Hope this his links to what I want it to! Ashley Williams is an actress, I know her best as Victoria from How I Met Your Mother. She had a miscarriage and wrote this because she doesn't understand why most of us don't talk about it openly.
I loved what she says. I'm curious how y'all feel about her post and about how you handle this in your life.
I've never posted on social media about our losses but all of our close friends and immediate family know and most of my, and all of my husband's coworkers know. I try not to hide it but sometimes I do wish I could be more outspoken about IF and Loss. I definitely struggle with the defective, broken, incomplete labels and I'm sure that plays a part in not being more public with my struggle.
Me: 39, DH: 34
Married 5/2009; TTC #1 since 2013
MC: March 2013 (7w)
MC: August 2013 (7w2d)
MC: April 2014 (9w)
MC: January 2015 (4w4d, CP)
MC: November 2015 (7w3d)
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
Dx: DOR, Low AMH, Mild MFI, Secondary IF
2016: medicated TI cycles ---> medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer planned for April MAY 1, 2017
Transferred 2 beautiful blasts, hoping for the best!
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!