TW - I'm out — The Bump
April 2017 Moms

TW - I'm out

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Started bleeding and severe cramping on Thursday, went to ER that night. Was told cervix was closed and baby was measuring 6w1d with just flicker of heartbeat.  Bleeding and cramping never let up all weekend so went to doc this afternoon. Ultrasound showed no growth and no heartbeat. I'm pretty sure doc still thought it was just early. I assured the doctor that my cycles were like clockwork, we timed this, and got a positive pregnancy test 10 dpo.

He did a pelvic exam, and now my cervix is open and soft, so he thinks I am getting ready to pass the sac in next couple days.  Will follow up again with doc in a couple days.  

I'm devasted but have had the last four days to start processing everything.  I'm glad to have an answer now, and also glad I am free to take some more pain medication. 

I'm so sad to leave you ladies, but I am rooting for you all and hoping you have healthy, uneventful pregnancies and beautiful babies come April. 
Me & DH: 34 - Married 2011
DS: 10-9-14
MC: 9-4-16

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  • So incredibly sorry. Please take care if yourself  <3
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  • I am so sorry @bwo. You are in my thoughts and prayers.  <3
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  • Please know you're in my thoughts. Take care of yourself during this difficult time. So sorry. 
    **TW kids and loss mentioned**

    -- DS 3.8.14
    -- MC 9.22.16 at 8 wks




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  • I am sorry for your loss and hope your family and friends will bring you comfort during this time.
    DS1 - 8-10-2015 LO2 - EDD 4-30-2017
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself. 
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  • I'm so sorry. 
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  • Sending T&P  <3
    Me: 29 DH: 33
    Married: 5/30/2013
    DSS #1: 5/25/2007
    DSS #2: 1/22/2011
    DS #3: 7/8/2012
    BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
    DS #4: 4/21/17
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  • I'm so sorry. Sending good vibes ❤️
    bwo
  • This really makes me sad. You will be missed. Please take care of yourself, I'm sorry you are going through this. 
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  • Prayers for you, give yourself all the time you need to process this and hoping for a rainbow baby when you're ready 
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  • So sorry. Sending T&P.
    bwo
  • So sorry to read this. Think of you. Be kind to yourself. 


    TTC since June 2015
    DH {29} Me {26}
    PCOS Diagnosis | September 2015
    IF Specialist | November 2015
    Provera | November 2015 | 179 Days since last AF
    HSG | December 2015 | All Clear
    Provera | January 2016 | 46 Days since last AF
    1st round of Femara 2.5mgs | January 2016 | No response
    Provera | February 2016 | 44 Days since last AF
    2nd round of Femara 5mgs | March 2016 | O CD18 | AF 3/28/2016
    3rd round of Femara 5mgs | March/April 2016 | No response | AF 5/6/2016
    4th round of Femara 7.5mgs | May 2016 | BFP June 4, 2015
    EDD: 2/15/2017 | Loss Discovered: 6/11/2016 | NMC: 6/15/2015
    Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 100 IU | June 2016 | IUI June 29, 2016 | Beta: July 13, 2016 | AF 7/12/2016
    Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 112.5IU | July 2016 | IUI July 27, 2016 | Beta: August 10, 2016 | + Beta 171!
    BFP on Digi 8/8/2016 | Beta #2: 396 = 39 hour doubling time | Beta #3: 1659 = 34 hour doubling time
    First ultrasound: August 17, 2016; 5 weeks; Gestational Sac and yolk
    Second ultrasound: August 25, 2016; 6W+1D; Heartbeat 105bpm
    Third ultrasound: August 31, 2016; 7 weeks; Heartbeat 136bpm
    Graduated from RE: August 31, 2016
    EDD: April 17, 2017


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  • So sorry to hear this. Praying for comfort for you during this time. 
    DD March 2015
    Baby #2 due April 2017

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  • So sorry for your loss.
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  • I am truly sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts. 
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you!
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  • So very sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this.
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  • So sorry for your loss! 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. 
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  • So sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
    EDD 4/15/17
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss
    Me: 37, DH: 35 :: TCC since 2/11 SA: Perfect! CD3  HSG = Blocked Right Tube
    April- Femara 2.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN   May- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN
    June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN  August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes
    September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN  October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
    IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176  c/p @ 4w4d
    FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN
    IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
    FET #2 Cancelled, Right Tube Developed a Hydro  8/28 Hydro & Scar Tissue Removed  Cleared for FET
    FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th
    2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th
    2015- 2 failed FET. We are done
    SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16   EDD 4/1/17

     
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  • I'm so sorry.  :(
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  • So sorry for your loss :(
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  • I'm so sorry  :'(

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  • So very sorry - life can be so cruel sometimes. Please take care of yourself! 
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  • I am so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    DS born 9/13/2012
    BFP#5: 8/21/2016
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  • So very sorry. 
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  • Sending healing and comforting thoughts your way.  Sorry to hear of this sad news.

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  • So very sorry for your loss!  Take care
    Married: 9/19/09
    DS 1: 10/17/10
    DS 2: 6/30/13
    MMC found 4/2/16   D&C 4/4/16 & 4/10/16
     Cautiously expecting.....EDD 4/1/17
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  • I'm sorry to hear this @bwo . Please take care of yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself. <3
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  • So sorry for your loss
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  • i feel awful reading this.  I'm so sorry. I had a loss two years ago and loosing a baby is the hardest thing any couple can go through.  my only advice is that you and your SO keep your communication strong and be there for each other. My thoughts and prayers are with you <3 your not alone, I'm so sorry. 
    bwo
  • Very sorry to hear the sad news. 
    ****Trigger mentioned****
    Us:  37, 38, unexplained IF
    TTC for the second time
    Married 10/21/12 to my wonderful wife
    TTC with frozen donor sperm and science
    since 2/2014

    7 IUIs, 1 cancelled due to too many follicles, 6 BFNs.
    IVF #1 & 2 Failed
    IVF #3 20 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized with ICSI, 6 made it to day 5
                 2 blasts transferred 7/17
    Beta #1 7/26 ***BFP*** 144
    Beta #2 7/28 271
    Beta #3 8/4 1972
    8/15 - Officially pregnant with TWINS
    9/1 - Baby B no longer has a heartbeat, Baby A is holding on!
    9/29 - MMC
    Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 15
    Next cycle will be FET without PGS testing. 
    3/27 - FET transferred 2 "excellent" blasts 
    Beta #1 4/5 ***BFP*** 107 (9dp5dt)
    Beta #2 4/7  244  (11dp5dt)
    Beta #3 4/14  2038   (18dp5dt)
    4/25 - Confirmed pregnancy. Baby measured 1 day behind, FHR 132
    5/9 - 2nd U/S - Baby measured one day ahead, FHR 178
    12/21 - Baby Boy born
    12/10 - FET transfered 1 3BB blast
    Beta #1 12/19 - 88
    Beta #2 12/21 - 230
    Beta #3 12/18 - 3066
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Wishing you and your family comfort and healing.
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