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Intro *TW* child and loss

Hi all.  I've been reading posts for awhile, but since DH and I have decided to start TTC #2, thought I should join in.  I'm 39 (40 in 2 months) and DH is 45.  I had my Mirena removed a month ago, so this will be the 1st cycle to start actively TTC.   I was 36 the last time we TTC, and got pregnant on 2nd cycle, but had a natural mc at 7 wks.  Was able to conceive DS 2nd cycle after mc shortly after I turned 37.  DS recently turned 2 and with my 40th approaching have decided that timing is right.  Hoping that TTC goes like the past, but we are both a few years older and due to pregnancy, breastfeeding and iud, I haven't had a cycle in 3 years, so I'm starting all over again.  Hope my stay is short, but will be glad to get to know everyone.  Best of luck to everyone.

Re: Intro *TW* child and loss

  • Welcome @wvrn1216.  We are glad you are here!  
  • MomifbyseaMomifbysea member
    edited October 2016
    Welcome @wvrn1216! I wish you the best! We are in very similar situations, 2-year old in the pic, bf, conceived on cycle 2 before but now a few years have passed so it's different now, etc., except you're a couple of years younger than I am, so take heart in that, lol! I haven't been on here too long but it's great to have the support of other AMAers.
    ME: 44 / DH: 46
    DD conceived naturally, born 1/9/14
    Consulted RE after trying for #2 for 1 year, 9/16
    RE diagnosis: DOR, poor egg quality
    1/2017: IUI #1, Femara, failed
    2/2017: IUI #2, Femara, failed
    3/13/17: started IVF + ICSI + PGS cycle #1, antagonist protocol (menopur/follistim/ovidrel)
    4/19/17: ER, no embryos survived past morula stage, poor egg quality given as reason
    5/3/17: started IVF + ICSI + PGS cycle #2, antagonist protocol (menopur/follistim/ovidrel)
    6/7/17: ER, 1 egg retrieved, mature but did not fertilize, poor egg quality given as reason
    7/21/17: started IVF + ICSI + PGS cycle #3, antagonist protocol (menopur/follistim/ovidrel)
    8/24/17: ER, 11 eggs retrieved, 10 mature, 7 fertilized, no embryos survived past morula stage, poor egg quality given as reason
    9/17: started IVF + ICSI + PGS cycle #4, antagonist protocol (menopur/follistim/ovidrel), started organic, non-processed, no white sugar/flour, diet with unscented/nontoxic personal care products 4 weeks before ER (books suggested it takes 2-3 months)
    10/11/17: ER, 5 eggs retrieved, 2 fertilized, 1 arrested at 3 cells and the other arrested at 5 cells, poor egg quality given as reason, doctor suggested it was time to move on to donor eggs but I asked to give it one last chance and kept on my diet/unprocessed/unscented/nontoxic products
    12/28/17: started IVF + ICSI + PGS cycle #5, microdose lupron protocol
    2/1/18: ER, 9 eggs retrieved, 6 mature and 6 fertilized, 3 survived to day 5 blastocyst, 2 PGS normal
    7/12/18: FET #1, negative
    9/21/18: FET #2 scheduled

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  • @laurad75 Thanks for the welcome.    @Momifbysea thanks for the reassurance.  It's nice to have the support and hear from people in similar a situation.
  • @wvrn1216  Welcome!  We are trying to conceive #2 as well.  I was 30 when I got pregnant with DD and I'm 36 now.  We just want 1 more baby to complete our family.  I hope your stay is short here :)
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  • Welcome and good luck
  • @vlagrl29, @Hopefulmommy1980. Thanks for the welcome and good luck to you too!
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