TTC After a Loss

A Verrrrry Spooky TGIF Check-In 10/28

Happy Halloween Weekend! What's happening, people?! Who's partying? Who's eating a lot of candy they're supposed to be saving to hand out on Monday?

 
Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
TTC  09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained 
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
Ambrose born on his due date!

Re: A Verrrrry Spooky TGIF Check-In 10/28

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  • @reneeannemm - your weekend sounds nice! My mom has Crohn's disease and colitis, so I have an idea what that's like. I hope his friend starts to feel better soon. 

    I am theiwing my first real prtt tonight for DH's birthday and it's the first party in our new house. I'm nervous and excited! I've spent all week getting ready and I'm exhausted. Otherwise, we plan on watching scary movies, carving pumpkins, and just relaxing. 
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  • Happy Weekend Everyone!!

    This cold rainy Friday the pup and I are watching holiday movies and reading Jodi Picoult's Handle with Care. 


    Tomorrow is craft fair prep and a Halloween party at DHs coworkers house. Sunday is church, ribs and football. <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @reneeannemm Yum, your cooking does sound amazing! Your evening with DH's BFF sounds nice.

    @MooFish2364 How fun! I'm sure it will be a great party.

    AFM - Tonight is the last home football game (SD is in marching band), so we will be at that tonight. I have a pedicure tomorrow morning. Contemplating going to a Zombie Obstacle Course/Run Saturday afternoon. DH said it sounds fun, but won't commit. It is his birthday weekend, so I want him to decide what he wants to do this weekend. So, I am sure we will be doing something, I just have no idea what yet. That is difficult for me because I am a hardcore planner.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @reneeannemm love the fosters!!

    Off today to get ready for the Halloween party tomorrow. DH decorates to the max!! I'm doing a litter box cake so baking and prepping today. Last time I made one people were creeped out by the realism. 

    Now to turn up the Pandora and check back in a bit!!
  • NewMommyCoopNewMommyCoop member
    edited October 2016
    @flipflopped LOL, one of my really good friends makes a litter box cake every year. Last year she bought a new litter box, washed it, and used it for the cake. People were super freaked out by that, so this year she just served it in a pyrex. She brought it to work yesterday for a Halloween potluck. Do you use tootsie rolls or brownies for the "cat poop"?

    Edited for spelling
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @NewMommyCoop I have a only for cake litter box and put out a new and clean poop scoop as the serving utensil. once I switched to a regular food serving utensil people dug in...hahaha :) I use tootsie rolls for poop. this year I could only find the short ones so I'll have to work harder to make the poop look good. 
  • @soontobemommahowe your pup loves that spot next to you!

    AFM- going down to the Jersey Shore (Long Beach Island) one last time with the DH to have these wings that I've been thinking about for a month before the place closes for the season. Then off to Philly to sample some Gino's and Pat's cheesesteaks and fries. I did buy some more Halloween candy to replace the ones that *mysteriously* disappeared, but I'll be far away from them all weekend so they should be safe till Monday. Soooo pretty much this is me all weekend:

  • Happy Friday everyone!
    Going out for dinner with a friend tonight, tmrw DH and I are going to a Harry Potter movie marathon at a drive in near our house and will drinking butterbeer and watching 1 or 2 of the Harry Potter movies. :) Sunday we are making gumbo and watching football and I also need to watch Hocus Pocus and few more Halloween movies before Halloween. lol

    @reneeannem - Your curry sounds delish, I have never made curry before so  I will have to give it a try.
    @soontobemommahowe - that picture is perfection.
    @newmommycoop - that zombie race sounds like fun I have always wanted to do one of those. Hope your DH has a nice day - I hate it when plans are up in the air too. lol
    @flipflopped @newmommycoop- I have never heard of a litter cake - post a picture if you can! Using a washed out old litter box kind of gives me the creeps too, haha.
    @szwill86 - that sounds like such a fun wknd - I love Philly cheesesteaks.
  • @reneeannemm Your dinner plans sound delicious! We watched It's A Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown last week and it helped put me in the autumn spirit. 

    @flipflopped Love the litter box, cake! I would probably be skittish of that, too.  The party sounds like lots of fun!

    @szwill86 Your weekend sounds great - nothing wrong with eating your way through the weekend :smile:

    H and I are going to to Home Depot tonight to pick out some new exterior doors (whoo!).  It's our first Friday off of HS football since August, so I'm going to enjoy just relaxing at home.  Tomorrow we're going to see Indiana play Maryland in college football with H's dad. I always enjoy visiting my alma mater, wishing I was back in college, running into a rude and/or crazy college kid, and again being okay with being almost 30.  No trick-or-treating or Halloween parties for us this year, though we should get a visit from Paw Patrol's Marshall (aka, my nephew) which will be fun.  Reminds me that I need to pick up some more candy - my supply has been depleted.
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • @laeberge3 hmm...your candy must have disappeared to the same place as mine.  :D
  • flipfloppedflipflopped member
    edited October 2016


    Here ya go ladies. This is the one that I made a few years ago. Hopeful I can do just as good again!! Again....all cat stuff is new, never used and washed :)
  • @reneeannemm your weekend sounds so nice and relaxing, enjoy!
    @MooFish2364 have fun at the party, sounds awesome.
    @SoonToBeMommaHowe i <3 jodi picoult. I haven't read her in a while but I always love her books.
    @NewMommyCoop I hope you guys come up with something fun to do this weekend. The zombie run sounds cool!
    @szwill86 i love LBI and also super jealous of your philly pit stop. 
    @TScalei have fun at the drive in! I've never been to one, not sure if there are any near me.

    I don't have any major plans this weekend, I might go to the zoo on sunday if the weather holds up. I am CD 21 with what appears to be a delayed O. I started antibiotics yesterday for a UTI and am wondering if i should try to still BD or call it quits this cycle. what do you all do? dr google says to avoid sex while having a uti but dr google doesn't understand the desire to get pregnant right meow.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @flipflopped omg. That little turd hanging over the edge is really the icing on the cake  :D I don't know if I would eat it based on presentation alone, but A+ for creativity/realistic-ness!

    @brooklyngirl18 my dr always said abstain during a UTI/treatment. Did you ask when you called for meds?
  • @szwill86 I didn't ask but I told the nurse I was borderline wto/ttw and trying. I know it's recommended to stop but I also don't want to miss my window all together. I'm so frustrated. 
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @szwill86 trip sounds great! I only get to Philly for work or family in the burbs. eat a pretzel for me!
  • @brooklyngirl18 - Ive always been told to abstain from sex with a UTI....Im sorry ):
    @flipflopped - that is awesome. I want to try to make that sometime...too funny.
  • O.M.G. @flipflopped that is fantastic! Lol The turds crack me up!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @brooklyngirl18 ugh, sorry it's so frustrating timing-wise, especially with your later than usual O time. :(  
  • thanks for the replies ladies. If today is O day then I'll have -5, -3, and -2, not ideal but it's possible i suppose. 
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • szwill86szwill86 member
    edited October 2016
    @brooklyngirl18 I'm rooting for you- my only positive test was when my timing was -2 and -4 from O. Fx!

    edited bc I'm mobile bumping and forgot to @ you!
  • that gives me hope @szwill86 thank you! I'm rooting hard for you as well. 
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    edited October 2016
    @brooklyngirl18 -2 is still great timing. FF analyzed the data their members input, and found that pregnancy charts almost always had sex recorded on at least one day between -2 and O. You're not out yet! Sorry for the UTI and frustration though. It definitely sucks!

    @flipflopped that cake is disgustingly amazing  ;)

    @reneeannemm Mmmm.... Curry! Sounds like a good weekend to me.
  • You ladies have good plans for the weekend.  Not sure I could dig into the litter box cat! Lol.  I have two cats and I absolutely hate the litter box.  

    Just put my DS to bed for the night.  DH and I are supposed to get busy tonight! Tomorrow is errands and finish cleaning the house.  Sunday is swim lessons for DS then a birthday party for nephew and then I have to teach Jazzercise.  This is the first weekend I have been home this month so I have a lot to catch up on. 
  • @reneeannemm & @MooFish2364 I've already started my creepy movie marathon!  

    @NewMommyCoop  You should totally do the zombie course.  I have done one and it's definitely an experience. 

    @flipflopped That looks too real!  Good job, but gross!

    @TScalei Love Hocus Pocus, watch it every year!

    AFM-  Going to have some vegan Pho for lunch with my pregnant friend (ugh) and then going to see Girl on a Train and binge on popcorn.  My friend just had her first ob apt since she got pregnant and I am sure I am going to have to endure all the details. I am trying to be a good friend but it's so hard.  I swear though, if she complains about her normal pregnancy one time, I'm outta there, and I'm taking the popcorn with me. 
  • I hope you ladies have a great weekend. My weekend is going to filled with work and travel
  • @justsuzie  Love pho, not loving people complaining about their normal pregnancies.  Definitely take the popcorn!

    @flipflopped  Looks so real.  Not sure if I would dig in though.  I may if I saw others do it first.  

    @brooklyngirl18  You're not out yet.  Fx for you. This whole TTC process has taught me that there are no black/white rules to getting KUed.  

    No major plans this weekend.  Have been binge watching Teen Mom OG.  I watched it last week and it was pretty mindless.  I have watched so much TV this week.  DH is working til 2 am tonight.  We are going to go to the North End tomorrow in Boston which is like little Italy.  Hoping to get some nice pizza or pasta for lunch and then going to Mike's for chocolate covered, chocolate chip cannolis.  

    Sunday - DH is working from 8 am - 12 am.  A new Nordstrom Rack opened up near my house so I think I will check that out.  I have not been in the mood to shop since we found out that the pregnancy wasn't going to make it.  I usually love shopping and browsing even when I don't buy  

    The weather has been so cold and dreary in Boston.  So raw and cold.  

    Have a good weekend everyone !
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 Splurge. Get something for yourself.  (I have felt the same way about shopping bw.)
  • @justsuzie  I might.  I think I'm going to force myself to go.  It will be the first step even if I don't buy anything.
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Lots of good plans, it seems! And wow the kitty litter cake cracked me up lol!

    Afm, I have to do a big grocery shop tomorrow and I prepped some gluten free pizza crusts today so we can make our own pizzas tomorrow night :) Then on Sunday we're carving pumpkins and roasting seeds (haha of course I am, @reneeannemm ;) ) while watching Halloween movies :)

    I feel silly because we got costumes and only wore them once but I really don't feel like going to any parties this weekend (plus I'm already bummed I can't go trick or treating with my niece and nephew because my brother's being a jerk and my EDD is on Tuesday :( ). A nice quiet halloweekend sounds perfect ;)
  • @rainbowturtles sorry about the EDD. Hugs girl. 
    @NewMommyCoop my DH is the same way...."we'll see" and never commits, and I'm a total planner like you.
    @flipflopped that. is. awesome. (the cake)

    The last 2 weekends I worked in Tacoma, WA and today I found out I will be working in South Carolina (random!) next weekend. So this weekend I will try not to do much at all :). I'm roped into attending a pumpkin carving party but I'll probably drink wine and watch the artsy adults and kids do their thing. My candy's been in my closet since Monday out of sight...oooh the temptation...
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Thanks for all the love for the cake!! While I love out party I'm so jealous of those of you who are having more low key weekends. 
  • @justsuzie pho sounds delicious, as does the popcorn. Thinking of you and hoping time spent with your friend is bearable. 

    @sp128 Nordstrom Rack is best place to go for browsing. I always end up buying something even if I didn't go with that intention. Hope you make it there!

    @rainbowturtles pizza making sounds fun! Sorry about the upcoming EDD. Thinking of you  <3

    @amberruka WA to SC? That is random! Enjoy the wine while the artsy people do their thang at the pumpkin carving. And stay strong with the candy! Halloween is so close! I didn't open the new candy I bought so that way I won't browse. I think I can, I think I can...

  • @SP128 Did you go shopping?  I did, but only bought clothes for my dog!
  • @justsuzie  Not yet.  I am going to try to go this afternoon : )  I feel like there are a ton of chores to do before the workweek starts tomorrow.  

    Going to grab pho with a friend later tonight :smile:
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 I had the most delicious Pho yesterday with tofu spring rolls and peanut sauce.  I think I had a dream about how good it was last night.  I've made my DH do all the chores this weekend.  :)
  • @laeberge3 your pups are adorable!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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