There are lots of practical things I would probably do first, but in the realm of unnecessary, I'd probably actually fund a second master's degree for myself. Or pursue my doctorate, but ugh. I'm not sure I could handle that much. (This would be unnecessary particularly because I would be doing it in creative writing or something I probably wouldn't use.)
First, the boring and obvious one...I would pay off everything we already owe. Then, I would say a house...and give our current house to my parents so they could come and stay in Austin for extended periods of time.
Aside from our debt, obv, I would buy a new car for sure! I hate our current car situation and we are both in need of new vehicles. A new house would be secondary- I would prefer to be in a different area it we couldn't afford it when we decided to buy a home
Me: 37, DH: 35 :: TCC since 2/11 SA: Perfect! CD3 HSG = Blocked Right Tube
April- Femara 2.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN May- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176 c/p @ 4w4d FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
FET #2 Cancelled, Right Tube Developed a Hydro 8/28 Hydro & Scar Tissue Removed Cleared for FET FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th 2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th 2015- 2 failed FET. We are done SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16 EDD 4/1/17
Like most of you, I would get rid of all our other debt first, purchase a bigger vehicle that we are going to desperately need soon and then like @twistsandturnsto2 I would purchase a house in the area we love but can't afford at this time.
I'm with everyone else on paying off debt... but the first frivolous thing would be a vacation to Bora Bora to stay in the over water bungalows for at least a week!
1. Pay off all debt 2. Pay off all family debt (this is my one and only gift to them. Don't come asking for more money! ) 3. Buy land (at least an acre) and custom build a house, renting out our current home. 4. Upgrade our vehicles (I will already be upgrading sometime between Xmas and April, but DH might as well get a new car too). 5. Take two family vacations (All out trip to Disneyland and Barcelona/Europe)
A house. We rent, and with the new baby it is going to be too small. Plus we live on a court with basically all my in-laws. It's our house, a house, my SIL, a house, my M&FIL. I gotta get out of here!
After paying off the debt we have left and our current house, I'd buy a bunch of land and build an animal rescue/sanctuary. I'd put money aside for my kids & nieces/nephews to go to college and maybe a nice vacation somewhere in there, too! For myself, I'd get a nice makeover. Momma is lookin pretty run down these days. Haha!
I'll pay off my house and all debt first (& to keep the stream of income, rent my house on the cheap to my sister.) Then buy a place on Grand Cayman and when I'm bored, I'll work at Rum Point braiding people's hair while my husband makes cocktails in coconuts or takes people on fishing charters. With the extra money from the lottery (because I win the hypothetical jackpot), I'll fly family and friends in every once in a while to stay and visit.
TTC Numero uno since 01/13 Me 31, DH 32, Married 08/08 02/13/15-HSG-All Clear
07/25/15-50mg Clomid CD3-7+IUI #1 cd14-3 Follicles; SA 21Mill- BFN
08/19/15-25mg Clomid CD3-7+IUI #2 cd15-just ovulated, SA 42Mill- BFN
09/10/15-25mg Clomid CD3-7+IUI #3 cd14-2 Follicles; SA 45Mill- BFN
pay off debt, then remodel our bathroom! I'm tired of using our tub as a laundry hamper! We don't use our tub at all, and I'd love a huge tile, double headed, no glass shower!
Pay off everything- bigger (but not huge) house on a large lot of land- new cars - money aside for kids college- then if there was something left animal rescue.
My first instinct is to buy a house, either a city acreage in a newer development or a heritage house closer to the core. Followed by a very relaxing vacation somewhere. But, then I think (depending on what I won) that it would be better to invest well and then live off the interest.
From a practical perspective, I'm with everyone else... pay off loans first. I don't want a new house but there are a lot of things I would fix about our current house. Then a new car.
I'm assuming we're talking about an enormous sum, right? So after all debts are paid and I buy my houses in San Diego and Lima, Peru, I'm sending big ass checks to the ASPCA and Planned Parenthood. Like, lunch and drinks with Cecile Richards big. My Mom died of cervical cancer when she was 35, so whatever I can do to help immigrant, poor, and women of color get their pap.
Get out of my mom's basement faster! My poor husband works around the clock starting his business and I would so love for him to be able to relax some!
We are in the super practical category, too. After paying off DH's student loans, our house and ensuring we've saved enough for college, weddings and graduate school for the little ones, then we'd start having fun. Maybe a beach house off Highway 30A in FL?
Payoff our debts, donate, save for college/retirement, invest a good chunk of it and live off the earnings in hopes of being able to volunteer more. I would love to be able to do more charity work without having to keep a paycheck coming in.
After pay off student loans (blah), and buying a bigger house in a an area we cant afford right now, I would then take my 3 BFF's to a spa weekend somewhere luxurious.
Finish fixing up our home and yard, set aside money for nursing school, set money aside for DD and baby's university etc, figure something out in the way of helping DH's mom financially a bit and then probably a nice vacation (I'm thinking Fiji) and new more practical family vehicles!
My state (TN) might be showing here but we would buy land. One of our goals is to own a chunk of land where we could build a family retreat. We wouldn't go there in lieu of vacations, just a place to go as a family.
Buy homes in PR for us, and in laws. I love it there. Maybe get some land with it and grow all the mangos and bananas we can eat. Buy a home for my mom by the shore (Jersey) to be near her friends. Maybe with a guest house so we can visit.
Re: GTKY 9/27
(This would be unnecessary particularly because I would be doing it in creative writing or something I probably wouldn't use.)
June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes
September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176 c/p @ 4w4d
FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN
IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th
2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th
2015- 2 failed FET. We are done
SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16 EDD 4/1/17
Like most of you, I would get rid of all our other debt first, purchase a bigger vehicle that we are going to desperately need soon and then like @twistsandturnsto2 I would purchase a house in the area we love but can't afford at this time.
2. Pay off all family debt (this is my one and only gift to them. Don't come asking for more money! )
3. Buy land (at least an acre) and custom build a house, renting out our current home.
4. Upgrade our vehicles (I will already be upgrading sometime between Xmas and April, but DH might as well get a new car too).
5. Take two family vacations (All out trip to Disneyland and Barcelona/Europe)
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
I would buy a new house. Ours is great and I love it, but it's not my dream house.
TTC for the second time
7 IUIs, 1 cancelled due to too many follicles, 6 BFNs.
IVF #1 & 2 Failed
2 blasts transferred 7/17
Beta #2 7/28 271
9/29 - MMC
12/21 - Baby Boy born
12/10 - FET transfered 1 3BB blast
Beta #1 12/19 - 88
Beta #2 12/21 - 230
Beta #3 12/18 - 3066
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
Me 31, DH 32, Married 08/08
02/13/15-HSG-All Clear
ER 02/05-20 Retrieved - 11 Matured, 9 Fertilized, ET 2/10 (1 Transferred, 4 Frz) - BFP 2/19, M/C-3/5-Trisomy 16
ER 07/14-14 Retrieved,11 Matured, 10 Fertilized, ET 07/19 (2 Transferred, 6 Frz), BFP 7/28, 8/16 U/S-TWINS!
Due Date - April 6, 2017 UPDATED March 23, 2017!
I would pay off student loans and then move to Europe for a year or two just to live and travel.
DD1 born 5/24/10.
Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.
DD2 born 5/14/13.
Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.
Baby Boy due 04/07/17
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
DD Born 5.9.12
MC March 2016@8.5w
Expecting #2 4/30/17
DS--N14
Baby #2 EDD--4/16/17
Buy a home for my mom by the shore (Jersey) to be near her friends. Maybe with a guest house so we can visit.