Welcome to our little world @runner313. Hopefully you aren't here long <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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    Thanks ladies. I wish you all short stays as well. My oldest daughter is my first rainbow baby (had two losses before her), and she is a very special little lady. 
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    4 losses- MC in 2006, MMC in February 2012 at 12 weeks and MMC (twins) August 2016 at 12 weeks. Pregnant again- 11/7/16. Another loss on December 28, 2016.

    BFP April 23, 2017.  Our triple rainbow baby! EDD: January 2, 2018. It's a boy!
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    So sorry for your losses.
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    So sorry to hear @Runner313. I also lost identical twins on August 5th (originally triplets, but we lost the singleton in July. My body is still not back to normal from the loss as I still have HCG in my system. I'm envious of your body getting back on track so much faster! Good luck!
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    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
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    So sorry to hear @Runner313. I also lost identical twins on August 5th (originally triplets, but we lost the singleton in July. My body is still not back to normal from the loss as I still have HCG in my system. I'm envious of your body getting back on track so much faster! Good luck!
    I am so sorry @wearturtles. I had my D&C on August 16th, and my HCG levels went down to 0 about 5.5 weeks later, so the end of September. Hopefully yours go down ASAP. 
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    4 losses- MC in 2006, MMC in February 2012 at 12 weeks and MMC (twins) August 2016 at 12 weeks. Pregnant again- 11/7/16. Another loss on December 28, 2016.

    BFP April 23, 2017.  Our triple rainbow baby! EDD: January 2, 2018. It's a boy!
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