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****TGIF 10/7*******




We all deserve to treat ourselves for surviving another week!!

Hope all our Canadian ladies have some fun thanksgiving plans in store. 

Hope everyone else is doing something fun, relaxing, and maybe baby making 
BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16
BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.16
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
Beta #1 15   Beta #2 38    Beta #3- 71     beta #4 171   Beta # 5- 21  Natural MC 10/21
HSG- clear
IVF Jan 2017
Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
Baby BOY due 11.29.2017






Re: ****TGIF 10/7*******

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    chloe97chloe97 member
    edited October 2016
    The Cubs are in the playoffs this weekend!!! DH is out of town so I'm watching by myself tonight and with friends at a bar near wrigley tomorrow. Gonna do brunch with a friend tomorrow and get a massage tomorrow afternoon. 

    I'm also freaking out because I'm still having numbness and it's getting worse. I had an MS scare when I was 21 and have had multiple MRIs through my 20s that were clear- the consensus was complicated migraine and I've gotten headaches for the last 10 years that make me believe I have migraines. But today my right hand is feels weird and is having difficulty doing what it needs to do. I'm still functioning, but not well. MS flare ups are common 3-6 months after a pregnancy or when you are exposed a virus (my husbands flu), so the timing is suspect. I just want to get in to get an MRI so that I know I'm ok. I'm super frustrated. And with DH out of town, I'm just feeling more anxious about everything.
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    @chloe97 that sounds scary! So sorry your husband is out of town when this is happening. Hopefully you can get an MRI soon to ease your worries!!

    AFM- my DH is off all weekend so we're going to hang around and be lazy for as much time as we can. He only has weekends off every 8 wks due to his rotating schedule, so this time together on normal days off is long overdue!
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    @chloe97 Do you have an appointment scheduled? I hope it is just a pinched nerve or something.

    I have a follow up appointment from the MC this afternoon. Hopefully everything will be good. SD is in marching band so we have a high school football game tonight. SD has a marching band competition tomorrow, so she will be gone from 9am to 10pm. We will go watch once they start the competition. I have a pedicure tomorrow, yay. DH's parents are coming for dinner Sunday, so that will be nice. Monday is a holiday, so I have a three day weekend. SD is out of school as well, so I think we will make our wreath and decorate the outside entryway for Halloween. DH has to work Monday :(
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

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    Glad to hear @fivetimesnoluck. Stay safe out there!
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    Glad things went well and fingers crossed for you, @fivetimesnoluck! Drive safely back home. 
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    FX for you @fivetimesnoluck ! Be careful out there.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

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    @chloe97 - Im so sorry you are going through this..hopefully you get some answers soon.
    @fivetimesnoluck - seriously fx for you and stay safe!

    No super big plans this weekend. DH and I are going to go on a movie date and go and see the Girl on the Train. I read the book and am interested to see the movie.
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    @TScalei I went to the premier on Tuesday. It's good, but you may not want to see it if you are having a bad ttcal day
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.16
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
    Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
    Beta #1 15   Beta #2 38    Beta #3- 71     beta #4 171   Beta # 5- 21  Natural MC 10/21
    HSG- clear
    IVF Jan 2017
    Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
    PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
    FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
    Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
    Baby BOY due 11.29.2017






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    Thanks for the heads up @dungeontrollmel
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    Howdy Ladies... I've been MIA the last month because our life has felt like a shit show. We went to Hawaii a month ago and I got my period... on CD 19 and just 7 dpo so that sucked. Just had another period but my usual 26 day cycle.

    My FIL was admitted to hospital for a week right after we got back from complications from his cancer treatments - he got out and was back in last week. Now he's home and seems to be on the mend. Now just waiting for him to heal so he can hopefully have surgery to remove tumor.

    Then my new quarter started and its kicking my booty! I love teaching and its keeping me busy but with everything going on at home its been crazy.

    Anyway - thats my update...

    I'm on CD3 today so nothing much this weekend concerning TTC. We have a soccer game and bday party for older daughter tomorrow and are having dinner with friends and then a family bday party sunday (with inlays) that I am dreading bc I don't want people to ask about my sister and her new baby who was born a few days after my EDD. 

    @chloe97 - hope everything is ok. Could your anxiety be exacerbating your problems? Mine always does. 

    @NewMommyCoop - good luck at appt - hope it all goes ok.

    @fivetimesnoluck - glad the IUI went off without a hitch - stay safe out there.

    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
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    artemis618artemis618 member
    edited October 2016
    Yay for Friday!

    @chloe97  Scary when things don't work the way they should.  Hope you're able to get your MRI soon and that it's all clear.  I have a scrip for a cervical (spine) MRI myself (waiting for them to clear it with my insurance) but mine's for the more usual herniated disk/pinched nerve stuff.

    @ladipale  I hope your FIL feels better and is up for surgery soon.

    I thought this week would never end. We're not exactly ttc just yet (TW- just lost my first pregnancy this past Saturday at 11w5d), but are anxiously waiting till we can start ASAP (because we're old)!  I've been consolation eating all week - Monday I had a hot dog for lunch and yogurtland, Wednesday I had pizza with Pepperoni on it and the first beer I've had in two and a half months (after which I proceeded to pass out for five hours), yesterday I had deli meat and my second beer, today I had a sashimi lunch and more Yogurtland, and a few half caf cups of coffee throughout the week.  I will start eating normally (and more healthily) again after my b-day on Monday :p

    So I guess I'm just waiting at this point - I've never had any betas done ever and they didn't care to track me at the doctor's office - Dr. just said to wait until I bleed/have a period (which annoyingly only seemed like it was for dating purposes).  I'm really impatient though.  Took an OPK yesterday ('cause I have a ton of them) and it was negative (test line not as dark as control), and Wondfo HPT with FMU this morning and it was faint (as compared to pre-mc one, or even Sunday's), so I hope those mean things are moving in the right direction! (but fully recognize that they may be useless so soon after miscarriage)
    About me:
    Married 6/18/16 (Me 42, DH 44), TTC #2
    ***TW***
    Natural BFP 8/10/16 --> mc our NIPT-normal little girl at 11w5d on 10/1/16 :(
    As of 12/2016:  AMH 1.42, FSH 6.1, AFC ~10
    Self-benched Nov-Dec 2016 for
    IVF #1 Jan-Feb 2017 (OCP, testosterone primed antagonist w/HGH - ER 2/2/17 - 12R, 7M ICSI'd, 3F, 0B)
    IVF #2 Mar-Apr 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 4/8/17 - 10R, 8M, 8F, 5B, 1 PGS normal)
    IVF #3 May-Jun 2017 (testosterone primed agonist/luteal lupron w/HGH - ER 6/4/17 - 14R, 5F, 3B, 0 normal)
    **New RE**
    IVF #4 Sept 2017 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 9/28/17 - 33R, 18F, 10B, 4 PGS normals!)
    FET #1 (medicated) of one PGS normal 4AA XX 11/2/17 - Beta #1 11/11/17 (153), Beta #2 11/13/17 (324), mc at 5w1d on 11/19/17 :(
    IVF #5 Dec 2017 - Insemination of 9 frozen eggs from 2012 (8F, 1B, 0 normal)
    Jan 2018 - Natural cycle ERA (normal/receptive) & stimming for
    IVF #6 Jan-Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/3/18 - 17R, 6M, 4F, 0 blasts)
    IVF #7 Feb 2018 (natural start microdose lupron flare w/HGH - ER 2/26/18 - 19R, 9M, 9F, 4B, 2 PGS normals)
    FET #2 Apr 2018 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 4AA- XX 4/5/18 - Beta #1 4/14/18 (67), Beta #2 4/16/18 (231)
    Rainbow baby girl born 12/16/2018 (via c-section, induced at 39 weeks)

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    TFAS!
    FET #3 Dec 2019 (natural cycle w/o trigger, w/P4 support) of one PGS normal 3BB XY 12/16/19 - Beta #1 12/24/19 (139), Beta #2 12/27/19 (482)

    Lilypie Maternity tickers
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    @fivetimesnoluck Glad to hear the IUI went well! Stay safe!!

    I'm just happy to be home and not working. Longest week ever. Except it was only 4 days!
    Me: 28 DH: 26
    Married: November 2015  3 
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
    DD Born 06/23/17 3
    TFAS: April 2018
    BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
    BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19


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    @fivetimesnoluck FX that you braved a hurricane for the best possible reason!!

    @chloe97 I hope you start feeling better soon. I've had one migraine in my life and it was terrible. To have those consistently I just can't imagine!

    @artemis618 I'm a big supporter of consolation eating and drinking, hope you enjoyed every second of it!

    DH and I just switched positions driving so I can finally be on my phone in the passenger seat. We are taking the 5 hour trip north to my parents house so I can be in a craft fair with my mom and sister. Sunday will be a lazy day at their house watching football and then Monday we'll make the trek back. 

    Im currently cd13 so it's go time for us! DH has been a BD animal lately...5x in 7 days which is a lot for us since my libido took a hike post MC...I like that he's so into it but also worry that we'll have too much before FW and have no good swimmers left when it really matters. FX his boys are up for the job!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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    Exciting night at home alone with Chinese food and modem family 

    have another company coming tomorrow for a pool estimate and will spend the day trying to find a turkey somewhere other than whole foods where it's $6 a lb, planning the rest of Monday's meal and relaxing. 

    Im not in Canada but my husband is Canadian and I have Monday off so cooking is exciting me 
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.16
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
    Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
    Beta #1 15   Beta #2 38    Beta #3- 71     beta #4 171   Beta # 5- 21  Natural MC 10/21
    HSG- clear
    IVF Jan 2017
    Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
    PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
    FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
    Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
    Baby BOY due 11.29.2017






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    I'm sorry @ladipale - that's a lot all at once. Hope your FIL continues to get better and the family party goes okay. Nothing is worse than people continously bringing up the last thing you want to talk about. ):
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    @chloe97 I hope that you get to feeling better and some piece of mind by knowing what is going on.

    @fivetimesnoluck  I hope you continue to be safe. 

    I plan to spend the weekend practicing self care and taking naps. It has been a busy couple of weeks and I feel like I just need to rest :)
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    @TScalei - thanks! party was fine. I came late (went grocery shopping alone) and no one brought up my sister and her new baby. Everyone wanted to see me and DH's new tattoos instead :) 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
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