Started bleeding and severe cramping on Thursday, went to ER that night. Was told cervix was closed and baby was measuring 6w1d with just flicker of heartbeat. Bleeding and cramping never let up all weekend so went to doc this afternoon. Ultrasound showed no growth and no heartbeat. I'm pretty sure doc still thought it was just early. I assured the doctor that my cycles were like clockwork, we timed this, and got a positive pregnancy test 10 dpo.
He did a pelvic exam, and now my cervix is open and soft, so he thinks I am getting ready to pass the sac in next couple days. Will follow up again with doc in a couple days.
I'm devasted but have had the last four days to start processing everything. I'm glad to have an answer now, and also glad I am free to take some more pain medication.
I'm so sad to leave you ladies, but I am rooting for you all and hoping you have healthy, uneventful pregnancies and beautiful babies come April.