Last week, I headed up the a-hole version, so I feel like I need to give my husband the props he deserves this week.
All things considered, my husband is pretty awesome. He gives me a kiss every night before we go to bed and every morning before we part ways. It's such a simple thing, but it's been our routine for years, and so comforting. Love him for that.
I recently sent H this article: https://www.marieclaire.com/culture/a22189/i-regret-having-kids/ which is a very sad but good read about women who regret having children. I sent it to him to basically say that while I in no way regret DS and am excited for baby 2, I think the article brings up a lot of good points about how much changes for women in particular when they become mothers. We're having the discussion about me being a stay at home mom after this baby arrives and H and I both know it is going to be a hard transition for me since so much of my identity is tied to my professional life. After reading it he made a point last night, without bringing up the article, to thank me for everything I do and talk to DS in front of me about how much mommy does and how we should be so thankful for her. I definitely didn't send him the article to be AWish or ask for praise, but I appreciated him taking the time to appreciate me in a subtle way.
I like this so much better than the one last week. I would never call my husband any kind of mean name, but this I can do. My husband puts me first and that's why I love him. He spent his birthday visiting my relatives out of state last weekend. He is so thoughtful and sweet. He's not great with words, but he's amazing at showing how he loves me with actions. He'll stroke my arm or leg when we watch tv. He never lets us separate without kissing bye. I never worry how he feels about me. For the entire 8+ years we have been together, he's been great about making me feel important.
ETA: We were snuggling up watching TV, and he told me that if I died (this was relevant to what we were watching), he wouldn't remarry. I told him I'd want him to remarrying and be happy. He said, "I don't think I'd want to. You can't beat perfection."
When I told DH about baby he immediately went out and bought baby book(s) to prepare and see what my body is up to each week. He is already kissing my belly and refused to let me clean almost anything at first! (Literally argued with me about cleaning a toilet lol) Now I can clean..but he still handles the cat litter and chemical stuff. He surprised me with a bath when I wasn't feeling well, brought fizzy water to my work when I was nauseous, and ran out to get acetaminophen when I caught a cold and had a very slight fever. He is so excited and wants to tell everyone in the world right now, but we're waiting until the first u/s. He's already told his bosses so he can come with me to it and future appointments. I am beyond lucky to have such an amazing husband who I can already see being a wonderful and loving father
I came down with a fever yesterday, and DH has taken over all DD care (including taking her to her music lesson tonight), driven all around time to pick up my favorite takeout to tempt me to eat, and generally been amazing. I'm the worst when I'm sick ("man cold" has nothing on me), so I'm feeling really loved right now.
Married 10 years. 1 DD (5 y/o). Thrilled to be pregnant with LO#2 after almost 3 years of trying: due May 2017
Dh is honestly the best guy I know. He drives me crazy at times, but I am so lucky to have him. He gets DD ready for bed every night, wakes up with her, and just all around the best dad. Plus he is a saint for putting up with me. I am probably the most needy person out there and he just takes it in stride.
Awwww I love all the stories about how wonderful everyones SO's can be! I'd hate to think the majority of you ladies were unhappy with your relationships My SO is amazing. When he found out about baby he hugged me and didn't wanna let me go he's been such a rock for me as he has children from a previous marriage and this is my first. I have been relying heavily on him lately as the morning sickness is getting very aggressive. Past couple nights I've felt terrible and SO stays up with me cuddling and comforting me. He doesn't hesitate to cook for me or bring home goodies from the store and he's always thinking about me and baby. I feel so ridiculously safe with SO, he calms my nerves and makes me feel better about being a new mommy
DH is super sick right now with a cold but he is still managing to step up and rally to help when I also feel like hell and the kids are out of control. Tonight the kids were both awful, but DH just handled things (well, we did together, but it was still impressive given his body's state.)
One little example of him thinking of me while in the middle of kid/stress time -- DS had been holding in poop for a few days and had some minor poop accidents this evening. I was going to give both kids a bath but noticed DS's problem and made him sit on the potty. But he was sitting wrong, trying to get up, etc. So I called DH up, who had been working on cleaning up dinner downstairs (which he did 100% of, even with my calls for help, oh and he also made dinner). I told DH he could take over DD's bath and I'd be on poop duty. Well, the smell got to me. DH was like, "I have something for you." Two seconds later he was back with ginger tea for me. He had already brewed before the poop thing happened. Tea emerged for me multiple times all evening. Given he was the sick one, this was really thoughtful. He's always looking out for me.
I was grocery shopping the other day and found a really cute $1 onesie that said "I'm awesome, just like my Dad" and I bought it. H has been really busy lately with work and also building the basement for our house. With a baby on the way I know he's feeling pressure to get the house stuff done as soon as possible before the cold weather hits. When I showed him the onesie I told him that I loved him and that this baby will be awesome because s/he will have an awesome Dad to look up to. H started tearing up. Best husband ever
I would really love to know what thoughts go through guys' minds when their SO is expecting. For as much as us women worry, plan, and get excited about baby things, our SOs are probably constantly thinking of baby things too, but from a different perspective. H will randomly makes comments about baby things and it makes me so happy to hear his thoughts. I'm beyond thankfull for everything H has done for me and for the awesome guy he is.
Mine has just been incredibly easy going with my brattiness lately. There's no other way to put it--I've been a bit of a brat! Like yesterday, a friend accidentally sent an eggplant emoji to me, which made me think of eggplant parmesan, which made me NEED Olive Garden breadsticks, and hubby didn't even think twice. Just got ready and drove me to Olive Garden. Lol
My hubby works long hours and is helpful as can be with our 2yr old. Just this morning, he went into work for a couple of hours, came home and took the kiddo to Menards and McDonald's, just to let me sleep! (6weeks along and I'm miserable all day long!)
I don't give my husband enough props and this reminds me of how amazing he is! He is so hands on with the kids and it's so helpful. I also work nightshift 3 nights per week and if it's a weekend and the kids aren't in school/daycare he is awesome about letting me sleep and entertaining the kids! He would literally do anything for me.
Mine has just been incredibly easy going with my brattiness lately. There's no other way to put it--I've been a bit of a brat! Like yesterday, a friend accidentally sent an eggplant emoji to me, which made me think of eggplant parmesan, which made me NEED Olive Garden breadsticks, and hubby didn't even think twice. Just got ready and drove me to Olive Garden. Lol
I'm a bit late to the party here but props to my DH today! I somehow contracted the cold from hell! I'm talking sore throat, bodyaches, headache, runny nose, the works. I'm feeling awful. He has waited on me hand and foot all day today including bringing me water to our bedroom, cleaning the kitchen and just generally being awesome. Plus he had a bit of a late night last night and I suspect he's a bit hungover on top of it. He'll be such a great dad.
I've had a horrible sinus tension headache for the past few days. Today he totally handled the boys while I slept for 2 hours. When I got up he took them outside to play so I could watch some Netflix while laying down on the couch. He's such a great dad and husband.
yesterday my DH gave me box and said 'happy anniversary' I've been so nauseated and exhausted I completely forgot it was one of our anniversaries (we have three, because we're special snowflakes). Anyway, it was a bottle of wine from Santorini (the island where we got married) made in the year we got together. Who is this romantic fellow? He can be pretty alright sometimes. Also has been getting up with DS so I can stay in bed 20 mins longer in the morning.
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Re: Why My SO is Awesome 9/30
All things considered, my husband is pretty awesome. He gives me a kiss every night before we go to bed and every morning before we part ways. It's such a simple thing, but it's been our routine for years, and so comforting. Love him for that.
ETA: We were snuggling up watching TV, and he told me that if I died (this was relevant to what we were watching), he wouldn't remarry. I told him I'd want him to remarrying and be happy. He said, "I don't think I'd want to. You can't beat perfection."
My SO is amazing. When he found out about baby he hugged me and didn't wanna let me go
I feel so ridiculously safe with SO, he calms my nerves and makes me feel better about being a new mommy
One little example of him thinking of me while in the middle of kid/stress time -- DS had been holding in poop for a few days and had some minor poop accidents this evening. I was going to give both kids a bath but noticed DS's problem and made him sit on the potty. But he was sitting wrong, trying to get up, etc. So I called DH up, who had been working on cleaning up dinner downstairs (which he did 100% of, even with my calls for help, oh and he also made dinner). I told DH he could take over DD's bath and I'd be on poop duty. Well, the smell got to me. DH was like, "I have something for you." Two seconds later he was back with ginger tea for me. He had already brewed before the poop thing happened. Tea emerged for me multiple times all evening. Given he was the sick one, this was really thoughtful. He's always looking out for me.
I would really love to know what thoughts go through guys' minds when their SO is expecting. For as much as us women worry, plan, and get excited about baby things, our SOs are probably constantly thinking of baby things too, but from a different perspective. H will randomly makes comments about baby things and it makes me so happy to hear his thoughts. I'm beyond thankfull for everything H has done for me and for the awesome guy he is.
11.2011 - DS1
02.2013 - loss at 6 wks
06.2014 - DS2
10.2015 - loss at 12 wks
03.2017 - DD