How do you cope with the fear of trying again after a loss? I'm still experiencing my ectopic pregnancy (levels coming down as expected to 131), so maybe the loss is still too fresh, but I find myself terrified of trying again. What if something happens again what if there's something wrong with the next baby? Will I be too old next year to try again ? I have the perfect 19mo daughter (and that pregnancy went flawless minus gestational diabetes), so do I just stick with what I've been blessed with? The common sense side of me says another pregnancy could be normal like hers....but of course it's so easy to think the worst.