It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
I am not liking this new iPhone update! Taking away my swiping and fingerprint privileges is making me mad, especially when I'm temping at 5 am and don't want to open my eyes to press a button to turn off the alarm or open up my FF app! I swear, it went to snooze a million times, so my 5:00, 6:00, 6:15, 6:30, 6:45, and 7:00 alarms also went off in between those times. It also took like 10 minutes for the first one to stop ringing while I was trying to temp and go through all of the dumb set up questions. I am NOT liking the first day of fall!!!
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@NYTino24 I thought it was just me! I'm not liking the new alarm stuff at all. it's driving me bsc. I think if you dig deep enough in the settings you can turn the swipe back on! I saw it in one of those "10 things you didn't know about the new iphone" articles.
I actually like the new iPhone update. The fingerprint thing still works for me. Also, you can send messages with confetti and in invisible ink and stuff.
The bedtime thing is a little super annoying though so I don't use that.
I kept a broken phone for 3 months waiting to get the iPhone 7 and it doesn't even have a headphone jack!!! Oh the frustration of not being able to charge and listen to music at the same time!!!
@NYTino24@GeorgiaWife6912 I thought I was just being silly about my
irritation when attempting to turn the alarm off! Thanks for making me feel
better about my exasperation!!
@Mrs_Jp I may have lied. It looks like there is no way to bring it back. Just to turn off the raise to wake. I must have read wrong or read a bad article
My biggest pet peeve is when people say, I could care less. The term is I couldn't careless. Because if you could care less, you would care less. But if you couldn't care less, then you can't care any less than you already do......#grammar snob.
My biggest pet peeve is when people say, I could care less. The term is I couldn't careless. Because if you could care less, you would care less. But if you couldn't care less, then you can't care any less than you already do......#grammar snob.
My biggest pet peeve is when people say, I could care less. The term is I couldn't careless. Because if you could care less, you would care less. But if you couldn't care less, then you can't care any less than you already do......#grammar snob.
@linzrunz It's in the alarm thing with the stop watch and whatever. It's called bedtime. It lets you set a bedtime alarm that tells you when you should be going to bed based on when you have to wake up and how much sleep you need, and then it keeps track of your sleep based on the movement of your phone. I don't like the bedtime alarm thing because I'm scared it's going to go off after I'm already asleep lol
@Pinky917 DH has expressed his strong dislike for that word as well, he says it's a spaghetti sauce!! I'm not sure when he'll do when I get KU and my dad uses that term, as he has with all of my siblings.
edited to add more
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@hartmich being basic is the best. I love fall for wearing vests, big scarves, apple picking in a flannel shirt with riding boots, pumpkin picking and all things BWG
LOL ugh that's probably gigantic and I don't know how to change it so I'll remove it if it pisses anyone off lol What about preggers, is that better? I don't really like the term "knocked up" but I've found myself using it a couple times irl because of these boards lol
My biggest pet peeve is when people say, I could care less. The term is I couldn't careless. Because if you could care less, you would care less. But if you couldn't care less, then you can't care any less than you already do......#grammar snob.
@lulu1180 The term "designated preggo" has been thrown around in our group of friends multiple times, and I already warned DH that I will throat punch anyone who uses it towards me.
My UO... I hate the word Hubby. It makes me cringe. Completely irrational & I don't mind when my friends use it, but I wouldn't be caught dead saying it. I HATE THOSE "COUPLE" SHIRTS MORE THOUGH. I just got so enraged thinking of them...
@hartmich yesssss, I could not agree more. I am so delightfully basic and I love it. I guess my UO is that I really hate gender reveal parties. Even before we were TTC, I never understood them. A baby is a baby. I mean, yeah its cool knowing what your kid's gender is before its born, but is it REALLY that big of a deal? Do your child's genitals really need a REVEAL?
@MommytoM13 To kind of go along with your UO, I don't understand when a couple shares a FB page. Like, do you distrust your SO so much that you don't want them to have their own, private FB account....if that's the case then perhaps you just shouldn't be married to them.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@hartmich yesssss, I could not agree more. I am so delightfully basic and I love it. I guess my UO is that I really hate gender reveal parties. Even before we were TTC, I never understood them. A baby is a baby. I mean, yeah its cool knowing what your kid's gender is before its born, but is it REALLY that big of a deal? Do your child's genitals really need a REVEAL?
This. All of this. Especially if the parents-to-be already know the sex. I guess the ones where the mom and dad don't know and are finding out with everyone else can be kind of okay, but if the mom and dad already know and just want to have an extra party? No.
Edited to add that I normally don't feel quite so strongly about such things. Sorry!
Me: 26, H: 28
Married since 2012
TTC #1 since July 2015 **TW**
Laparoscopy and Endometriosis dx February 2016
HSG and SA all clear! September 2016 Testing with RE October 2016 BFP 11/5/2016 ~ EDD 7/19/2016
@lulu1180 you hit the nail on the head. It's so odd. I also find the "nickname" Facebook names weird too. I swear I have a mutual friend on Facebook named "Shantel IDontWantNoSCrubs Johnson"............. (changed the last name for privacy reasons)
@MommytoM13 Yes!!!! It's like, do you introduce yourself to new people that way? No, I didn't think so. Then change your damn name back.
I had a friend that didn't like her relatives on her FB going back to her parents with some of the stuff she would post and created a fake account under a name that wasn't even close to her real name and was using that instead to hide from these people. I basically told her that I thought it was stupid and immature and she was so upset that she then ignored me (while at my apartment and then for about a week or two afterwards) and tried to pretend nothing happened. Obviously we're not really friends any more. I just don't get people
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@lulu1180 you hit the nail on the head. It's so odd. I also find the "nickname" Facebook names weird too. I swear I have a mutual friend on Facebook named "Shantel IDontWantNoSCrubs Johnson"............. (changed the last name for privacy reasons)
LOL My UO: I think that particular name is hilarious and I support that.
@shstephenson Yes!! I hate those gender reveal parties. I also told OH I refuse to do any kind of FB announcement if I'm lucky enough to get KU, which made him giddy because he refuses to do FB at all. I will tell the people in my life that I see and talk to regularly, but I just can't bring myself to make a big deal out of telling social media about our reproduction.
I'm on the fence about doing a FB birth announcement. I do like seeing those, but I also don't really like posting things about kids. I feel like my kid won't have any say about how much I put on the internet about them, and I just don't feel right about it. Funny enough, I don't judge others for it, unless they are posting every little detail daily...
Me: 45 OH: 42 Beloved SS: born 12/2011 TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016 **TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW** August 2016 - dx with DOR Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T May 2017 - began freezing sperm June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
I believe a recent BMB thread floated the idea of calling them "genital reveal parties" because that's what they are. Gender =/= sex/genitals. And when you call it a genital reveal party it sounds inappropriate, so maybe people will stop having them.
I also hate preggo, and hubby, and BD. And AF, even though I use it just because period takes longer to type. I don't know why when TTC we go from adult women trying to become mothers to infants who can't curse or use real words.
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
@hartmich@kiwi2628@shstephenson My OH tells me that I was basic before basic was a thing. I love everything about being "basic." So I share your UO haha.
@shstephenson OMG yes on the gender reveal parties! I've only been to one: 1) The parents already knew the gender (mom baked the reveal cake) 2) They didn't tell us that they were doing this, they just invited us over for a BBQ that was **surprise** a Gender Reveal. 3) Since everyone thought they were coming to a BBQ they thought it was like an open house,so you could come and go as you pleased. Those of us who got there early felt like we couldn't leave until after the big reveal, which didn't happen until after the last people showed up.
Even DH (who looks for the good in literally everyone) felt really taken for granted by these friends. Also, congrats... this news has zero effect on my life.
Sorry... that was a lot of snark for one post. Here's a kitten.
My UO is I hate summer. I am literally the worst person in the world during the summer months, but once fall hits I am so giddy, happy, and probably slightly annoying. DH loves summer, so the transition period between the seasons make for some interesting days
Me: 33 DH: 36 Together since 2007 Happily Ever After 4.30.2015 ~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017 Trying for #2!!
I love reading these but not quite snarky enough to ever come up with anything original but today...I hate sonogram photos on FB. They look creepy and its not cute or beautiful to anyone but the parents so why is it in my newsfeed? Ew!
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
Re: UO Thursday
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
edit: grammar is hard.
Me: 33 DH: 33
Married: 6.9.12
DS born: 4.9.14
DD born 7.27.17
The bedtime thing is a little super annoying though so I don't use that.
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
I just hate iPhones....
and couldn't care less about Brad and Angelina.
*edit grammatical error
*Edited to correct my grammar
TTC again since 8/2016
Me:35 Dh:31
1 German sheperd puppy
BFP August 24 2018!
@NYTino24@GeorgiaWife6912 I thought I was just being silly about my irritation when attempting to turn the alarm off! Thanks for making me feel better about my exasperation!!
@GeorgiaWife6912 I’m going to have to search for that option!
@BoshnJonnie I totally agree! There are so many other things I’d rather spend my time on.
Me: 33 DH: 33
Married: 6.9.12
DS born: 4.9.14
DD born 7.27.17
https://blog.dictionary.com/could-care-less/
Huh. No one has ever pointed this out to me.
Edit: tag because I wasn't so excited I posted too fast.
Married 07.21.07
DS#1 01.23.09
DS#2 08.01.11
TTC#3 08.31.15
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
Left tube removed
dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
BC: February-October 2019
TTA: November-December 2019
NTNP: January 2020!
Married 07.21.07
DS#1 01.23.09
DS#2 08.01.11
TTC#3 08.31.15
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
Left tube removed
dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
BC: February-October 2019
TTA: November-December 2019
NTNP: January 2020!
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
@mrsdaddario You may be my new favorite person...
My UO is that I absolutely despise the term "preggo", and I tend to judge anyone who uses it.
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
edited to add more
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
LOL ugh that's probably gigantic and I don't know how to change it so I'll remove it if it pisses anyone off lol
What about preggers, is that better? I don't really like the term "knocked up" but I've found myself using it a couple times irl because of these boards lol
Married 9/2015
TTC #1 6/2016
Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
Baby Girl H - July 22 2018
I HATE THOSE "COUPLE" SHIRTS MORE THOUGH. I just got so enraged thinking of them...
I guess my UO is that I really hate gender reveal parties. Even before we were TTC, I never understood them. A baby is a baby. I mean, yeah its cool knowing what your kid's gender is before its born, but is it REALLY that big of a deal? Do your child's genitals really need a REVEAL?
Married: October 2014
TTC#1:May 2016
BFP: 11/16/16 EDD: 7/30/17
4 fur babies
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Married: October 2014
TTC#1:May 2016
BFP: 11/16/16 EDD: 7/30/17
4 fur babies
Edited to add that I normally don't feel quite so strongly about such things. Sorry!
**TW**
Testing with RE October 2016
BFP 11/5/2016 ~ EDD 7/19/2016
I had a friend that didn't like her relatives on her FB going back to her parents with some of the stuff she would post and created a fake account under a name that wasn't even close to her real name and was using that instead to hide from these people. I basically told her that I thought it was stupid and immature and she was so upset that she then ignored me (while at my apartment and then for about a week or two afterwards) and tried to pretend nothing happened. Obviously we're not really friends any more. I just don't get people
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
I'm on the fence about doing a FB birth announcement. I do like seeing those, but I also don't really like posting things about kids. I feel like my kid won't have any say about how much I put on the internet about them, and I just don't feel right about it. Funny enough, I don't judge others for it, unless they are posting every little detail daily...
Beloved SS: born 12/2011
TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016
**TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW**
August 2016 - dx with DOR
Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T
May 2017 - began freezing sperm
June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T
July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba
July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
I also hate preggo, and hubby, and BD. And AF, even though I use it just because period takes longer to type. I don't know why when TTC we go from adult women trying to become mothers to infants who can't curse or use real words.
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
Me: 33 DH: 33
Married: 6.9.12
DS born: 4.9.14
DD born 7.27.17
1) The parents already knew the gender (mom baked the reveal cake)
2) They didn't tell us that they were doing this, they just invited us over for a BBQ that was **surprise** a Gender Reveal.
3) Since everyone thought they were coming to a BBQ they thought it was like an open house,so you could come and go as you pleased. Those of us who got there early felt like we couldn't leave until after the big reveal, which didn't happen until after the last people showed up.
Even DH (who looks for the good in literally everyone) felt really taken for granted by these friends. Also, congrats... this news has zero effect on my life.
Sorry... that was a lot of snark for one post. Here's a kitten.
My UO is I hate summer. I am literally the worst person in the world during the summer months, but once fall hits I am so giddy, happy, and probably slightly annoying. DH loves summer, so the transition period between the seasons make for some interesting days
DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
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DH: 36
Together since 2007
Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born: 11.6.2017
Trying for #2!!
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Me: 34 / DH: 33
Married: Nov 2011
TTC #1: Jan 2013, BFP Sept 2013, DD: June 2014
TTC #2: Aug 2016, BFP Nov 2016, DS: August 2017