Back to Work

Plumeria1214

Hi Mommas,

Tomorrow I return to work full time after being fortunate enough to be home with my little girl for a year. I've been preparing myself but it's really hit me hard the last two days and I've been crying a lot. Before bed, in bed, while I'm playing with LO. We've never been apart long, and I'm going to miss her like crazy. I was always a very work driven person and she's totally changed me, for the better. I'm so overwhelmed everyday by how much love I have for her. Im just venting to you who I know understand. 

I can't believe how time flies... As cliche as it sounds. Ladies, thank you for all your support and advice and humor throughout the 9 months and now a year later! Xoxo 

momofsweetps

Aw I hope it goes well! I had to go back to work at 4 weeks with my first and it was so hard. I cried everyday before and after work for 3 months.

booksandcleverness81

I'm right there with you mama. Going back to work next week after having my first. I know it will be good for both of us in some ways, but I can't imagine him spending the day without me (and the other way around, of course). But what if he gets scared or can't go to sleep without our cuddle time or they don't pay enough attention to him??? I will probably go crazy worrying and I'll pick him up and he won't even notice I'm there. I'm sure it will be fine, but there WILL be tears! 

chaser61

Mothers would tell me that it gets easier. I don't know about that but it will become part of your everyday routine. There were adjustment periods but when you pick them up at he end of the day and they come crawling like mad to you with a big smile, everything is ok again. Also, what helped me is that I have some friends who work in daycares and they said that it is crazy how attached they become to other people's children. So just think that even though you don't know the staff, they bond with your babe and really care about how they are doing. From my experience, the staff really learns your LOs wants / needs - when they are hungry, how they like to be put down for a nap, when they are not feeling well, etc. Just give it time.Good luck!

Plumeria1214

@momofsweetps That must have been so tough!!! I have a feeling I'll be doing the same! Did it get easier after that time? 

@booksandcleverness81  You wrote my thoughts exactly!! (What if she's scared or needs cuddles?) It hurts so much to think about, but like you said I'm sure our babes will be fine! But yes, lots and lots and lots of tears!! I already warned my co-workers haha. Good luck on going back!! Lots of Hugs to you!! 

tviste

I started back to work yesterday. It was a busy enough day that I didn't think about my daughter much. My mind was at ease in a way because she was at home with her dad. Starting on Thursday she will be going to a day home and I am very anxious! The routine we currently have is amazing, and I know that is going to change. My daughter doesn't sleep well in strange places either so I know she will cry when she gets laid down for her nap. If we can get through the first month, I think we will be okay. 

Good luck to all the other mama's going back to work!!

RobsMrs77

Ahh, ladies, I feel for you all, really I do.
I remember only to well returning back to work after 6 months when we had Liam.
Yes, it hurts, yes there will be tears, but before you know it, a new routine is in place.
It's a great way for your LO to start socialising with other LO's too.  Makes a massive difference when they get older, helps build confidence, interaction & speech development etc.

It does take a good few weeks, or even a couple of months to adjust - but, just remember the extra money will benefit your family SO much. Also, your baby will be absolutely FINE, believe me.

Best of luck & hugs to you all. You'll get there. 

TeacherMom210

RobsMrs77 said:

Ahh, ladies, I feel for you all, really I do.
I remember only to well returning back to work after 6 months when we had Liam.
Yes, it hurts, yes there will be tears, but before you know it, a new routine is in place.
It's a great way for your LO to start socialising with other LO's too.  Makes a massive difference when they get older, helps build confidence, interaction & speech development etc.

It does take a good few weeks, or even a couple of months to adjust - but, just remember the extra money will benefit your family SO much. Also, your baby will be absolutely FINE, believe me.

Best of luck & hugs to you all. You'll get there. 

This exactly. It's an adjustment, but everything will be fine.