It took my husband and I years to have a baby, never ever thought id become pregnant. When we first married i was 26 and we went in for fertility treatments for a long time and nothing worked, i gained 40 lbs and was so sad, we were told we have unexplained fertility. I spent many nights crying myself to sleep. Then when I turned 38 I told my husband we have to try again, at the age of 39 I became pregnant through IUI and fertility shots. I was so grateful and happy and I love this little guy more then anything in the world. He is all I need. But people can have some hurtful comments when they ask if I'm planning on having a second baby. I really never thought about it because i am so grateful that i was blessed to even be a mom. But now people are saying if I don't have a second baby my baby will be all alone in this world when my husband and I pass away. What !! That made me cry. Most people in my family live into their 90s so that means my baby will be at least 50 when i pass away, thats plenty of time for him to establish relationships, he won't be alone. But now I'm thinking about it, and i don't even know if i can get pregnant again.