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TWW Monday 10/10

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GTKY: Is there something about the way your parents raised you that you want to do with your kids (or something you don't want to do like them)?
DH & I: 27
Dating: 11/14/2010
Married: 10/18/2014
TTC April 2016
BFP: 5/12/2016 ~ MC: 5/25/2016
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Re: TWW Monday 10/10

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  • Month/Cycle: 3/2

    CD/DPO: 30/9

    Timing: -2, -3

    Testing: Saturday

    R/R: I didn't post all weekend partly because I don't know where I go. I even ducked back to WTO on Friday. My chart is confusing, and I worry my thermal shift is too weak to be legit, but today's temp made me feel a little better. I got "high" readings from CBAD yesterday and today but I know high readings are estrogen related, and after doing some digging I found that estrogen levels can indeed rise during the LP and that is one of the reasons they tell you to stop testing after the peak reading. CM is not looking fertile so I'm going to keep monitoring that and take stick to wondfos if it seems to be transitioning to wet/EWCM. 

    CS/Q: Nah 

    GTKY: Is there something about the way your parents raised you that you want to do with your kids (or something you don't want to do like them)?

    I want them to see their extended family frequently, and come to value family gatherings, which is something that was a central focus in my childhood. I thought they were a bit unrealistic with their expectations of me when I was a teenager so I'm going to try to take a different approach with my own kids particularly when the topic of dating arises. 
    Me (28) & DH (35)
    Met 4/2010+Married 8/2014 
    TTC #1 August 2016BFP 10/2016= DD Born 6.23.17
    NTNP April 2018. BFP 5/2018 EDD 1.29.19 *Team Green*

  • Creepy internet hugs @BertieMeetsGertie I'm sorry for CD1!

    Me: 33 DH: 33

    Married: 6.9.12
    DS born: 4.9.14
    DD born 7.27.17

  • @BertieMeetsGertie Lots of Internet hugs. AF right on the heels of a rough day is total crud.
  • @BertieMeetsGertie sorry for the CD1
    @khrun17 fx so hard for you!
    *TW*
    TTC 1/2012
    Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
    6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
    TTC #3 5/2016
    Restarted Fertility tx
    IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17

  • @KhRun17 Sometimes it's nice to know that I'm not the only one dealing with all the BSC. Although I did find it was easier to resist once I got past a certain point. Either way, FX this is your cycle and GL holding out on testing!


    "It's time to try defying gravity."

    Me: 38  DH: 38
    Married 6/11/16
    TTC Since 6/2016
    12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
    3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
    8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
    7/2018 Clomid+IUI
    11/2018 Letrozole+TI
    12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
    2/2019 NTNP
    5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
  • @KhRun17 Ahh fx!! 

    Me: 33 DH: 33

    Married: 6.9.12
    DS born: 4.9.14
    DD born 7.27.17

  • vflux33vflux33 member
    edited October 2016

    Month/Cycle: 6/5

     

    CD/DPO: 20/5

     

    Timing: EOD

     

    Testing: nope

     

    R/R: Rant: Weird vivid dreams, which as I discovered last cycle is NOT a sign of being KU for me. Will probably start the real SS in 2-4 days... 

     

    CS/Q:

     

    GTKY: Is there something about the way your parents raised you that you want to do with your kids (or something you don't want to do like them)? This is a tough one for me. There's a lot my parents did right, especially concerning emphasis on education. One thing MH and I have related on a lot is that both our parents fed us a bunch of processed foods without a lot of nutrition. They also had really bad divorces. So we're going to not do both of those things!!

    @GeorgiaWife6912 I feel you. My mom had really bad depression when I was young too. It is tough on a kid to see that day after day. I'm with you on not showing that to my kids. 

    @wabash15 My mom read to me a lot too and I think it made a huge difference!

    Sorry to see you go @BertieMeetsGertie!

    @Aurora1973 I'm trying low carb too. It's tough, even when not on vacation! 

    Edited for grammar
  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 23/9

    Timing: -4 and O

    Testing: Wednesday 

    R/R: The weather is so nice today!  The sun is out too!  

    CS/Q:

    GTKY: Is there something about the way your parents raised you that you want to do with your kids (or something you don't want to do like them)?
    There were a lot of things that I liked about how my parents raised me.  Something that is important to me to teach it to honor their commitments.  If they say they are going to do something, they should see it through.
    Married 5/21/2011
    DD 1 10/2012
    CP 9/2013
    DD 2 6/2014
    CP 3/2016        
     BFP 12/8/2016        
    BabyFruit Ticker
        
  • @hupp0013 cycle buddy! If you're testing Wednesday, then I am testing Wednesday! Haha

    @vflux33 I'm sad to hear about the vivid dreams! I was getting all SS over here with mine  :smiley:

    Me: 28 | DH: 33
    EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks <3 


  • @haylsbayls Hey, maybe it IS for you --I just know it isn't for me. I spent a lot of time last cycle on the internet convincing myself it was a definite for real sign and then AF came right on schedule. 
  • **dirty lurker**

    @georgiawife6912 I also suffer from bad migraines and monthly headaches. Going along with @aurora1973 have you tried the ice pack thing? I usually put it at the base of my head where it meets my neck. Also putting something over your eyes to block out the light.

    also I love so many of the GTKY responses. :)


  • Month/Cycle: 4/4

    CD/DPO: 31/16

    Timing: ok 

    Testing: nope. Spotting, so just waiting for AF

    R/R: exam is over... didn't pass but going to be lazy all day and enjoy myself for the rest of the day and tomorrow! Back on the studying bandwagon in a couple of weeks.

    CS/Q: nope! Just want to get on to the next cycle already

    GTKY: Is there something about the way your parents raised you that you want to do with your kids (or something you don't want to do like them)? Same about the extended family visits. This will be more of a challenge for us since we live further away, but, that was a great part of my childhood. 

    I'll be back later, just going to take a nap first!!

  • Month/Cycle:   2/2

    CD/DPO: 26/0-1?

    Timing: good, I think. Had EWCM mid-late last week and two positive OPTs, one on Sat and one yesterday. BD every other day for the last two weeks since I wasn't sure when I would be ovulating. I think there's a chance I ovulated yesterday or today... I've had very dull, minor cramps in the last 24 hours.

    CS/Q: when do you know when you're done ovulating? I'm confused by the EWCM coming before the positive OPT -- just trying to time out BD to make it count! 

    GTKY: Is there something about the way your parents raised you that you want to do with your kids (or something you don't want to do like them)?  My parents were very pushy about manners. Besides please and thank you, they always made my siblings and I do things like greet/thank hosts at parties and bring something for the host, having nice table manners, and sending thank you cards in a timely manner. It never struck me as weird that they installed these polite behaviors in us until I grew up and met people who chew with their mouths open, think ghosting at parties is awesome, and dismiss the idea of thank yous.
    Me: 33 DH: 34
    Married: Oct 2015
    TTC #1: Sept 2016
    BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
    BFP: 3/24/17   <3  DD1 born 12/2/17
    TTC #2: July 2018
    BFP: 8/26/18 <3  DD2 born 5/16/19



  • Cycle 10
    CD/DPO - 29/13
    Timing -4-3,0
    Testing....trying hard to resist.  I was really busy this morning but now I'm close to convincing myself to test tonight... without FMU and with cramping I recognize this is a bad idea....

    @BertieMeetsGertie I feel like I'm right behind you.
  • wabash15 said:
    @peachy13 it is normal to get fertile CM (watery or EWCM) for several days prior to a +OPK, you can also get patches of these type of CM post O. I usually get EWCM for several days prior to a +OPK. Are you temping? Other than an ultrasound its the only way to confirm O. That being said if your seeing fertile CM its a good idea to HIO

    @rainbowturtles I am so sorry for the BFN after high temps and a BFP dream. Those dreams are such a mind F***. even though you know its a dream it leads to an irrational level of hope.  Having your EDD coming up is a rough milestone. **TW the anniversary of the EDD from my loss is still a hard day for me end TW***  Try to be good to yourself, and know that you have the right to feel all the feels. I'm sending you creepy internet hugs.
    Thanks! I'm not temping, but probably should be.
    Me: 33 DH: 34
    Married: Oct 2015
    TTC #1: Sept 2016
    BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
    BFP: 3/24/17   <3  DD1 born 12/2/17
    TTC #2: July 2018
    BFP: 8/26/18 <3  DD2 born 5/16/19



  • @JackieMarie1989 that's good to know about the LP length. I keep reading that it doesn't vary much from 1-2 days, but I guess that is for people NOT just coming off of BC. My last cycle was 45 days and if everything goes the way it should, this one will be 26-28 days. So maybe my body is trying to even itself out? lol

    @GeorgiaWife6912 I'm trying my best to hold out, but it's really hard! My CM has been dry, my CP has been low, and I just don't believe I'm KU. So, I think that's why the BSC has been held at bay thus far. 

    @BertieMeetsGertie sorry to see you go! :(

    @lulu1180 That makes me feel better! I hope it's not 16 days, but that would actually make me get AF right on time despite Oing 2 days early this cycle. Hmmm...could my body be that awesome? haha doubtful.

    @KhRun17 FX for you! And also, I agree...it was pretty awesome to have super supportive parents. 

    @rainbowturtles so sorry you're struggling today. *hugs*

    @wabash15 I think I'm starting to! I realized that I'm probably not some weird medical anomaly lol

    Me: 27   DH: 28
    Married: November 2015
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • (I'm lurking today, since I did a daily post in the IF thread already and one seems like enough for a day...)

    @rainbowturtles: Creepy Internet hugs to you.  There's never anything anyone can say on the days this process is hard, so I have no words that will help other than you're not alone.
  • Hey! Just wanted to say I'm heading over to WTO. Started spotting today, so today's wicked headache is sure to usher in AF tomorrow. Side note... Not sure if I should consider talking to my doc about why my cycles have ranged from 26 days to 37 and in between. Is this anything like normal for you non-PCOS ladies? I've been off BC for 10 months now and I remember it being unpredictable years ago before I was on it for 9 years.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @rainbowturtles I''m sorry you had such a rough morning.  :'( All the creepy internet hugs to you.  <3

    @NYTino24 I don't have a PCOS diagnosis, and at my pre-conception appointment last spring I asked my doctor about my wide range in cycles. Mine range from 28-45 days. She said that was still within the normal range, so you're probably also fine. I've noticed my longer cycles always occur when I'm under a lot of stress and have poor sleep. 
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